Your mother wants to re-marry?

Malaysia
July 8, 2007 6:29am CST
Suppose that your mother is a widow for 20 years. Suddenly she wants to get married. How would you react to that? I would be surprised but then be happy about it. What about you?
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natrlvr2
@natrlvr2 (383)
• United States
9 Jul 07
My first thought would be alzheimers has set in. LOL! I know my mom would NEVER remarry. She loves not answering to anyone. The thing is, she is not that healthy, very severe pain.But if she really wanted to, I would be happy for her but I would personally do an extensive background search on the guy.LOL.
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
That's because your mother had stated she would never remarry! Lol... whatever it is, we will surely give blessings to our mother if she wants to find her own happiness. We love our mother and always want her to be happy. Thanks for the reply!
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 07
Me too, I mean I would search the guys background for sure. Thanks buddy, for replying!
ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 07
Whoops! Sorry I answered the wrong section. Ignore my above comment, natrlvr2. It's my foolish mistake. Actually I am sad to know about your mother's condition. I hope she will get better, and she will have a content life until the end. At this moment a spouse is not her immediate need, I understand that. Her health is most important. Wish you both the best. Have a nice day.
jazzyjess
@jazzyjess (199)
• United States
9 Jul 07
I would definitely want to meet him first, before they tied the knot. But, I would definitely support the idea of her finding love again. I would most certainly want more information about the person she wants to marry and why she's in such a hurry (if this was a sudden decision). Most of all, I would want the best for her.
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
Blessings to you and your mother. :)
ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 07
Welcome!
jazzyjess
@jazzyjess (199)
• United States
21 Jul 07
Hey, thanks! That's sweet of you. :-)
ssh123
@ssh123 (31073)
• India
7 Aug 07
Never such a thought. My mother is no more at present. Even otherwise no mother in Hindu family would like to go for remarriage even after divorce. Divorces are a rare case here. The family bondage is very high.
DeenaD
@DeenaD (2684)
• United States
8 Jul 07
I think I'd be very happy for her, because I'd know that now she's going to be happy. She shouldn't have to spend the rest of her life alone because someone else has a problem with it. I think she's entitled to some happiness, too.
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
Happy for you too. :)
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Lydia1901
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
13 Jul 07
I wold definetly be very happy for her. She deserves to be happy too and if that someone will help her go there, then I have no objections whatsoever.
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
25 Jul 07
Me too. I will do whatever to make my mother happy. We all love our mothers. Thanks for replying!
wooitsmolly
@wooitsmolly (3613)
• United States
9 Jul 07
I think it would be nice, I'm sure she would feel very lonely after losing her husband. I would be happy for her, unless of course I didn't like the guy! lol
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ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
9 Jul 07
Yeah, me too. I would find the guy's background to make sure he is not taking advantage of my mom. Happy posting to you!
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