Why do women have to wait.

Wow you haven't met the new age woman have you, a lot of women these days have more financially to offer than the man, I paid my first place off when I was 32 years old and if a man takes me out it is on the agreement that I pay the next time, nearly all mt female friends have paid off their own homes and I guess it is safe to say nearly all of us have had the males friends with nothing, thats why a lot of women today are staying single, that woman on the TV if I could have told how pathetic she was being I would have, and by the way I am not anti male, men are ok I like them, as far as women losing attraction to their husbands it is probably because they are being taken for granted or get sick of seeing their mnen ogling at every girl around that displays a couple of inches of boob....I think it is the men that do the daydreaming....

"Wow you haven't met the new age woman have you," I have. Its not a pretty sight. Your perspective and mine differ. You don't go through it at the same perspective I do. I was adding something else to the table. "a lot of women these days have more financially to offer than the man, I paid my first place off when I was 32 years old and if a man takes me out it is on the agreement that I pay the next time, nearly all mt female friends have paid off their own homes and I guess it is safe to say nearly all of us have had the males friends with nothing, thats why a lot of women today are staying single, that woman on the TV if I could have told how pathetic she was being I would have" -[/quote] By "pay" this time I was actually referring to mental and social damages, not just the financial. -_- Most of this I could care less about. What you described is fine, but again, because you assumed I meant pay as in money and not in the intangible sense you responded to me in this way. Partly my fault I admit, but at least now you know. "and by the way I am not anti male," [/quote] And you may not be, but I still wanted to point this out about the argument. Almost always when these kinds of threads come up I get fired up and I feel a need to shed a different light on the subject. "men are ok I like them, as far as women losing attraction to their husbands it is probably because they are being taken for granted or get sick of seeing their mnen ogling at every girl around that displays a couple of inches of boob....I think it is the men that do the daydreaming...." [/quote] Women do it too, don't even try to deny it. Hence why I am compelled to respond to you. They too daydream over the empty headed handsome nothings. I see it all the time, I read about it too. Women also take their husbands for granted and still screw them over like I described in my first post. I bet we'll get nowhere like this Lila, but I have my own perspective and samples of other views on these things, I just wanted to share it. If you don't like it fine, but I'm still going to post my view on matters.

Well rereading there is some pay talk in my rant, but I forgot to put in the emotional, mental side of it, and such. Again, my bad, I'm just coming home from a 10 hour day so I'm not all here yet.

Oh it was the smugness of this man, and to look at him I thought you should be so lucky to have this woman, she is nearly 40 and he is sitting there like the master of the universe....grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Made ya want to reach through the tv screen and slap the daylights out of him, didn't it? I would have felt the same way.

Have you got a spy camera set up in my loungeroom..hahahahahahah

no kidding i am tired of women sitting around and waiting on their mne to grow up! love em and leave em!

Yes respect and equality goes a long way...

I actually agree with this. The only reason I "rant" is because I've been through and I know others who have been through the inequality.

Some men aren't idiots. And guess what, there are good reasons not to commit to a relationship.

Thats true... so the first topic of conversation should be whether a person is looking for a relationship or a one-nighter. That would keep people from assuming there might be more.

Kudos, guy... you're restoring my faith! I have a glorious man, and he has friends who are just as decent and good who can't get a date! They aren't ugly or dirty or poor... they just aren't flashy enough! They would be happy to commit, to build a life with someone. It breaks my heart!

Quoted for Truth I posted some of that at the end of my initial "rant" Destiny. Too bad no one responded to it and decided to just zero in on the rest of my counterpoint (which is validated by experience, but no one cares about that either).

Well I know maybe I am bit too independent but I would be telling him that I am quite happy being free...let him cuddle up to a football at night I reckon hahahahahahah.

You'd only be 'too' independent if you pushed everyone away! Knowing what is good for you and following through is never bad! Yep... a football and a stadium blanket... probably all he really needs!

Okay, please look at the opposite side of this. Women think that men are the lucky ones. I'm so tired of people(women mostly) telling me I'm not good enough or I'm lucky to have her or whatever. Just like you put up with the crap, I too have put up with the crap from some members of the opposite gender. Get real on both counts! I'm excellent! Don't believe me? Go look at my interests. I can bring tons to a relationship, so don't go around talking as if all men are near dirt in level. They are not. Some are very capable and can serve as ultimate outstanding examples, its just too bad no one cares. Just posting this based on some of what you said, just like I did to the original post discussion. I just get riled up anytime I see some things like this. Is the guy in the original story a jerk, for the third time in this discussion, I'll say it, yes he's a jerk! I'd go further, he's a clown (yes the same clown rating I assign to politicians and celebs if you've been following my posting). But still, know that men go through some of the similar things in this type of situation too, just flip the roles over for a bit. I know I tried posing that before, but no one considered it and the original poster didn't get what I was doing.