60-year-old gives birth to twins
By worldwise1
@worldwise1 (14885)
United States
May 25, 2007 4:11pm CST
It has been in the news quite a bit about the woman who gave birth to twins recently. Would you do this? I chose to have my kids while I was young. I cannot imagine embarking on new motherhood at such an advanced age (no matter how good your physical condition is). Her two adult children were reported to not be happy about this. BTW, she also has a 6-year-old. What are your thoughts?
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@nannacroc (4049)
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25 May 07
This sort of thing makes me feel sad. My siblings were all quite a bit older than me and I remember feeling upset at school because my parents were as old as my friends grandparents. I also worried about my parents dying before I was an adult. I think these people are being selfish and not really thinking about how it could affect the child or children involved.
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@nannacroc (4049)
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25 May 07
I'm sorry to hear that, you were probably doubly treasured by your grandmother. Thank you for giving your point of view.
@naty1941 (2336)
• United States
25 May 07
I am 65 years old and I think that woman is selfish. When the twins are 10 she will be 70 years of age. Those kids won't have the benefit of having parents that are able to play with them as only young parents can. I could be wrong but parenting requires a lot of energy and there is no way a mother of 60 has the same energy as a 20-30 year old.
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@mummymo (23706)
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25 May 07
Again just trying to show the flip side - my Gran always had energy to play with me and patience to do so after she adopted and raised me! On the other hand I was a relatively young mum and had my kids at 23 and 31 , I have been unable to play with them properly for over a year due to back problems which I recently had surgery for, even then I may need more surgery and even if I don't it will be many months before I am able to do much for my kids! xx
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
26 May 07
i feel, its a matter of personal choice. that lady must have had an earnest wish of becoming a mother and for that reason alone she went through the trouble with whole lot of therapists in Africa. she said that she feels like someone in thirties...i really appreciate this. with such energy , i am sure she will manage everything. the spirit should be appreciated.
and i appreciate your feelings aswell. biologically that is normal. we all harbour the same thoughts.
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@umitcicek (463)
• Turkey
26 May 07
The best one is to have children in youth.Possibly,they will have problems with very old parents since they are very far generations.Age difference is very big problem in such situations.Even though my father was older than me 36 ages,we had many problems in communicating.It is as if we lived in different worlds.I hope they don't resemble us and have great communication.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
25 May 07
I read that story too--I guess as long as a woman is healthy enough to do so, why not---but I just think it's a tad weird...I mean just think...when those kids are in their twenties their mother is going to be old enough to be their great-grandmother--For some reason I just don't think it's natural to have children so late...but hey, LOL...it gives me hope...I don't have children...and I'm 51--s----ooooo? hehehe
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@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
26 May 07
Sorry to disagree with you, pyewacket, but just because technology has given us the means to do so many things, does that make it right or moral? I get the feeling we are going to be faced with many more such questions in the near future.
@pyewacket (43903)
• United States
26 May 07
There are a lot of things that because of our technology where we can question whether it's right or moral...It's precisely due to our technology for instance is the reason why we are killing our planet, and we began this destruction back in the Industrial Revolution days...yes, many are now more aware of what we have done to this planet and are trying to salvage the damage...but is it too late too little....Maybe I answered your question in the more positive vein though about having children so late, as I haven't had the opportunity of having my own children--and the thing is I always wanted to have a family--yes, I could perhaps adopt,..but I would've have had loved to have at least one child of my own.
@wachit14 (3595)
• United States
25 May 07
It's a lot of work to have children at any age, but for a woman in her sixties, it could be exhausting in more ways than one. I can't blame her adult children for their concern. They may have the responsibility of raising their siblings should anything happen to their mother. Afterall, when the twins are only twenty, their mom will be eighty years old.
@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
26 May 07
i personally couldnt have children at that age, i want to have kids before 30, if i dont well i will only have 1 maybe 2, but if i got to 35 and no kids for any reason i wouldnt have any, i just couldnt do that to a child but thats my personal opinion and everyone has their own thoughts and what they want to do, as long as she loves those children then im happy for her
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@Mickie30 (2626)
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25 May 07
Hey why not? I know there are risks, but Sarah in the Bible gave birth at the age of 90 however personally I do feel it's a bit old. However if you cannot have children then find out you can at the age of 60 wouldn't you do anything to have one? I can't imagine living without my daughter so even though 60 is old the child will still be loved which is the most important thing.
