If You Don't Like Someone, What You Will Do?

well personally i just kind of ignore them. i do not tell it face to face though as i do not want to see their reaction because it may cause havoc. i am silent treatment type of person so i just keep quiet about it. but if he/she confronts me then i might as well them straight because they want it then.

Usually when I dont like someone, i try to cut all contact, because there is no worse feeling then makeing somebody feel bad. If you have a annoying girlfriend that you cant stand anymore, its just best to make it so she cant contact you in any form. This can be very hard if that person lives near you.

You are right, it’s impossible to please everyone around us so there must be someone that we dislike. Whenever I come upon any disgusting guy I normally ignore him or her and move away straight away. I dislike quarreling with people or stay with them any longer.

That's really easy for me! *laughs* If I don't like something, I won't let him/ her bother my life and it has always been that way. I would completely ignore the person and treat him/ her like they don't exist in the world. I won't tell the person that I don't like him or her because I don't feel like I owe anyone an explanation and it's absolutely a personal preference. But I reckon that the person would see the expression on my face and know that I don't like them. I don't pay attention to them and I don't even talk about them *laughs*.

Certainly I wouldn't have the heart to tell a person to their face that they annoyed me. I try to cause as little emotional pain to others as possible. That's just my personal philosophy. And, I would try to keep in mind that some people don't know they're annoying or irritating. Many are just going blindly through their life assuming they are well liked by other people. Maybe they do need to be shaken off their pedastal. But, then again, such a rude awakening might make them go back into their shell.

I will probably avoid him at all costs and time. I wouldn't tell that person why I don't like them in their face.

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There definitely is no way of pleasing everyone. In come cases as I personally am aware of, there are certain people that you just would not get along with, by the minute you lay your eyes on that person, you know. You know that person will never become more than an acquaintance. There are people that haven't even started talking and you already am not pleased with. Yes, it is quite a weird reaction towards someone you barely know but then maybe that is part of what we call gut feel. It is something very common within us that we cannot deny. If I don't like someone, I do not confront them unless there is the urgent/desperate need to do so, which comes very very seldom since I just tend to stay away from the person. Therefore there will be no conflict or tension whatsoever. I guess the world cannot be one, I don't think there ever will come a time that everyone will like everybody else, it is the natural way of things. But then everybody could just act civil around each other. There isn't a rule that you must like someone if you don't but I don't think it is right going around hating people as well.

I wont say direct that I dont like him/her,I will just ignore.

I think that you have to distinguish two cases, if the person I don't like is simply a colleague or something similar I will ignore him/her, but if this person is one of my friends or my girlfriend I should have to discuss about the reasons that feel me annoyed with them, surely this is very difficult, but is necessary because it would be risked to get worse.

I won't say directly to that person but i would ignore him as i will get irritated by that if that person is around him so....

uhm. I dont know. many times if I don't like the person, that person become my friend. Maybe because I am just want to be with them. hehe,. and many times the person why I hate her/him is because that's the crush of my crush, the love of my love, the like of my like, or she/he doesnt like me so I dont like them too.

I will straightly say that I don't like him or her so that he will not get close to me.

good question.well I think what I'm gonna do depends on the situation. no one's perfect .if I'm just annoyed with one of his/her aspects which I think he/she can improve I'll definitely tell him/her how I feel and it's a good chance to help both of us to know each other better. maybe u 'll find u made a big mistake if u know this guy u don't like very well ,keeping quiet is a good approach to avoid arguing and conflict.don't let it bother u

No, I don't think I've ever told anywone that I didn't like them. I usually just don't associate with people I don't like. Of course there have been people I've had to work with that I didn't like, but I could separate my personal feelings from my behavior on my job. I can behave nicely no matter how I feel about someone. Sometimes it is hard though, takes a lot of emotional energy to keep from letting the negative thoughts take control.

There is simply direct relation with him/her. because without attempting to catch your eyes attraction no one can be dislike..there is reason for the disliking. so slowly slowly try to make unconveniancy in present of them(him/her). now if you make them feel like uneasy then it will do automatically. even i also don't like someone. but as i say, i do. it will work

yeah,sometimes i have this feeling,if i don't like someone,i will choose ignore him/her.i don't like to speak any more,but sometimes so many things will not very easy,we hate someone who is your boss or teacher?what you will do? I think this is very boring problem,if we cannot solve very well,we can very difficult in the future.. I think i find a better way to have a talk with him/her,sometimes the communion will bring our feel near,also we can slove our misapprehend.. maybe in sometimes him/her do not very well,but we also should self-appraise,it is a good chance to improving our ability of another face.. what do you think of?

well, one thing i'm pretty sure is i like your photo...is it your child photo? :)

If u dont' like someone, better to keep away from them, untill they make trouble to you. In my way If i m not like someone I never care about them,