mstay4

@mstay4 (69)

United States • Age 40

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flowers, chocolates, stuffed toys---which presents do you usually give/ receive?

rogen_andrei @rogen_andrei (638) • Philippines 26 Feb 07

OK. these are the most common gift ideas we all have for our special someone. I personally would love to give flowers to my girlfriend once in a while, the smell of those are just really beautiful. However, the last present I gave...

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mstay4 Some people may think I'm strange but I don't really like any of those things. I don't like flowers b/c they don't last, I don't like chocolates b/c I'm not a sweets kinda person and I don't like stuft animals b/c they take up room. I would much rather just...

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Having kids close together or acouple years apart

rachelzwo @rachelzwo (310) • United States 26 Feb 07

At first I thought that I wanted to wait until my daughter was atleast 2 before we had another kid, but now I'm wondering if we should have our kids closer together. My baby is 6 months old right now. I really want to have another...

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mstay4 My children are 3 yrs and 12 weeks. I thought I wanted to have my children close together but we have our son when we were younger and we wanted to get thru school a little bit more before we had more children. I got pregnant with our daughter when my son was...

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Mixed Couples

js_thomas02 @js_thomas02 (131) • United States 1 Feb 07

How do you feel about mixed couples? Are you part of one? How did your parents and friends react? I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas regarding this matter.

relationships

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mstay4 I am a white woman married to a black man so no of course I do not see anything wrong with mixed couples. We have been together for almost 7 years and have been married almost 3 years. We have a 3 yr old son and a 12 week old daughter together. When we first...

26 Feb 07

Mixed Couples

js_thomas02 @js_thomas02 (131) • United States 1 Feb 07

How do you feel about mixed couples? Are you part of one? How did your parents and friends react? I would love to hear your thoughts and ideas regarding this matter.

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26 Feb 07

mixed couples.who agrees its alright or not alright?

sunshineorrain @sunshineorrain (119) • United States 15 Dec 06

black people marrying white people.agree or disagree?

mixed couples

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mstay4 I agree I am a white woman married happily to a black man. We have 2 beautiful children together and want 2 more. I wouldn't trade my life for anything.

26 Feb 07

how did your husband / boyfriend propose

lynn3024 @lynn3024 (198) • Canada 25 Feb 07

I work at tim hortons and one night i was at the drive thru window. it was not busy. My husband came through the drive thru and when he got to the window he asked me to marry him.. on our wedding day we went to tim hortons and had...

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mstay4 My husband first asked me one night when we were out sledding in the snow behind his residence hall when he was in college. It was semi enclosed so he asked real loud so everyone could hear. Of course I said yes. We didn't plan a date yet though. Then a couple...

26 Feb 07

Facial hair or no facial hair!

sensesfail @sensesfail (2251) • India 24 Feb 07

Guys do you like you have facial hair or just have it clean shaved? And for the ladies,do you like guys with facial hair or the smooth kinda guys with no facial hair?

facial hair

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mstay4 I like a little bit of facial hair. My husband has a little gotee and a very thin mustache and I think it is so sexy. When he is clean shaven he looks like he is about 15 and then people look at us funny.

24 Feb 07

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How did you come up with your childs name?

nascar_girl_4jr @nascar_girl_4jr (315) • United States 24 Feb 07

With my first daughter, We wanted her initials to match her dads initials, and with my second daughter I found her name (Madison) in a crossword puzzle I was doing when I was 8 months pregnant. (answer was Madison Avenue) but I...

babies name

how to name a child

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mstay4 My son is named after his father for his first and half of his middle name. We also gave him a middle name different from his father's so he wouldn't be a Jr. His middle name is hyphenated and he goes by his middle name most of the time. For our daughter we...

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My ex wrote me a letter. Should I write back?

thyst07 @thyst07 (2079) • United States 24 Feb 07

We broke up when I moved to a different state. I moved on fairly quickly- he still hasn't. We did say we'd keep in touch, but I'm not really sure what to say to him. He keeps talking about how he misses me and that if we hadn't...

boyfriend

distance

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mstay4 I say write him back a nice letter staing that you don't regret your relationship with him that it made an impression on ( if this is true of course)you but that you have since moved on. Don't be rude or hateful but let him know that it will never be angain...

