nicki320

@nicki320 (34)

China • Age 35

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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What do you do when people judge you?

blessedsavie @blessedsavie (178) • Philippines 4 Sep 12

People nowadays are very quick to judge. They believe in gossips even though they haven't talked to you yet or confronted you about the issue. Last month had been a very difficult month for me. There have been issues about me that...

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nicki320 I know it hurts, really. I've been through that,still now. Usually I would cry and run away from those who like to judge. They just talk.Try to take it as a normal conversation, you don't have to pay for the things that you talk about, that's why people like...

5 Sep 12

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Keep feeling negative when I know it's not good for me

jacklintan @jacklintan (1302) • Malaysia 25 Jul 11

I have books telling me, the whole world is in my hands if I want it and I can grab it. Yes, I agreed. I have people looking at me and say, " you can achieved more than what you have now". Yes, I agreed. I do my job and I...

feeling negative

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nicki320 You are feeling unhappy because you think you deserve something better. So you can't accept the present situation.But the more you try to escape from them, the tighter they will grab you. So the more depressed you will get.Try to accept your negative thoughts,...

25 Jul 11

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They are / you are old enough to know better? really, I am?

SomeCowgirl @SomeCowgirl (32190) • United States 1 Jul 11

Everyone has heard this statement, and yet I don't see WHY. Everyone has their own level of maturity and thus no matter how old or young you are, I don't believe anyone is truly "old" enough to know better. You can be a 50 some...

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nicki320 I think by talking to different people will get you to understand yourself better. For example, a fact about me: I am too shy to talk to boys that I like. Two different conclusions:A senior person thought I was mature enough to cope but just lack of confidence...

1 Jul 11

Do you have anxiety in your life?

celticeagle @celticeagle (173137) • Boise, Idaho 1 Jul 11

I have social anxiety. Mostly because of my weight and how I fear people will see me. I also have a great fear of the unknown. I didn't used to when I was younger. SOmetimes I am able to handle it and alot of times it gets the...

fear of the unknown

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nicki320 Of course, everyone has anxiety and stress in their daily life. For me, extremly, I am a sensitive person which means I can be easily influenced by people's words and actions and then triggered anxiety. I force myself to get up early to study and it becomes...

1 Jul 11

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