Boyfriend Or Bestfriend?
By babygurl03
@babygurl03 (268)
Canada
May 1, 2007 7:36am CST
Which one would you choose if you were in a situation where say your boyfriend didnt want you to talk to your best friend anymore, Or he told you to choose between him and your best friend, Would you ditch your boyfriend or would you ditch you Best friend?
I would so tottaly ditch the boyfriend because there is alot of guys out there and my best friends mean way to much to me to loose.
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6 responses
@andreaskye (390)
• United States
1 May 07
Well, your friend was there first, and if your man wants you to ditch her, that is already a bad sign. Controlling alert!
Talk to him, tell him you have no intention of dumping your girl and if can't take it let me tell you what I tell my daughter.
Men are like buses, another will be along in 10 minutes.
Good luck!!
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@andreaskye (390)
• United States
1 May 07
I made that sound kind of personal to you but I was being general. you already had the right idea :-)
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@babygurl03 (268)
• Canada
1 May 07
LOL. yea I knew what you ment, Im not in that situation but I just wanted to know what everyone thought .. Thanks :)
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@worthy (2413)
• India
1 May 07
Absolutely babygurl03.If ever I am faced with a situation like this,I would give a thought about why there is a rift between your boyfriend and your best friend in the first place.I would try to bridge the gap between the two. If its of no use, the next thing to do will be to decide who's fault is it, ur best friend's or your boyfriend's, and then take the final step!
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@samtaylorskykierajen (7977)
• Canada
1 May 07
It would depend on why the boyfriend wanted me to ditch my best friend , if it was for no good reason then I just wouldn't do it but if he could make a valid reason for me not seeing my best friend anymore then I would give it some thought . If one of them way lying about something I would have to try to figure out who I believed was telling me the truth . If my boyfriend was jealous and for no reason , I would let him know that we were only friends and he had nothing to worry about , if he couldn't except this then there is a good chance it wouldn't work between him and I but if my best friend had hurt my boyfriend somehow then I would have to choose my boyfriend .
It really would have to depend on the situation of why my boyfriend was asking me to ditch my best friend :)
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@Candy_jang (20)
• China
1 May 07
if i come across to this situation,i will choose my best friend.there is a saying that"only the friendship will be forever,love is just some experiod." what's more ,if your boyfriend cann't understand you and your friend,he is not really love.this man is not worth loving any more.
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@creb11 (416)
• China
1 May 07
I think you should get to the bottom of why your boyfriend told you leave your best friend,does they do not like each other or they have some unhappy things before.If not, i think your boyfriend is wrong,maybe you should make a pure-heartedness communication with your boyfriend.If that is true,you must make a brige for them.
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