A new position

don't let other people tell you not to take a position that is going to move you up in your career. you should take it and make that money and get your career moving up. they are telling you that because either they jealous, or they don't want you to move on and leave them

I would ignore what they're telling you, if you want the job. The reason I say this is that no matter what the staff are like if you're supervisor... you can mould them to your needs, and if you treat them right, they'll do for you. Start as you mean to go on. The rumours could also have been borne out of jealousy that you were offered the job and not them, so I say, go for it, or if you have the opportunity, do it for a trial run and see how it goes. You have to think about what's best for you, and if I were in your shoes, I would much prefer to work the morning shift. Good luck... I hope whatever decision you make is the right one for you and that you'll be happy in your work. Brightest Blessings.

First, you have to do what YOU want to do, whether it's what people want you to do or not. Since you work 3-11 now, you already interact with the day shift nurses at shift change. (I'm assuming you get/do a shift change patient report before you start your shift to catch up on everything...) Second, some thoughts to ask yourself: How do you interact with those nurses that you see from day shift? Do you seem to have a good rapport with them, or do YOU think they might be hard to get along with? When I did nursing homes, I did mainly 3-11 or midnight shifts. One of the things that I noticed about day shift was that the aides, etc, had a busier time at work just because in the day time, they are responsible for: setting patients up for breakfast & lunch, bathing/grooming routines, getting them dressed,in house Dr visits, am bloodwork, etc, etc, etc... In that vein, yes, they are far busier than the other 2 shifts, and if understaffed I can see where some of them might get 'grumpy.' Third: If you have kids at home that you're responsible for, and you have to jump in (on days off, etc) to fill in for missing nurses (ill, whatever) will that be a hardship to deal with at home? Or do you have a support system that is reliable to cover you on those extra days that you will probably have? I've seen you post a lot Trace, you are a positive, upbeat person, and that always makes the interaction better with those who we work with. In the end, it's only you who can weigh all the factors and make the decision. Also, congratulations for being asked to take this step up, it's a wonderful testament to how they view you and your work responsibilities! Good luck whatever you choose!

I agree with what most people have allready told you. If you want the job, go for it. It won't change who you are, the only one that can change who you are is you! Of course certain things can have an influence, but eventually at the end of the day the only one who decides about changing is you. It might be that your friends are afraid of loosing you or are jealous, but it could also mean that they have a bad experience with those people. If this (what I personally think not) would be true, you could be the one to bring in the sunshine and change the attitude on the floor. If one person's smiling it will affect everyone. Good luck with your decision!

I would just take those comments as something to consider before making my decision but I wouldn't base my decision solely on that. I would ask myself if I have the passion for that position, would I enjoy the challenge? Would the extra work and the leadership role be worth the cost to my time and my happiness? How do I feel inside when I think about taking that job? Do I feel exciting, can't wait to get started that kind of thing? If those answers are yes then it doesn't matter how grumpy everyone is, because maybe they need someone like you to come along and bring something positive to the table that helps rejuvenate the joy they once had for their jobs. Did you consider that maybe that is why you were asked to take on such a position? I doubt they would offer that to just any nurse. Think it all through and go with your instincts!

Since management is offering you a better(?) position, they must feel that you are worthy of and capable of filling the position. If you decline the offer, they'll see you as a person who is content with just getting by and may never offer you any more promotions. Now, I'd say the day shift staff may be moody because, well, aren't the majority of nursing home residents awake during the day? As the supervisor, you can rally up the day staff and make it your mission to keep them upbeat and less gloomy. Make them want to work under you by earning their respect and you'll either enjoy the day shift or be offered another promotion... ignore your friends' concerns... they're probably wanting you to decline the offer... the position needs to be filled and if you're not taking it, someone else will...

Hi there. Your friends reason is not SO valid. It doesnt mean that you will be bit*hy if you work on that shift. That's an opportunity, career growth. This is ur chance, don't lose it. You just have to think the pros an cons of taking that position but in general, i don't think there will be any problem at all.

