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night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher hmmmm :S, I think i shouldn't get affected as well, things like these happen only when its time, there shouldn't be a rush.

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher Yes there still are some regions in my country where these kinds strict rules are followed, Thanks to God my parents aren't barbarians *phew

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher I get your point cutie:) the main goal should be my health not some stupid guy who like to have a wonderful figured body instead of human;) you know what i mean :)

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher Hello :) Well after reading your response i have visited the dukan's diet site, it looks promising :) Ciao:)

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher Well,doroffee,you are right i must say, this kinda thinking really is sexist. But the thing is you can not shut people's mouths,all you can do is ignore and not be one of them. This is what I am gonna do. God help me :) About the psychologist, nope......

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher maximax,that Mr.Right is the one i am waiting for ;) lol But yes i think i should be losing weight for myself, not for others :)

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher You are right laydee, marriage isn't a contest. I really needed that encouragement :) so while i was reading your response there was a continuous smile on my face :) SO thank you, your words have uplifted my morale.:)

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night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher Yes you are right i shouldn't be bothered by what other people have to say. I should feel happy about how i am doing and losing and keeping it off. Well frankly, somebody who'll marry you for your looks is not someone that you deserve. :)

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher dagami, i take 4-5 meals (2 snacks and 3 main meals) daily. I drink around 3-4 ltrs of water daily. I don't like sugar/sweet taste so no chocolates,cakes etc. I have cut my soda and fast food intake from daily to occasionally. I have incorporated exercise one...

29 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher Thank you so much :) It good to know that there are people in the world who think same as you do :) And frankly, i felt lighter just after i posted my rant here on mylot :)

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night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher I wish i was born somewhere i was allowed to do things my own way. Its not like that I like being fat, but its also not the end of the world. I hope things get better really soon.

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher Sadly, I am doing all of the above for 7 months now.... I should have lost around 20 kgs but managed to lost only 5-6 kgs, I guess body types also add alot to your weight loss process

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

True that. Well If i look back in 2006 i wasn't obese. I weighed around 60 kgs then, which wasn't bad for 5.3 ft girl. Well, then due to some family tensions and studies, i put on weight gradually over the time span of four...

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night01watcher Yes you are right, that may be the cause. But i have been seeing the nutritionist as well since August. She says its better to lose weight slowly and never put it back on than to lose weight quickly and get fat again. But she hasn't put me on any medications...

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher Well you are right jaiho2009, woman's right is a big problem in all under developing countries. My parents are very very supporting, but the relatives, they just like to talk and its basically because of them that I am so hurt

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher I have fought their negative thoughts for five years, and still am fighting. But sometimes it becomes impossible for you, sometimes you feel like you have had enough. That's why i came here to express my feelings ;(

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher My parents are searching for the suitor but the thing is wither we don't like the family or they don't like us. But i really think these decision should be made with much concern and care because as it is said here that not only two lives are going to be...

28 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 28 Mar 13

"When will you get married?" Yes that question. I am originally form Asia (Pakistan). To be honest people here think that if a girls doesn't get married or engaged by 25, its like she has committed a crime or may its like...

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night01watcher I don't like this really, they don't even care how their every single word is affecting the subject.

28 Mar 13

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 7 Mar 13

Today we were told that the amount of processed meat that we eat is taking years off our lifespans. In the western world we eat vast quantities of sausages, bacon and burgers.....especially burgers. Too much fat and salt is...

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night01watcher Well good to know that. Since i didn't know that so i responded like that. As you know the first step is to change yourself first and from there you can spread it on. Like I changed my habits first now i try to tell my other family members about it. :)And...

11 Mar 13

night01watcher @night01watcher (259) • Italy 27 Feb 13

Okay my mind is always full of imaginations, i just don't know how to put them in words. Whenever i try to write fiction, specifically fiction i get stuck. What should I do in this regard, what should be the beginning step for...

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writing

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night01watcher @sinfulRose thank you thank you so very much. Actually I am trying to mingle my personal life with the character. So lets see how it gets along. The main character of the story and the villain, they are actually brother and sisters and they come to know it in...

11 Mar 13

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