Do you have brother or sister, whether you get a good relationship with them?
By bonnie2008
@bonnie2008 (511)
China
May 27, 2007 2:45am CST
I only have a young sister,for me ,who is so lovely.But we often quarrel with each other in the past,although i am 5 years older than her, do you will take me to be fulsome? now we both grow up and start to understand each other. we are in different cities and i seldom see her, always missing her. it's so strange when we are together we don't know how to value it,insteadly, we will miss each other.what about you ,do you have one or more sister/brother,what about your relationship?
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@Chelseachan (204)
• China
31 May 07
I have an old brother.When we young,we always quarrel with each other.Now we are grow up,our relationship is very good.He become the best people care me...
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@Giabelle (59)
• Philippines
30 May 07
Yes, I have a good relationship with my sister. She is my only sibling and is 4 years younger than me. I guess fighting during your younger and growing up years is normal. I am sure evryone has his own share of stories to tell. We disagree because we have our own individuality, even twins do, so there's nothing wrong with that. Distance and being apart will surely give you the chance to appreciate each other more. Siblings are supposed to be one of the most important people in your life not to be present only during the good times but also your support system when things go bad. They will be the first one to cheer you up when you're sad, they are supposed to be your best friend.I know this doesn't happen all the time but ideally this should be the case. Lucky for us who have a good relationship with our siblings for it is a gift not everyone has:)
@syndhujaa (252)
• India
30 May 07
hmm..yea..
I have one elder brother..we used to fight when we were young..but for past many years we doesnt fight..we adjust with each other..he is really very sweet..i will support him always..and now we are in different city..i miss him alott..i cherish all the moments spent with him..now we wont get a time when we can always stay together..we can seldom meet and spend only few days..he is so understanding and caring..he always supports and rescues me..
I love him alot..I guess everyone loves their brothers and sisters..It so happens that we fight for silly things in our childhood days..and i also cherish those moments..:)
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
31 May 07
Hi, syndhujaa
actually we can't spend all time with our parents or siblings. So everyone of us will cherish those moments we are together. I can understand what you said,so i hope you and all your family will have a happy life forever.
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@Norstar (694)
• India
29 May 07
I have elder and younger brother/ sister. We may, at times, have disputes but not fights.
You are a person who is 5 years older to her sister. Two of you are not equal or near equal. Hence, there is no question of fight.
You can love your younger sister, guide her, order her, but not fight.
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
30 May 07
yes,we get along very well with each other now. certainly i love her,but seldom older her because she is a person who have definite ideas.
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
31 May 07
you can always keep in touch with him. do you live a long distance from him? if your city is near his you can often visit him.
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@jogie_bien (1103)
• Philippines
28 May 07
yes i have brother and sister and we have good relationship even they already get married.every year we have reunion in our family so that we can see each other.and we are closest to each other, even they are married the bonding is still thesame.
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@qiuyishui1980 (220)
• China
29 May 07
Hi,my firend. very glad to response.
I am a sister, and i have a little brother, and now I am married. but I and my brother are very closed.
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
29 May 07
The relationship between the siblings never will be changed.Always i think we are lucky coz we have brother or sister.
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@claudia413 (4280)
• United States
29 May 07
I have 3 younger sisters. When we were growing up, we fought all the time. I think that's part of growing up. Now that we're all adults (we're all parents and grandparents now), we all get along so well and are thankful that we have each other. Two of us live in Florida (about 150 miles apart), one lives in Texas, and one lives in Missouri. We do try to get together whenever we can, but we always keep in touch even when we can't get together in person.
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
30 May 07
I am agree with you that quarrel between the siblings is part of growing up,certainly which will become a beautiful memory of our childhood. I also find as we grow up,that is when we are adults we will value our sentiment more. In fact most of sibling can't get together in person when they are adults,only keeping in touch by telephone or email ect. In a word, thanks god we all have each other. Good Luck for you and your sisters.:)
@byfaithonly (10698)
• United States
28 May 07
I'm the oldest of 16 children - steps, halfs, and adopted. I don't see all of them very often and the ones I don't see much it is kind of awkward when we meet because we don't really know each other. I have 2 sisters, half sisters, that I grew up with and we are very close.