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To what extent a couple should be intimate before marriage???

maverick_ind @maverick_ind (210) • India 24 Feb 07

This is a question whose answer answer would vary from country to country...In some countries, there is no bar in the relationship before wedding, but in countries like India and some Islamic nations,there is strict code of...

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mstay4 Well my husband and I were indeed intimate before we were married as we have a child who was born befor we were married. We had been together for 4 years before we were married and had an intimate relationship most of that time. I do not regret a bit of it. I...

24 Feb 07

Sleeping with a partner - which side of the Bed

pinklilly @pinklilly (3443) • Australia 7 Feb 07

Which side of the bed do you sleep? Is it the side closest to the Door? I was reading this Book and it said that males will sleep on the side of the bed closest to the door... And when I thought about it my partner so...

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mstay4 This is true. I thought about all of the places we have slept and my husband has always slept closest to the door. I think that is strange. I have never noticed that before. I asked him why he slept where he did and he said he had no idea. The funny part is it...

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What age was the toddler bed introduced?

christieswebb @christieswebb (238) • United States 24 Feb 07

My son is about to turn 2 and he is still in his crib. It's one of those convertible kind so it will change into a toddler bed. What age is the best time to make the change?

bed

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mstay4 I put my son in a toddler bed when he was 9 months old. He tried to climb out of his crib so we decided to put him into a toddler bed so he wouldn't get hurt. We never had problems transitioning him b/c he got to pick out his new big boy bedding (The Wiggles)...

24 Feb 07

What is your favorite candy bar?

scooter1024 @scooter1024 (1243) • United States 30 Oct 06

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mstay4 I like Snickers or 100 Grand. My husband like white chocolate Herseys.

24 Feb 07

Have you ever bought....?

gewcew23 @gewcew23 (8007) • United States 17 Dec 06

Have you ever bought personalized chocolate bars for a special occasion? I am trying to start another branch of my business and wondered if people actually do purcahse them. Thanks for looking at my post.

choc bars

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mstay4 I purchased personalized cand bars for both of my children's births. for my son it said HEREHEIS (here he is) and it had his name birhtdate, weight, and length on the back. I did the same for my daughter but of course it said HERESHEIS. I really liked the idea...

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Does anyone else hate Meredith?

MaraWaskowski @MaraWaskowski (10) • United States 24 Feb 07

I know that Meredith is the title character, but I know that I can't be the only one who finds her so incredibly annoying. I think the show would be so much better without her. Really why does the show need her? Do you agree or...

greys anatomy

hate

meredith

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mstay4 I don't really care for her. She seems too whiny for me. I like Christina and Burke as well as George, but my favorite is Callie. My husband says she reminds me of myself. I don't know aboutt aht but I think she is the best and I am so glad they made her a...

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Being the invisable mom

smurfettewv @smurfettewv (359) • United States 23 Feb 07

How many moms are invisible to their husbands and children. Here I feel like the invisable mom all the time. I try to do so many things, with 4 kids and a hubby thats a lot, I go to school via internet full time, then volunteer...

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mstay4 I don't know that I feel invisible but I feel stretched thin. I run a home daycare during the day with 5 kids; my two ages 3 yr and 11 wks then I have a 13wk old and 11 month old twins. Then I go to school at night. When I get home all I want to do is sleep...

24 Feb 07

What did you do for your child's first birthday?

sarahkskeeters @sarahkskeeters (235) • United States 23 Feb 07

Did you throw a big party? Where did you have it at? Was there a theme? What kinds of activities did you do?

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mstay4 My son's first birthday was a rubber duckies theme. he was stuck on ducks at the time. It wasn't a big party we just ahd family over to celebrate with us. We had it at our house so that he could nap if he needed and indeed he did fall asleep during his party...

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