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nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 7 May 10

I am a married mother of 4 and my husband has plans for me and my kids for Mother's Day. I will spend time with my mother, but she thinks that I am supposed to be with her the whole day. What do I do? She acts like she does not...

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nikkij2079 Tks jillhill but she is a very hard person to please. Nothing I do is good enough for her. I stop what I'm doing to do for her but its never a thank you or nothing just complaints.

7 May 10

steve_sanchez @steve_sanchez (35) • United States 27 Mar 10

I have talked to several parents, and it seems like when it comes to teaching your own children (reading or writing), we tend to have a really high standard for them. We get so frustrated when our children don't pick up learning...

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nikkij2079 I don't get frustrated with my 13 month old but I do with my 13 and 7 yr old because they act like they don't have a clue what they are doing. When they come home from school and do their homework, they act like they want me to give them the answers and that...

2 Apr 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 I am so sorry to hear that rajaiv. But I listen to everything she tells me because teachers are human and lie too. My problem comes when you have 3 schools and ALL the teachers say the same thing, her attitude and her mouth. That is really my only problem with...

22 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Lady that is exactly what she told me when we talked to each other. She has to earn her freedom and she is not doing what she's supposed to do at home. She also said about fitting in at school and I'm trying to get her to understand that all she has to do is...

22 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 before you try and judge someone you should know what you are talking about. for your information i was the best child my mother had and she only had two. a's and b's in school and never had a teacher call about me and graduated number 10 out of 352. if for...

22 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Mrrome do you have any kids? If so then you should know that you can't be friends with your kids until they are grown. From the time they are born until they make 18 we are still respondsible for everything that they do. Some kids don't know the difference...

22 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Just because she is a teenager does not mean she is spanking free. Yes Raven I think that Military school would do a hell of a lot for her. This discussion is just a little bit of the things that we have been dealing with. Her attitude is very funky and other...

21 Mar 10

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 3 Mar 10

When I was in grade school I HATED school lunch! Everyday from first grade to sixth grade I brought my lunch. Peanut butter and Jelly everyday. Except when my mom would try to spice it up and put peanut butter and fluff. lol I...

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nikkij2079 We could not leave neither but we did lol. I guess that was one of the good things about having a car.

21 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Thank you nonersays, but I talk to her everyday when she gets home from school. The spanking are sparatic and not often at all I would say 3 times a yr if that much. Right now she cant do anything, no tv, cell phone, outside and she only as one pair of shoes...

19 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Raven thank you for your response. I have tried for the longest time to talk to my daughter about what goes on with her as long as it is not mess and it does not threaten her life. We are victims and Hurricane Katrina and I truly believe that has a lot to do...

19 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Silver I am sorry that you also had to go through that but kids have to follow orders at home so when they grow up they can be respectful and responsible citizens. When they get a job they can't do what they want, they have to follow rules and regulations. So...

19 Mar 10

nikkij2079 @nikkij2079 (126) • United States 19 Mar 10

Ok mylotters I need opinions and mr or mrs know it all. I have a 13 that I really thought I did a good job with until about a year ago. Within that time she has been acting out at school and home. She thinks she can just do...

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nikkij2079 Apoljuice1 I am so sorry that you had to go through that. I want my child to be free. I want her to be able to go out with her friends and have fun, but she does not act like she is 13 yrs old. She goes from wanting to be grown to talking like a baby. I want...

19 Mar 10

common_man @common_man (1799) • India 19 Mar 10

First salary, its very important for all. they do some thing special worth remembering with first salary. What did you do with your first salary? do you remember? As regards me, my total first salary was pick pocketed and i...

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nikkij2079 Yes I have and that is without any government assistance. Now I am married with 4 beautiful kids and a WONDERFUL husband.

19 Mar 10

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