phatelara

@phatelara (243)

Malaysia • Age 42

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Discussions (12)

phatelara's Discussions

Thank you for your prayers

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 29 Sep 08

Hi! Just want to say a quick thank you to all MyLotters who have responded to my discussion posted about a month ago. Just to update you guys, I recently went back for my grandpa's 40th day of passing, we had a prayer+dinner...

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Need Some Prayers

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 22 Aug 08

I am facing a tough time right now. I recently lost my dear grandpa and now I have a study loan, which I need to pay for at least RM7000 (US $2053) in one week. I just started working and I do not know what to do, for I don't have...

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1 person

Losing your loved ones

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 19 Aug 08

I recently lost my grandfather. He was diagnosed with lung cancer and by the time we found out, he was already in critical condition. He couldn't even speak, as the cancer cells have spread to his throat. I miss him so much, but...

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Pick a song, dedicate it to someone and tell us why :)

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 2 Aug 08

Mine would be Brown Eyes by Destiny's Child, dedicated to my boyfriend, of course. The lyrics is simple but very meaningful. "and when he looks at me, his brown eyes tells his soul.." What about you? It doesn't have to be...

lyrics

music

songs

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2 people

What's your favourite love quotes?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 31 Jul 08

One of my hobbies is collecting quotes, particularly love quotes. I came across a few today when I opened my quotes journal for the first time in years! My favourites would be these: Love is like a piece of artwork, even the...

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1 person

Do you listen to music when you're studying/doing some paperwork?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 30 Jul 08

I love listening to music so much that I even listen to it when I'm studying or doing my homework. I can focus more when I listen to music than when it's too quiet around me. Music keeps me awake and energised. However, I have...

hard rock

hobbies

music

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8 people

Are you addicted to Facebook?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 30 Jul 08

I was! I was really addicted to several applications, such as DopeWars, MobWars, Battle of The Bands, FBHouse and Parking Wars, to name just a few. Nowadays, I just log in once or twice a day to check on those applications, but...

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2 people

I've earned $0.76 for my first day!

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 30 Jul 08

I'm happy! I'm glad that I joined MyLot, where I'm able to discuss my favourite topics with my online friends, make new friends and earn at the same time. I'll definitely recommend MyLot to my friends and get them to be my...

earnings

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4 people

Want to be a featured blogger?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 30 Jul 08

Hi, I have a weekly post in my blog where I feature a blogger. I'd like to invite a few fellow MyLotter friends to be featured starting this week. I will send you a set of 8 interview questions, they're really easy, promise! :):)...

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2 people

What do you think of indie bands that have gone mainstream?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 29 Jul 08

I personally prefer that indie bands stay as indie because whenever an indie band goes mainstream, they sort of lose the cool indie factor. They become celebrities and there's so much hype about them, it makes me lose interest in...

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1 person

Ever tried Pocky?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 29 Jul 08

I'm not sure if you'd categorise Pocky as candy, but have you heard of it? If you have, did you try any and which flavour did you try?Pocky is a Japanese snack. It's like pretzel covered with flavoured cream and sometimes...

japanese

pocky

snack

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2 people

Are you a good listener?

phatelara @phatelara (243) • Malaysia 29 Jul 08

For me, to be a good listener, one needs to not only listen but understand the message being conveyed and respond accordingly. After all, a good communication is supposed to be two-way. What's your view on this? Do you think...

communication

listener

listening skills

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