Your friend called and said he wants to commit suicide.
By ladysurvivor
@ladysurvivor (4746)
Malaysia
11 responses
@monicazhang (802)
• China
8 Jul 07
I am sorry to hear that.Do you know if there is something bad happened to him or he has mental problems?If it is the first one,you should try your best to help him out.I think he will be much better as time goes by.When it comes to the second situation,you had better ask him to see a doctor and seek for some professional help.Sure,you can call police but it only useful in case of emergency.Happy posting!
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@ssh123 (31073)
• India
20 Jul 07
Being my friend, I would have known the exact problem my friend is facing. I will not call the police (in India, policemen visit to a house will create a lot of suspicion among the neighbours), I meet his parents and try to arrive at a solution to the problem my friend is facing. If it can be solved with my interference, I shall handle the case. Otherwise, I will bring the required persons together to solve the problem and get my friend out of woods.
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@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
24 Jul 07
If the situation is within your reach to help, I understand you would take that action. Thanks pal, for the reply.
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
13 Jul 07
I would definetly call the police and do my best to change his/her mind. There are days when that is the only solution but there are a lot of things out there to live for in my opinion.
@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
14 Jul 07
Yeah...I will go with the police to make sure we can catch my friend alive....
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@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
24 Jul 07
I think I'd try to talk him out of it. Well, I'm no psychiatrist but I'll try my best. As I'm doing this, I'd try to use my cellphone call the authorities so that they can go in and get him.
I won't try doing it alone though. It's much too risky.
And yeah, just like one of the posters said, I would burn the bridges of friendship afterwards. There's no sense of keeping the friendship if he endangers himself and myself as well. He needs help. And I'm a friend, not a psychiatrist.
=)
Yeah, too harsh, but that's reality. If I were crazy, I'd go to psychiatrist, not to a friend.
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@danishcanadian (28955)
• Canada
14 Jul 07
This happened to me once before. A friend of mine called and said he wanted to kill himself. I knew he was mentally ill, but I was also able to recognize that he was just crying out for attention. We spoke for a while, and all went well. A lot of times when people speak out about wanting to do it, they are just trying to get attention. If someone really wanted to kill themselves that badly, they'd just do it, not wanting to be stopped.
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@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 07
But sometimes if we say the wrong thing to him, he might end up killing himself. There's a possibility to that.
@myfanwy65 (1030)
• United States
14 Jul 07
I would keep him talking on one phone and call the police on the other phone, like a cell phone or something. I wouldn't want to let the friend go, they might go ahead and harm themselves. I would want to keep them occupied until help arrived.
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@rohitdinho (189)
• India
14 Jul 07
i wudnt call d police..dat wud have more negative effect..i wud rather go upto him..ask him d precise reason for his action..talk to him..n make him feel dat der r ppl in dis world who care for wat he does..n who wont let him down.!!
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@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 07
I would do that if I am near his place. But if not, I would call the police and check him out. Meanwhile I will talk with him on the phone.
@ColeCash1977 (246)
• Columbus, Ohio
15 Jul 07
I would tell her to go ahead and do it and stop wasting my time. Most likely she won't even do it because she is just seeking attention. Perhaps she will. Either way I am not going to waste my energy on someone so pathetic and abusive.
@ladysurvivor (4746)
• Malaysia
17 Jul 07
Won't you feel guilty if he really killed himself after you slam down the phone?