If you caught mate cheating would you leave them?

I would in a minute. Once someone has done that to you once there will be a really good chance they will do it again. Once the trust factor is totally gone then theres nothing left to do but move on to better things.

Yes I would leave!! If my partner cheated on me then he obviously doesn't care about me, about himself, or about the relationship, and he sure as he!! wouldn't care about the woman he's cheating with, because she may not realize that his relationship with her just wrecked a home. If a guy's going to cheat on me, he doesn't deserve me.

hi friend,i will say yes,when my boyfriend cheat me and make me so sad,i will leave him and let myself forget him in future.i am a girl who can not bear with the cheating ,specially by my closer.

It is so foolish to stay in any sort of a relationship once you catch a mate cheating. Think what you want, but deep down, you will never completely trust then again. Every time they are out with the guys or even when they are late coming home from work you will wonder what they are really up to.

If I caught mate cheating of course I would leave them.I dislike cheat.who know whattime they will cheat me again?

I will never live with a cheater i will denounce him on that very day.

If I wasn't married to them I would probably leave them in a heartbeat. People who are married and cheat should try to rebuild the relationship first since they have made such a big commitment. In the back of a persons mind will always be that little voice that say the person may cheat again.

I would definitely leave. For 2 main reasons. Number one, they couldn't have loved you that much, or they wouldn't have cheated on you. That's just plain and simple, and there's no arguing that. And number 2, it would always be something in your relationship that you could never forget. And I would go through the entire relationship worrying that they were going to cheat again, and that's no fun. So I would definitely get out of that relationship!

I have personally "been there". I left him. It was very hard. I cried for a long time. I let him come back a lot of times but then I got brave, and I told him to go for good. It was best for me, and my 7 year old daughter. It has now been 12 years and we are so much better off. I wouldn't give up my time with him because I got my daughter, but the stress. Gosh!

definitely i'll leave an unfaithful husband. i told him about this before that if i ever catch him fooling around with another women, i'd immediately leave him. i'll not consider any discussions with him because i might change my mind if he would ever plead or something. i may cry also but not to the point that i'd just let things go by as if nothing has happened. i think that men (as well as women) have no right to cheat their partners. if they find that they are already falling out of love, then spit it out. it is better to end the relationship with respect for each other than having to fool around.

Yes, of course. You don't wanna be hurt again and again. Even you love him so much. If he loves you too why hurting you? If you stay with him, it means you're giving him chance to cheat again. You don't want him to abuse you again. He can't be trusted. Don't give him the satisfaction of being an as****e. You deserve somebody else. Leave and move on.

Rightaway. If I caught her cheating on me, I'd leave them for sure. With no second chances, like in the movies.

I caught my mate cheating on me, i will leave her for herself bc she has the right to cheat. all i have to do is to quit the relationship.

yes of course,thats my rule in lyf,maybe he owe me some explanation but once a cheater alwys be a cheater.. the way I see it is he is not contented anymore, so why continue?!

I'd kick him out in a heartbeat. I wouldn't leave. If he cheats he's the one leaving. I couldn't live with a cheater no matter what the situations were. I don't understand why anyone would ever stay with a cheater. I guess low self esteem or maybe they don't know how they could make it without the other and expecially if they had children that would make it hard.

yep. no questions asked. An unfaithful partner could not be trusted with your heart.

I agree with you. I personally would not stay with a cheating mate. Cheating is the ultimate form of disrespect, and the relationship can never go back to what it once was. I can't get over cheating, personally. Because of that, I can't stay with a cheater. I don't want to have to constantly look over my shoulder and question. I can't be with someone I can't trust. I have tried to mend things when exes have cheated, but I could never get over it.

In the realtionship I am in now I would leave my man if I found out he was cheating. I am at the point in my life where I am not playing games anymore when it comes to my heart. I have been there done that too many times in the past. I look at it this way why even bother having or keeping a relationship if one or the other is going to stray? Yep I am too old for games...

i love a man ,but i always affraid that he is chatting me.because he often contact me when he want.

i'll do leave him if ever i caught him cheating. why? its because he agreed to stick with you and commit his self to you since both of you are in the relationship. its unfair that you do your part, being loyal to him, while he's just throwing it all away. while your busy with him, being a full time gf, he on the other hand, busies himself in juggling women. sad to say, you're just a part time... sad sad...