Why do girls close their eyes while kissing?
By jcyap888
@jcyap888 (721)
Philippines
19 responses
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
for me because of true love that we feel in our hearts..it's not because were scared or feel shy or even don't want to remember the face whom we kissed..lol for me, i'm closing my eyes while kissing it's because i want to feel the love and the feeling that he brought to me and the love that i wanted to be feel to him..
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@butterfly39 (3904)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
Both partner should close their eyes...of course I am afraid I might have crossed my eyes if I open them...hehehe
Seriously you can express your feelings if we close our eyes...
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 07
whoa!!!that was great JCYAP888, since on myLot this was the first good question about kissing for me. aaahhh!!!...no need to put an extension...I think....perfect and well done for that five(5) reasons...as it is a new thing to me FOR its WHY!!!!!
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@michaeldadona (5684)
• Malaysia
22 Sep 07
Fuuuuuuuu Yoooooooooooo!!! I'm delighted wiyh your explanation. Thanks JCYAP!!!. thumbs up!!!
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@wotfpatty (2065)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Men don't? Can you imagine kissing someone and staring at them two inches from you? Ew.
I think it is natural to close your eyes when you kiss. I do and my husband does. It's not because of any reason, it's just a natural thing that I never even though about before. When I kiss someone, I am in their world, in their arms, and I don't want to be looking around at the my surroundings. I want to be in the moment and truly enjoy the kiss.
I think I would be freaked if I opened my eyes and the guy was looking at me wide eyed. EEK!
Men, get into it. Close your eys and let go....
@asgtswife04 (2475)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Girls close their eyes because they love that person. it's more intimate for them and they really get into the kiss with their eyes closed. it's the same way for some men, well my husband at least. there are times to close them and times not to. you just always know the right times. do you not close your eyes when kissing your girl that you love? some people are just different. it all depends on how you feel about the whole kissing thing anyways. if it's more intimate for you to look at the person while you are kissing them, they i say do it. if it's the other way around, so be it. it really just depends on the person and how they feel. hope this helped a little
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@Jshean20 (14348)
• Canada
23 Sep 07
Well I think that it just depends on the girl, all of those answers could be quite possible. A girl in love or lust will close her eyes because of how much she's enjoying it whereas a girl who's drunk would close her eyes because she's picturing another guy or ashamed..haha.
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@spoiled311 (5500)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
because of love. women seldom kiss for the reason of kissing. they kiss because they care.:-)
@stephen_lynx (77)
• Philippines
22 Sep 07
when we kiss, we shut our eyes off, why? because its like feeling the electrifying sense of a kiss, its kinda weird when you open your eye while kissing...obviously you will felt like being akward
@wonderful1 (2075)
• China
22 Sep 07
a. They are scared .
it is right, when i have my first kiss, then i am scared, then i close my eyes. it is a habit when i am scared.
b. They feel shy.
yes, it is true. my face will turn red, even i close my eyes.
c. They don't want to remember the face of whom they kissed .
if they don't want to remember the face, then why they give their ki esses to guys.
d. They are afraid that they'll see lust in the boys eyes.
it is true.
@claire03 (1443)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Girls close their eyes while kissing because they want to feel the moment and the magic of the kiss! sometimes we feel like we are flying and the we feel the strong beat of our heart. i think it is more sincere to close your eyes when you kiss somebody. :) i read an article that you can't trust a person who opens his/her eyes when they kiss. i don't know if it's true but it doesn't look good also when your eyes is open when you are kissing somebody, it's like you don't feel anything with the kiss!
@joshboz (1209)
• Australia
23 Sep 07
i think the answer is all of the above. as for me, when i kiss my girlfriend i also close my eyes i dont know i feel comfortable in doing it because when you close your eyes there ano distractions and you tend to focus on kissing the person i think thats the idea.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
23 Sep 07
How about a, You can feel more with your eyes closed. b. if you both have your eyes open, then your eyes can't focus and it looks weird anyway c. concentration d. who to heck keeps their eyes open anyway and why?
The above are the reasons I don't stare at someone who might be staring at me while kissing.
@crazed_moma (1054)
• United States
22 Sep 07
Because they don't want to look up the nose of their guy. :) Oh and it's sexier.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
22 Sep 07
D. They don't want to remember or see the face of who they are kissing.
That's my experience and observation.
@gradyslady (4054)
• United States
23 Sep 07
It's not really any of that stuff, it's more along the lines that they feel comfortable and it helps you get in the moment.