pregnant and in the last 6 months have had 2 losses and now im going nuts!
@princessmom1011 (719)
United States
July 10, 2007 10:24am CST
Ok well back in Jan at almost 3 months pregnant i lost the baby i was devastated, my husband and i tried and tried for that baby, buyt after a few months i was feeling up to trying again so we did and after a few weeks i was pregnant . i was overwhelmed with joy and excitement as well as some fear of history repeating itself, well i find out i was pregnant with twins only to lose one and now i find myself 11wks pregnant and bleeding and i dont know what to do im freaking out, i keep telling myself maybe it has to do with the loss of the twin and that the other baby is healthy and safe , i called my dr and she has boooked me this afternoon for she too is concerned and if shes concerend that worries me even more. i cant handle another loss. i dont know if im really looking for any specific responses to this, but ill take any comforting words you may have to offer i really just needed to vent rather than holding all my fear and worries inside. thanks for allowing me to do so!
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@meljessxena (2315)
• Australia
11 Jul 07
oh im sorry to hear about your losses, maybe your doctor can do a test or something to test why this is happening. i also am having problems, not exactly the same as your situation, but i understand to a degree, good luck, and we are all here for you, and even if its just to vent your feelings out.
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@princessmom1011 (719)
• United States
11 Jul 07
Thank you for letting me vent because really venting adn relaxing is all that really makes me feel better at the moment, good luch to you and what ever obstacles you may need to overcome as well
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
10 Jul 07
Sorry about those heavy loses princessmom, those are very painful tragedies that require you to have super courage.
I know it is in your psyche now that this will always happen-I refuse this time in the name of my Living God that that babin you will grow from the current 11 weeks to the normal 36 weeks! Dont pre-occuppy your mind with negativity-just believe in yourself that whatever problem you are having now will be fixed! It surely will be fixed just be strong and positive.I wont stop praying for
you from this day on!
@jeannebean (73)
• United States
10 Jul 07
My heart goes out to you...I'm sure you are over wrought with worry...as the saying goes "what is meant to happen, shall, but there is a reason for everything"...but I"m sorry, I have a serious problem with academic2's "deigning" a prayer of absolution that "all will be well," in a form "because she says so.."..that goes alittle far, i'm sorry, i believe in God, a higher form, etc..but to say "all will be fixed"..that's kind of scary!!And normal pregnancy terms run forty weeks, not 36...
Good luck..My thoughts go out to you...and try to be positive!! I had spotting with my second son...he was born a healthy little guy!! Take care!
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
11 Jul 07
Am not good at maths my dear-9 months is about 36 weeks and moreover,delivery is + or - few weeks, so 40 weeks (10 months) is not a big difference from the 36 weeks or is it! Actually I have known people who hve made it at 32weeks while others dlivered at 44!
Secondly Pal, I believe in faith, there is nothing that faith cannot fix, with faith you can move mountains, with faith what is ordinarily impossible in the eyes of mortals becomes easily possible, give me the opportunity to evoke my faith in this situation, kindly dont give a me cold feet in my endeavour because with God,the all knowy,the greatest human scientist on earth looks like a novice!
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@TheCatzMeow1 (579)
• United States
11 Jul 07
I wish I could say something to make you feel better. I said a prayer for you. I had 2 miscarriages 6 months apart so I know all the fears, thoughts, etc. Just know that you're not alone.
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@princessmom1011 (719)
• United States
3 Aug 07
Thank you so much and it does help knowing there are others who i can vent to and they know exactly how im feeling thanks again i appreciate it! im still taking one day at a time things are 100% yet but there getting there!
@tdbrower1969 (1242)
• United States
10 Jul 07
I am sorry for your losses, and I am sure that you are terrified, but don't get yourself all worked up until you know for sure. I hope that everything goes well at the doctor, and I am praying for a good outcome for you. Keep us posted! Good luck to you!
@princessmom1011 (719)
• United States
11 Jul 07
Thank you, your right getting all worked up isnt the best thing at the moment i went to the dr and he told me basically it was a waiting game im under close watch and all i can do is take an easy and pray my body does its job so thats what im doing, ill be sure to keep you posted thanks for caring
@tikensoup (227)
• Mauritius
11 Jul 07
Hi princessmom1011. I am really sorry to hear of your previous miscarriages. I hope everything runs smoothly for your baby and yourself. I know it is difficult but try not to put yourself under too much pressure and anxiety. Try to remain positive and ask for God's help.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
11 Jul 07
i feel really sorry for your losses... i am not a mum myself but i can really feel the pain that you are feeling right now... it is not easy to have 2 miscarriages in such a short time... i pray that your other baby is alright and i will keep on praying for you... please be strong and don't stop praying to God... He will gives you the comfort, strength and courage to go through these difficult times... rest assured that you are not alone and He is always be with you... take care and God Bless you...
@smints8985 (1594)
• United States
10 Jul 07
Oh.. I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I may never really know how painful that experience is jsut yet for I am not yet a mother myself. But just thinking about it in the sense of losing a part of myself, and how painful that would be, I would partially understand how you feel.
I guess in times like this you can only pray and believe that God has a better plan arranged for you, and in order to experience that you have to go through trials as such.
Keep on praying and I hope everything turns out good with your child.
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@jojocgamboa (15)
• Philippines
11 Jul 07
That's so sad princessmom,... however, first and most powerful thing to do is.. PRAY, ask God to give you a child according to His kindness and image. Then, please try old-ways of preventing pregnancy losts... like, putting pillow under your butt or thigh everytime you want to sleep, it doesn't have to be high, but, soft and comfort, and then, move more softly and gracefully than usual, of course, you can ask your doctor to give you medicine to helps you hold your baby. I am wishing you a baby soon. God bless!
