neo_matrix

@neo_matrix (884)

India • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

World is illusion

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American english VS British english

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 19 Dec 09

hey is country has its own versions of english i suppose.like the Indian version includes many a words that had found place in the oxfords.but what i am interested to know here in this post is the subtle differences in the...

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neo_matrix i do understand the kind of confusion it creates.infact i didn't noticed much of it before except that british english had some extra letters in the spellings,till i came across a quiz question where i came to knew that "!" is called exclamation point...

21 Jan 10

court marriage vs ritualistic traditional marriage

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 18 Jan 10

what would you prefer? marrying in the court or marrying in the traditional way with all of its ritualistic fervor.please share your views.

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neo_matrix thanks for sharing your experience .

19 Jan 10

court marriage vs ritualistic traditional marriage

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 18 Jan 10

what would you prefer? marrying in the court or marrying in the traditional way with all of its ritualistic fervor.please share your views.

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neo_matrix very well said "valid".i have my reservations on the extravagant way of conducting the affair.

19 Jan 10

can you share your house with someone poor and needy?

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 18 Jan 10

just having a thought.my country has a few hundreds of millionaires and billionaires and also half of the population struggling to make their living for a day.would it relieve the problem a bit if a part of their income is...

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neo_matrix thats a completely new information at hand.even if he is faking the things but in some way its benefitting others. yes,it would have been more commendable, if secondary gains were not involved as you said.thanks a lot for your response.

19 Jan 10

can you share your house with someone poor and needy?

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 18 Jan 10

just having a thought.my country has a few hundreds of millionaires and billionaires and also half of the population struggling to make their living for a day.would it relieve the problem a bit if a part of their income is...

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neo_matrix thanks for having a humane outlook. having concern, someday may bring you in the position where you can actually help others.just maintain your sensitivity.

18 Jan 10

court marriage vs ritualistic traditional marriage

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 18 Jan 10

what would you prefer? marrying in the court or marrying in the traditional way with all of its ritualistic fervor.please share your views.

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neo_matrix congrats! have a happy life ahead..

18 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix you are absolutely right.the grandmother pampers her a lot as well as other members in the joint family.thanks

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix thanks a lot .i did try to subtly suggest but it was dismissed outright. that family is orthodox too.so you can understand my situation .prostrating before all the elders even if they may not be that aged or learned is common in that part of eastern India....

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix thanks.i do feel good moral values are not dependent on outward gestures.i just wished they understood this fact.

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix thanks

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix yeah i think approaching the mother alone instead of mother and grandmother would have been bit better.but really i was disgusted with the continual reinforcement to that poor child who kept on doing it non stop.

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix thanks.there was no option left for me as my subtle suggestions were falling on deaf ears .i may sound unconventional to them but i don't think such heightened religiousity at such tender age helps in any way.

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix yes, i agree with the cultural differences, since its common in hindu culture to prostrate and show respect to God and elders. but i am well aware with a child's rights because of my human rights background.the fact that it is completely improper to train a...

14 Jan 10

a suggestion needed !!

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 12 Jan 10

hey!just curious if how many of you would bother to share a few parenting tips with your relatives.i recently visited my distantly related brother's house and to my astonishment the whole family had trained their 3 yr old daughter...

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neo_matrix no it was more than imitation for her mother and grandmother made the child do that in front of the god's idol and then to the elders.like when we went her mother asked her to greet us in that way and she simply started doing and wont stop even if i told thats...

12 Jan 10

American english VS British english

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 19 Dec 09

hey is country has its own versions of english i suppose.like the Indian version includes many a words that had found place in the oxfords.but what i am interested to know here in this post is the subtle differences in the...

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neo_matrix thanks for your response! i have gradually started appreciating the difference.

4 Jan 10

hey!!! i am addicted to mylot.

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 27 Dec 09

i just came over to my friend's place in another state for the new year holidays. and i saw her responding to posts at mylot.i couldn't stop myself from posting my responses too. have you ever used anyone else's computer for...

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neo_matrix yes i completely agree with you.happy lotting!

1 Jan 10

getting paid for reading emails-whats that?

neo_matrix @neo_matrix (884) • India 30 Dec 09

i came across a banner by propaidemail which states to pay money for reading emails to its members.anyone out there...any idea..

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neo_matrix ok.thats not so innocuous as it seems.thanks

30 Dec 09

Gone With The Wind Turns 70!

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 16 Dec 09

Last night Gone With The Wind turned 70! What a great film! I remember my mom telling me the story of when she saw it in the theater.She and her mom went but didn't know how long the film Really was.They enjoyed the film but they...

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neo_matrix thanks for the BR.have a good day!

30 Dec 09