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
28 May 07
I think no matter what relationship between you and your siblings such as steps ,halfs or adopted.as long as you can relate well with them or some of them.you'll be happy.In China in order to control the number of population and carry out family planning.So there are so many singleton.some of then don't know how to care about the others.i don't like that kind of guys:)
@ygautam (135)
• India
28 May 07
Yes I have a yoounger brother who lives in a another Country. I have a very cordial relationship with him. Absolutely noproblem.I discuss with himthe important matters of the family and also seek his advice in crucial matters. So does he.
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
28 May 07
thank you for your response ,best wishes for you and your brother.
@terri0824 (4991)
• United States
27 May 07
I am the oldest of seven. I have 2 sisters and 4 brothers. I have a brother and sister that both live near each other in Florida. The rest of my siblings live close by. Some I have a good relationship with, others are strained relationships. But overall, I have good relationship with my siblings. I don't like it when it's not a good relationship.
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
28 May 07
maybe no matter what happened between the siblings,the sentiment among the never will change. Chinese has a proverb "blood is thicker than water". that is the reason why we never will hate our brothers or sisters. I have only one sister and i love her so much now:) Best wishes for you and your siblings:)
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
28 May 07
You are so enviable that you have so many brothers and sister, i have only one sister.
@illustria (45)
• United States
28 May 07
I have a younger sister. She's 22, I'm turning 28, but she seems wiser than I am - at least worldly wise. She's had more boyfriends than I've had, and she can really attract the boys. On the other hand, I've done better at school and career than she has.
We don't try to outdo each other anymore. We help each other and try to grow together. We used to quarrel a lot in the past, and boy, would we argue! Now, we've grown, and we both have boyfriends! We spend nights exchanging ideas and advice, and we have a lot of fun.
Sisters! Man, will I miss my younger sister when I leave the country!
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
28 May 07
I am in the same situation with you,my sister is 5 years younger than me ,but she is always attractive. I find most of us are similar,that is when we are young we used to quarrel a lost,we can get well with each other when we grow up. GOOD LUCK FOR YOU AND YOUR SISTER.
@Cheryl99 (53)
• China
27 May 07
I do have a young sister like you,who is 3 years younger than me.We go along with each other well,even though we will quarrel a bit sometimes.We love each other so much.
Now we are in different cities,but always send massages to each other to share our happiness and sorrows~~
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@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
27 May 07
I can understand you. now we are in the same situation. certainly i always call my young sister or send message to her. my best wish is to live together with her in the same city:)
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
31 May 07
Well, that is just so good for you then. I have two sisters and a brother. We are really close and they are really good to me.
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
1 Jun 07
You are lucky coz you have three siblings who love you. best wihes for you and you siblings.
@adidas7878 (1891)
• United States
1 Jun 07
i have a younger brother, he is 13 years old, we fight all the time, when we are each other, but we also hang out together alot, sometime i get piss off at him, but i love him, even though he gets on my nerves all the time but hey that is what brother and sisters do.
@bonnie2008 (511)
• China
4 Jun 07
I think fights between siblings are things that we have to expeirenced,just like that between my sister and me. once we grow up,we will get a better relationship and love each other. that is a lucky thing for us to have a sister or brother.
@Divzs18 (441)
• India
1 Jun 07
I have 1 younger brother. And hey guys he is very very cool and good looking. And yes I others we too did quarrels a lot and we also have a very good understanding within us. Though we don't share each others personals matters much we both knows what is going on in others mind. We can easily read each others mind very easily.All I can say is that I'm very much proud of my brother.
@krishnakoduri (178)
• India
31 May 07
i have only younger brothers no sisters to me i have very good relations with my brothers
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