oakgate

@oakgate (18)

Nigeria • Age 45

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Dad Or Mom

mr_nerd @mr_nerd (129) • India 5 Feb 07

Whom do you think you love most your mom or your dad. I heard Guys love their mom and girls love their dad. Is it true. So whom you love or like more.

dad

love

mom

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oakgate Pesonally I love my Dad more than my mum cos the guy is just too much.noot that I dont love my mum I do love her like 40% and my dad the remaining 60% and I am a guy. of course I have my reasons and pls dont bother to ask.

6 Feb 07

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will you marry me...

fxysxysrkly @fxysxysrkly (619) • United States 27 Jan 07

How did he propose to you? Also men how did you propose to your lover. I love you here those romantic stories.

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oakgate Well I proposed to her the very first time I formally met her and I guess she must have received the greatest shock of her live then. We are happily married now any way. I think it is not really how or where he proposes that matters but for the two to know...

6 Feb 07

in your country's customs,whos family should pay for the wedding?

007Bond1974 @007Bond1974 (881) • Philippines 23 Jan 07

in our customs here usually the guys family pays for the wedding,but in our case(my fiancee and i)we both would pay for our wedding expenses...coz both our families are poor...so we saved for our own wedding...in you customs in...

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oakgate Hi bond 007, here in Nigeria there is what we call traditional wedding before the church or registry wedding. In the traditional wedding the groom is given a list of what to bring and the cost of this item ranges from N50,000 To N500,000.00 depending on the...

5 Feb 07

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Honeymoon after marriage

siddhinfo @siddhinfo (1500) • India 23 Jan 07

Do you think people should go for honeymoon after marriage? Or they can start their life without going to honeymoon?

honeymoon

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oakgate why not if you can afford it. I recently got married myself though my honeymoon was very short you know just 3 days in a five star hotel in Nigeria because I had to be back at work but we really enjoyed ourselves. And I think it should be atleast a yearly...

5 Feb 07

a person whose terminally ill.....should he be given the right to end his life?

nutcase222 @nutcase222 (676) • India 4 Feb 07

its termed as euthanasia......means painless killing of a patient who cant be treated or has no cure for his disease. a cancer or an aids patient knows very well that he has jss few days or months or may be years for...

life

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oakgate I don't think anyone has the right to take life. although I do understand that some people might be in such a painful situation that they wish they are dead but then the fact remains that taking ones life is a sin against God and the life after death in God's...

5 Feb 07

a person whose terminally ill.....should he be given the right to end his life?

nutcase222 @nutcase222 (676) • India 4 Feb 07

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oakgate Nobody has the right to take life.it is the same thing as killing whether it is your life you have taken or another persons life.and it is against the commandment of God. I know they call it mercy killing but then I understand some sick people may be in very...

5 Feb 07

How did you handle peer pressure,in, as far as smoking, drinking and drugs?

lalav1 @lalav1 (1052) • United States 4 Feb 07

All my friends in junior high smoked and they would ocassionally ask me if I wanted to, but I always said no. For one thing I would be embarassed if I started choking and sputtering and I just didn't have any desire to do it....

fear out being out of control

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oakgate I will say that it is always good to have a vision of what you want for your life and to know to a large extent how to achieve the vision.then giving in or not to peer pressure will not be an issue. Besides one needs to mind the kind of people one associate...

5 Feb 07

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Is this Domestic Abuse? Please help me decide

slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

is this abuse of some kind spousel abuse you tel

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oakgate well well well. This is certainly an abuse but if they have been truely married for so long that they have raised five kids together then there may be more to it than slickcut is making us to undersand. For all I care it might be a reaction to something the...

5 Feb 07