@polachicago (18716)
• United States
26 May 07
very good point....I never prejudge people...she probably has good sources and time to rise great lids...:)))
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
26 May 07
Hi Mickie. People back in Biblical times lived to far more advanced ages than people live these days. Also Sarah was granted the ability to have a child because it was her heart's desire-so God granted her her wish. The woman we are discussing already had 3 children, so it was not just because she wanted to experience motherhood. I would not think of bringing a child into the world at this age because the odds would be against my raising it to adulthood; also, the child might feel that I was selfish when they got old enough to understand.
@JcHitomi (100)
• Nepal
26 May 07
I dont know if I will supposed to be happy. My opinion is giving birth to that age can gets many complications and I think it will be harder for her to take of her children having age. Besides I hope the children are ok both physically, emotionally and mentally.
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@twoey68 (13627)
• United States
26 May 07
Personally, I think she is way too old to be committing to raising two children not to mention the 6 year old. It makes me wonder why someone would do this. Normally motherhood is the last thing someone of this age is looking at.
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@retardedrugrat (4791)
• Canada
26 May 07
Honestly, I would like to say, good for her, it's her choice, and so on, but I can't.
One child is fine, and if she's in good condition, then so much the better. But at 60 years old, undergoing a C Section, and trying to feed twins is going to, quite frankly, be a nightmare for her. A Caesaerean takes a lot of recovering from the start with, and she's going to be in pain for quite some time.
I too had my kids young, and couldn't imagine giving birth at 40, let alone 60.
She said she wanted siblings closer to her 6 year olds age, and that's fine, but for her to then say that she wanted to remove some of the stigma attached to older women giving birth, forgive me, but that to me seems to be rather selfish of her. I did find the following news article about it too.
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/bizarre/4828599.html
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@eden32 (3973)
• United States
25 May 07
I think it's awful that anyone thinks their opinion about what an 60 year old woman does matters. She's an adult, been an adult for quite sometime. She probably knows a little something about life. Having raised a couple of other children, she probably knows a little something about parenting. I think it's probably safe to assume she's finacially stable. Her grown children need to show their mother her due respect.
@worldwise1 (14885)
• United States
26 May 07
If you get to know me, eden, you will discover that I have an opinion on most everything! Sure she's an adult. So what? I see adults making stupid decisions every day (myself included). The issue is a moral one. Evidently she doesn't know everything about parenting if her two adult children are dissatisfied with her choice. I don't feel they're showing disrespect so much as concern and common sense.
@conservababe (303)
• Philippines
26 May 07
wow that's quite surprising! She's so lucky to have twins at that age,that's quite rare. And yes same here, I also choose to have kids while im like in my late-20's.
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@simple_butterfly (478)
• Philippines
26 May 07
yeah..it's so horrible..for me when I'm gonna be 60 yrs old I will not enter into this situation coz when I'm not here anymore who will take care of them. you cannot enjoy your retirement years coz you will take care of your siblings and babysit for them..ohhh..so disgusting..
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@zhizhong07 (674)
• Singapore
26 May 07
i believe everyone have their own rights and the world is so big, so you have have many kind of people and also miracles happening.
@spiritwolf52 (2300)
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26 May 07
It makes you wonder whether or not she will be alive to see them graduate. She would be 78 when they finish high school. This is not fair on the kids. Can you just imagine the ribbing those kids will get on parents teachers nights? Who will raise her kids when she is gone? Personally I think she is crazy, taking on way too much at that age. She will be a pensioner in 5 years time!
@friendship (2084)
• Canada
26 May 07
Personally, I won't do it. I don't want to be a selfish person because I have to think about the kids. I can definitely understand why her two adult children weren't happy about it. Because their mother may be too old to play around with her twins during their adolescent or perhaps, childhood.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
26 May 07
That is unreal. there is no way that I would ever give birth to children at that age. It is very hard on your body. I don't think alot of people would even live long enough to see their children rasied and enjoy the granchildren that comes from them either. I definitely think she has her hands full.
@piatot (36)
• Philippines
26 May 07
anyone in their right mind would say No to this kind of 'adventure'. For some 60 year old woman to carry a child in her womb is very irresponsible and dangerous. The government should take action on these cases so as not to encourage other delusional citizens.