It's always good to look at the pros and cons before making a change, but I wouldn't listen too closely to the gossip, unless they actually know the people or have worked with them. You are the one to have the change from the night shift to the day shift and decide if it is what you want. And changing positions will always take some adjustment.

What do you want to do? Personally for me I'd rather work the day shift anyday over an evening shift- Do you have children? I think that you should follow your heart- Does this mean more $$ also- because it is a supervisory position? I'm sure you would fit in with the other nurses on the day shift after a while- Just be fair- After all this is your choice- Good luck with your decision and good luck with the new job if you take it! Keep us posted!

Only you can decide if the position is for you! Try not to be swayed by the opinions of others? Surely you have interacted with these folks before...at shift change? Perhaps having a positive, cheerful person around will have a positive impact on the day shift people! Of course they might seem 'grumpier' as they are likly more busy and interacting with more people at once and feeling pulled in more directions than people on the evening and night shifts. It is easy to snap at folks when there are 4 folks needing your attention at once! (Not that evening and night shift people aren't busy, but it is not as crowded and doesn't have as many things going on at once) Try to only consider your needs, your family's needs and your career when you make such an important decision! Best of luck and congrats on the offer!!

Why would you bother in the first place to accept the new position if you are well satisfied and been paid good salary on your present job. Two important things you must consider before making a decision on that position. How far it is from where you live, and does it has much better salary/incentives being offered on that new position? If not just forget it and follow your friends advice, they might as well only after your favor and well I should say they are your trusted friends, right?

You need to do what you want and what you feel is best for you. People could be jealous and just telling you that because they don't want you to leave. If you really want the job, and you feel that this is the direction you are being led to, then you need to take it. Best of luck with your decision, it sounds like a wonderful opportunity.

Why would the people that work in the am be mean? There's good and bad people everyone I would assume that there would be a nice mix both am and pm. Are you sure they might not have a different agenda? Or that unconsciously they just don't want to loose you in their shift? In any case, you should do what is best for you and what your first feeling was not after they started manipulating you. If you have a family am shift is usually better, believe me. What you need to know is... would you like the new job? will you feel the challenge positive? is the prospect attractive? Some people without even realizing tend to be upset when they see others get ahead, and who knows maybe that is the case. If you have a chance see if you can observe the am people, interact with them , that might get your mind at rest, but remember that if you accept there will always be a period of adjustment so count on that.

Hi Trace86, how are you? Well, I think that you need to do what feels right for you. How do you feel about it? You can't let others, (some who probably harbor jealousies because they want the positon) make choices for you. It will be a challenge but new things in life are just that, challenges. I wish you the best in your decision and I congratulate you on your promotion. Look at it this way also, you already work the floor and perhaps you would miss that aspect of your job if you didn't get to do it once in a while. I can go on and on. Perhaps your personality and professionism will make the people on the day shift feel better about coming to work with a good supervisor. Do you even know for a fact that the people on that shift are bit*chy and mean like you have been told? Life is all about change, growth and decisions. I hope that you follow your heart and do what is right for you, without letting others opinions cloud your judgement. Take care...Grow on...

I think the only way to find out for sure is to take the position and see what happens. If it doesn't work out, hopefully you can go back to your old position.

Have you had the chance to actually meet the people that you may be working with if you take the job? I would do this first and foremost and make your own mind up. Your friends MAY be right; but more than likely they are just jealous that it was you and not them that received the promotion. If it is a step up in your career/a pay rise/more challenging; then I would go for it! But definitely form your own opinions of these day staff rather than take someone else's word for it.

Good on for you I hope you take the position, I am sure it was not offered if they didn't believe you were more than capable, so do not let people put fears in your way. You know weather or not you can do the job, and unfortunately dealing with staff that give you grief are part of the job. but take some supervisory courses on line if necessary and you will soon find your way trough. How hard can it be. do not play mind games get real and do the job.

This was posted 10 months ago. I wonder if you took the position? How are things now?

You have to decide which is best for you n don't let anyone to be rude to you.