We lost yet another one
By Ravenladyj
@Ravenladyj (22902)
United States
October 25, 2007 3:28am CST
I dont know how much more my kids can take....this time of yr is really bad for them (especially my son) and for me its bad right up to the new yr....Well, my ex mum in law had been diagnosed with Cancer about a month back....after seeing three different doctors, getting three different answers and no help the stress became too much for her...She passed away yesterday morning... :-( This is one month after the 4 yr anniversary of her son's death (my kids father) and one month BEFORE the anniversary of MY sons death (my kids little brother)....
I said a month or so ago that there WOULD BE another death and it wouldnt be good and I was right....now I'm saying that I think "poppa" will pass before Spring of a lonely and broken heart..When he dies that is goin to be SO brutal for my kids...Thats 'THEIR POPPA'...I just dont knwo how much more my kids can take ya know.....They're strong theres no doubt about that but they ARE still just kids damn it.....
Anyway, thanks to those of you who posted in the Inoperable Cancer thread its greatly appreciated (all were rated btw) and any positive vibes, chants, candle lighting, prayers for my kids and their poppa would be also greatly appreciated...
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11 responses
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
25 Oct 07
Oh I am so sorry to hear about your children's sadness, this is just so much for them to bear. We will keep them and "Poppa" in our thoughts. There is nothing worse in the world for a mom to see her children suffer. I am so sorry for you ravenladyj
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@GnosticGoddess (5626)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Oh man. I'm so sorry. This really sucks for you all. I am with you I would be very worried about "Poppa" too. I think love and company would be the best for him right now. Not too much 'cause he'll need to grieve alone too but he still needs his family. Prayers are going up for all of those that this has touched. Especially you, your kids and their "Poppa".
@lgwlong (199)
• China
26 Oct 07
i am so sorry about it,but we have to face the reality and believe that tomorrow will be better.....god bless you...
@Springlady (3986)
• United States
25 Oct 07
I'm so sorry Raven. I will remember your family in my prayers.
@irishmist (3814)
• United States
26 Oct 07
Raven my heart goes out to you, and the kids. I'm so sorry for your loss. It is never easy to lose one that we hold so dear to us. I'm sure poppa will follow, but he will be happy and in a better place. I know the kids will take it hard, but perhaps knowing why , then they will understand better. I will say prayers for all, and light candles for you.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
26 Oct 07
Gracious. I'll think about you and your family and pray for you all too. This one really rendered me speechless. I don't know what to say or do and it hurts knowing your situation. Probably a stupid thing to say since you had to go through it. I'm sorry for the loss of your mother in law and other lost loved ones, especially your young son.
@chenjuan_gw (14)
• China
26 Oct 07
I am very to hear that.Don't enclose by the sad things,everything will pass over,as to the ones far away from us,what we shuold and can do is that to do a prayer for them sincerely,but not can't getting out of those heartbroken things.I believe that they have found their paradise ,living comfortable and smiling happily to look you in the sky.I hope you can continue your life journey bravely.Good luck!
