Difficult choice
By SRANKIN
@SRANKIN (282)
United States
October 24, 2006 1:18pm CST
Senario - lets say that you have been with this girl for about a year. You plan to marry her and have kids together. She goes to the doctor b/c she has been having problems with her body, and the doctor tells her that she cannot have kids. Now guys, would you continue to stay with the girl of your dreams, or move on to somebody who can have kids? Tell me..
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@Stiletto (4579)
•
24 Oct 06
It depends on how much you love her and how important children are to you. Remember there are other options - adoption or even IVF treatment if appropriate. There are so many children in the world who need a good home but if it is really essential that you have your own child then you need to decide whether you can deal with the prospect of never having one of your own. If you can't then you should end it with your girlfriend now. I suppose it's all about priorities - you have to decide which is more important.
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
24 Oct 06
I a guy truely loved a girl and she couldn't have children, he would not leave her for someone who can. I would be devastated if my boyfriend left me only because I couldn't have children. There are other options like adoption.
@moneymoney (789)
• India
24 Oct 06
No I will not leave her. I will stay with her. Give her support and adopt an orphan and raise the child like my own. I will be happy that this kid, gets to have a new and better life because my wife couldn't concieve.....I'll go ahead. I won't quiver for a moment.....
@sirensanssmile (3764)
• Netherlands
24 Oct 06
You can save up sme money together and get good medical help wih this it could be possible to do invitro if she has eggs or get a surrogate. It would still be both of your DNA so no problem. Yes it can be a difficult hurtle to cross but if you love the person you would do what you could. :)
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@cuddlebug79705 (2003)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Definently stay, I mean, you could always adopt. If you love her, that shouldn't change the situation.
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@amberbambers23 (2615)
• United States
26 Oct 06
If you really loved this girl, you would stay with her. There are other ways for you to have a family together. Many other options are out there. You could have a serragant mother (spelled that wrong i think) and there are other ways too.
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@bfa731 (409)
• United States
26 Oct 06
Well if I was truly in love with her I would without a doubt stay with her. If I was really bent on having kids I could always adopt or they might find some kind of way to help my wife have kids with all the medical research going on. Having kids is a big goal of mine but its something that I can overcome if the circumstances dont work out.
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
24 Oct 06
How badly do you want to have kids? Enough to give up the girl of your dreams? There are thousands of children out there waiting to be adoped. Could you raise and love a child who wasn't biologically yours? You have a lot of things to sort out before you make any decisions.
@moneymoney (789)
• India
25 Oct 06
Telling her your feeling, you would get more supprot from her. She'll love you even more.....
@sotweet78 (96)
• United States
24 Oct 06
Now, if you truly loved her and this was the one would that make any difference? You can always adopt or use a surrogate(unless she's producing no eggs) Think about it... :)
@ladyg1 (44)
• United States
26 Oct 06
If you truely love her you will stay with her. If she cannot have children of her own you can adopt or even possibly use a surrogate to carry the child. There are ways around the bearing chilren thing. You will miss the pregnancy stuff but a lot of it you can do without.