Is this guy hot or what?

Your husband is grilling while the picture was taken?! Well it's not obvious because he look so fab! I'm glad you found a wonderful husband that makes you and your children really happy, there are only few men like him. My husband is my number one fan and supporter, I have very low self esteem before I met him and he's the reason why I gained self confidence. Whenever I feel down about school, work and even about raising our son, he assures me that I'm doing a great job. He always look in the brighter side of every situation, acts like a clowning teenager most of the times but becomes a serious father when the situation needs it. He loves me and our son a lot.

It is very hard for me to judge someone just by looking at their picture.Let me tell you this.....when I first met my bf(which was online and all I had was a picture and a short profile)I thought okay he's not excatly my type but I started talking to him anyways.Then we went on our first date and it was like the person just came together and to me....he is the most attrative man alive.There are so many things about him that I just absolutely love and a lot of them you just can't see in his looks. My guess is....that you are the same way with your husband and that is a good thing....because your relationship is based on more than just what you can see from the outside. A pretty package may be nice to look at....but what's inside matters more to me. What I'm trying to say is.....just looking at the picture....he's just a ordinary guy....who is not ugly but not that great looking either.In other words....he's okay.....since I don't know the person inside.If I knew him the way you do....then that might be a completely different story.

I think he looks pretty good - he has kind eyes. Really it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks anyway - it's what you think that counts and it sounds like you're quite happy with what you've got! He sounds like a great guy. Don't suppose he has any single brothers in their mid-40's .......

First off, you think so, and you love him and respect him, and he does you. So, what I can't understand is why do you feel the need to compare your relationship with other people's. What really works for one couple might not for someone else. When me and my guy first met, and I showed my girlfriends his picture, they all thought he was a good looking man, and yeah, he cleans up real well in a suit (and doesn't mind wearing one!), he wears a uniform daily. But, even if they hadn't thought that, our personalities, our beliefs, his integrity and loyalty in all aspects of his life, all of those things are what mattered to me, and I didn't need a comparison 'survey' to know we were completely meant for each other, we both knew it from the moment we met.

He looks like a wonderful man, and you are very fortunate to have someone that you are so in love with. When I met my late husband, it was a work situation. I thought that he looked like Mr. Military, and I was no where near interested in him and his flat top haircut and muscular build. He won me over with his wonderful sense of humor and respect for every individual. He always put others before him. BEfore long, I was spending more and more time in his company and found him to be not only good looking, but charming and witty as well. I am so glad that you have found someone to make you happy!

woman like a men whose understanding , loyal and faithful... if you have all the three things your damn hot even your not gud lukin.. accept the truth that most of women are searchin for a good lookin man and have a stable job... what will i do with that guy if he's not faithful to me and he a playboy.. for me i dont care if you have a looks or not .. i like a men whose a three characteristic i wrote in the first line then your hot to me!!!!!

I only wanted one thing in the man I marry that he should be honest and able to stand up for hs views. My hubby is like that, I say that he is a man with backbone. We have been together for fourteen years now after marriage and dated for seven years before that so relationship we share has seen lots of up and downs. Only thiongi still admire him for is his integrity. He has never faltered in that and many temptations have been offered and we weathered the storm together. Someone falsely accused me of cheating him but instead of me clarifying the issue he stood up for me and warned te person so well and firmly that they never dared to speak a word about me further. I love him dearly and that trust of his and his honesty is makes me fall in love everyday with him.

Well what I look for in a man is not only his looks, but his personality, and his truthfulness. He has to be clean as well this is very important, and the way he dresses. Whether he is family orientated. He has to give me his time. Yes I agree with you that he has to be able to sing and dance. Yes he has to work hard and most of all love me and our children. I think that the guy you are talking about here is a good example of a very good man.

I think that he is not my type of man, my husband is, anyone else just doesn't compare. If you think he is hot, then good for you. What I look for in a man is his great personality, which is more then you can see from just a picture. I think that attitude, the way they look at you and treat you not like a piece of meat, but like precious glass, fragile and vulnurable, but lovable. I look for nice gentures, nice looks, and even nice body language. These are all what I look for in a man, along with many other qualities, which my husband has.

Well, he wouldnt be too bad waking up to in the morning..lol. Looks pays a major role, especially because you have to be attracted to each other in the first place to even notice each other. But to me they have to have something a little bit more different than everyone else, (which everyone has) , Personality, and confidence too.

Sounds to me like you have a winner. He seems almost too good to be true. You mean there are actually men like that out there?? I would love to find one like that. he is also VERY hot!!! Keep up the good work. Does he have a brother?? LOL

I think he is hot. my boyfriend is tall, handsome and careful. He really understands how to care about people and how to make people happy. He is also confident and hard-working. He doesn't have any bad hobbies. So I love him very much.

The way you describe him it sure feels heartfelt and not artificial and considering he is that kind of guy I think the ladies will find him hot.I guess the initial impact is what you look at and as you get to know the person it's alot of things from how he thinks to how he stands up for what he thinks to a lot ofother factors that make someone hot.I feel you enumerated many of them in your post and it's very insightful post on what women consider when they find a guy hot over a long period of time.May you always find him hot and may he never change.

he looks average though. if i were a girl, i would not say that he is hot, but rather friendly looking instead. he he he. after all, hotness is relative. what maybe hot for one, may not be hot to somebody else i guess. he he he.

Obviously, you are in love with the man and you see everything that is good in him. I think he is a good looking guy and I am happy that you found someone that makes you feel alive. Good luck with everything in your life and your family.

the guy i married now is not a hunk..but very kind and understanding and very lovable it makes you feel like a princess...im even a little spoil brat on him thats what hes been commenting all along when we are going to talk about our relationships and as well as the others..and most of all hes a good provider and a good father..hes handsome in his own little way..