I Need Some Advice!

United States
June 6, 2007 1:20am CST
Well as of late I've had lots of things happen to me. I don't want to "rant" or "rave" or here just for the sake of saving some people the trouble of accusing me of complaining, which is something I believe we as humans do now and then. Well I just need a few people, that have followed a bit of my discussions or even if you haven't I need a few people to get some advice from. It will not be a short story, so I hope whoever is willing to help doesn't mind. If you wouldn't mind listening or giving some advice I'd sure appreciate it.
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14 responses
@kareng (59050)
• United States
7 Jun 07
We all need to vent sometimes so don't feel bad. Go ahead and get if off your chest. I think most here are mature enough to respond in a helpful way.
@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
7 Jun 07
we all do respond in anything in the most polite way we can. plus, we do understand each other and if there's a way, we even give each other good advices. we're like a great big family here.
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@kareng (59050)
• United States
11 Jun 07
Your right!
@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
Hey Chris I would be honored to be a lending ear for you. If the other people don't want to read your complaints then they don't need to. I for one will try to help where I can!
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• United States
6 Jun 07
I certainly appreciate people like yourself :) I will send you a message so I don't "air dirty laundry" so to speak. and see what you think I should do. Anyway thanks for wanting to listen and help, that means alot friend!
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@tmlnmr (1850)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
I look forward to hearing from you Chris and you can message me without concern that I will air your "dirty laundry" or clean laundry as well.
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@narthan (325)
• India
7 Jun 07
I'm surely the one you are looking for!!
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@lucy02 (5015)
• United States
6 Jun 07
Hi Chris. I'll help you any way I can. I've followed some of your discussions but I haven't been on here as much lately as I usually am.
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• United States
6 Jun 07
Cool, sounds great I'll send you a message about what I need some advice for and see what you think about it. Thanks for your help, it is much appreciated :)
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• Philippines
7 Jun 07
hi! i haven't read any of your discussions here and if you haven't been flooded with people willing to give you some advice i'd be happy to. just holler!
@habiryn (51)
• Philippines
7 Jun 07
im not your friend but i am more than willing to hear you out. and no matter what it is im more than glad to share a few of my thoughts and word of wisdom...lol
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@maryannemax (12156)
• Sweden
7 Jun 07
i have read some of your discussions and even respond to some of them. and to let you know, it's okey to air out some bad feelings inside you. we all are humans here and we all go through those moments when we feel so bad and the only way to feel better is to be able to vent it out somehow. so, i tell you, even if there are people here who hates people complaining, a lot of us here are ready to hear each and everyone's complains. we understand each other here and that's what i love about this site. hope you feel better soon... anne
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@gberlin (3836)
6 Jun 07
Ok Chris I am willing to listen. Go ahead.
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
10 Jun 07
Well, Christ whenever you need help just ask and I will do my best to help you out. I think it is ok to complain sometimes, ain't nothing wrong with that at all.
@venshida (4836)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I have had a lot of stuff happen to me in the last couple of months, and would like to listen to you so maybe it can take my mine of my issues and we can help each other.
@aprilgrl (4460)
• United States
6 Jun 07
I'll listen if you need any advice and I would try to help any way I can.
@mummymo (23706)
6 Jun 07
Chris my friend you know that we all need to offload sometimes - if you need a shoulder lean on mine anytime you need! I won't be as active as usual cos my daughter isn't too well but when she is sleeping I will be here! pm me or add a response to me here if I can help in anyway and I will get back as quick as possible! If I am not the right person to help . please know that I am thinking of you and hoping things improve soon! xxx
@PunkyMcPunk (1477)
• Canada
6 Jun 07
I'm sorry, I haven't really followed your discussion aside from the few you've written on adbux... but point me in the right direction and I can definitely take a look. We all need a shoulder or an ear and sometimes a hand to hold or someone to hug. We can't be expected to live this life alone and a stalwart hero. We all need help sometimes. I am pretty good with advice although I don't think I offer it too much. I do need you to know though, my reply wouldn't be instant as I would want time to think it through and look at all of the angles and possibilities and then when I do reply (which I will) I will be honest. If it is bad news I won't be rude or sharp with it but I won't beat around the bush and lolly gag about it. I will tell you what I think, plain and simple. Let me know if you want my help. Cheers! Hope whatever it is works out for you.
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@tredale (1309)
• Australia
6 Jun 07
I will listen to your complaints, I think we all need a good ear or shoulder from time to time I sure am guilty of it. I dont no helpful I will be seeing I actually dont no what the problem is but if I can help I will try. I am a good listener you have to be when you have a husband and four children so go on give me a shot.
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