n30wing

@n30wing (4767)

Philippines • Age 48

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What is the different between friendship and love?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

I think the different is how much you can get hurt with each other. When it comes from the heart the pain is too much hard to go on wounds hard to heal and the scarce. With friendship hard to get someone you can trust again. But...

love and friendship

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How would you feel when your bf/gf tell you all the time he/she is busy?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

Once is ok but twice or thrice maybe I'll think it's only an excuse. Maybe she just want me to understand it simple that she wants to break up. Just for me to adjust that she is not there. Even a text just to say hi or hello would...

busy

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2 people

If your bf/gf tells you I need space, what does it mean to you?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 23 Jul 09

Well I'll just think she wants to find her self and answer all the question she is the one who could only answer. Busy with her work and want to focus with it first, and just don't want to be disturb, but splitting up I don't...

space and time

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What if your bestfriend ask you to date his/her ex would you or not?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 22 Jul 09

If my bestfriend ask me to date his ex gf I'll be thinking why and what his reason. If he tells me his dating someone else seriousely and his thinking that were a great match still I would not fall for his trap and still say no. I...

bestfriend

date

dating

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What do you do when you feel weak?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 22 Jul 09

I just remeber those who make me stronger, whenever I feel doubting myself I remeber those who believe in me. I also just count my blessings it helps me a lot not to make me feel this way. Have a nice day to all of you!

weak

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1 person

Have you ever wanted something so bad it hurts you?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 22 Jul 09

Yes it hurts me but I know I can't have everything I want. I just think anyway it will just passed by and forget it hurts. God has a reason why, I just accept it, God want something better for me. Have a nice day to all of you!

hurt

hurting

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1 person

Why do love hurts?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

Everybody knows that love hurts. It can be lifes greatest joy or most enduring pain. Nothing wounds us more to love someone who does not return our love. If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to loose, why is it...

hurting

hurts

love

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2 people

Do you judge a book by the cover?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

Usually I rather know the person, I just don't believe in first impression. I just don't wanna be judge that easy too. If the person don't know me then ask me. If the person don't agree with me, argue with me. If you don't want to...

judge

knowing

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1 person

Which is better a lie that draws a smile, or the truth that draws a tear?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

I rather just know the truth and tears on my eyes, then just lie and draws smile.Anyway if in the end I will loose the person who will make me smile, I rather just loose her now and tears in my eyes. In the end there will be pain,...

smile

tears

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1 person

"I Love you and you are only a FRIEND"

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 18 Jul 09

You walk by me everyday and sa hello.Everyday you take time out to listen to me. You talk to me,smile at me laugh with me, and have fun with me. Well, I talk, smile and laugh too,But inside I'm hurting. Deep down it hurts to be...

friend

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Can you describe yourself when your in a relationship?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 5 Jul 09

I always try to strive to make it better each and everyday for both of us. Well I would say that I am the dominant type, but there re times I also like to be under. Have a nice day to all of you!

relationship

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Do you still believe in marriage?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 5 Jul 09

Definitely yes I do believe in marriage. It's very sacred for me. That you can only married once and no turning back. Especially when you both love each other so much and both of you want's to share love and life for ever. It's...

marriage

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Do you think there is still hope for a long term relationship now a days?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 5 Jul 09

For me there is still hope for a long term relationship.There are so many efforts to activity build your bond by doing new things with your woman/man that can ignore anything that promotes time and learning together to make things...

long term relationship

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When do you know when a woman/man is perfectly for you?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 5 Jul 09

When she could make me feel comfortable and feel homely. I can talk to her anything under the sun and really honest with what I feel, and she could understand eve4rything about me even my bad side and good side. When she could...

perfectly for you

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What things are you thankful today?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 26 Jun 09

I am thankful that I was able to eat what I want. I was thankful that I was not late today from work, thankful that I have a supportive fiancee, and I am thankful for the blessings that God is giving m. and last of all thankful...

thankful

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3 people

What lesson in life you've learned the hard way?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 25 Jun 09

For me I learned a lot the hard way, trusting too much and be betrayed, Loving without being appreciated, expecting too much, but nothing happens. Giving so much understanding, still doesn't reciprocate, going home, and no one...

learn

lessons

life

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How often do you think about food?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 25 Jun 09

For me I am stopping to think about food, maybe just when I feel hungry that is the only time I think of food now. If I won't stop thinking about it, I'll be having a hard time to loose weight. If I get hungry I just eat a banana...

food

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Would you give a physical abusive gf/bf a second chance?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 24 Jun 09

It would take more than the usual apology for me to forgive her, but I'd still hear her out, to see if her argument is reasonable. I would give her another chance if she asks for it with a repentant heart. I'll just make sure that...

physical abusive

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2 people

Will you value a partner who doesn't hold and prolonged grudges?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 23 Jun 09

I tell her that I find it so ridiculous when people stay mad after peace has been made. I listen to her side, the move on once things are settled and resolved. If I still have trouble letting my anger off,that is were I decide...

grudges

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1 person

Have you ever cried over a relationship?

n30wing @n30wing (4767) • Philippines 22 Jun 09

Yes! I think it's called love! It happens to me even I am a man. Especially when you love the person so much and hurt you and left you, no matter how you hold on. I wont cry if I don't love her. You only knew love when you feel...

cry

tears

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1 person