If someone was being kicked and hit in the middle of your street
@littlefranciscan (18327)
United States
November 4, 2007 12:35pm CST
If someone was being kicked, hit and physically abused by a group of thugs in your neighborhood..would you stop to help them out or call for help..or would you allow this poor soul to be beat to death?
Also ..another scenario..if you heard another being being made fun of..Everyone really raking their name through the dirt..would you also sling some mud or try to stop the gossips.
Both are two different pictues..but really both leave the vitims lifeless and pretty much alone!
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
4 Nov 07
If I saw someone being physically beaten, yes, I would try to help. It'd probably be a group of big guys...and I'm jyst a 'tin' girl lol. But I would probably jump on ones back and wrap my arms around this throats, like they do in movies =p lol. Hopely by the niose and ruckus I'm making someone else will be able to call 911 quickly.
I'd be like a cat in that group. Going from guy to guy, slapping and punching them! lol.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
4 Nov 07
You go girl..LOL..Remember dynamite comes in small packages.. I pity the thugs you happen to fight..they would probably run away with scratch marks from your claws;)
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@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
5 Nov 07
LOL! I hope so! =P I know I just couldn't stand by and let someone get beaten like that. It's too awful! If I can help in any way, you can bet I will! =P
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Good for you..that you wouldnt stand by and watch someone get beaten to the pulp.
@ayshren (136)
• United States
5 Nov 07
If I saw someone being beaten, I would call for help for sure. Im also the type of person that will stand up for someone that is being made fun of. I know what its like to be made fun of and I wish that someone had taken up for me. It feels terrible.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
You are so welcome..I hope that you don't still get made fun of..No one should have to go through that..I know people doing such things ..must not realize how really bad they hurt the other person..they may be having fun..but not realizing their idea of fun is not appreciated:)
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
You are so right..when one has been through something one knows first hand what another is feeling as they go through it..
Good to know that you have allowed your pains to increase your sympathy for others rather then turn you bitter towards others.
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
5 Nov 07
When I was more physically able, I might have tried to help, but being a woman...probably not a good idea. At the least I would call 911! As for the gossips...I'd probably say something. I'm a product of hurtful things said in my childhood I still remember...it's pretty bad when adults do it also!
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I agree..gossip is worse when adults do it..I think they can be most cruel and unfeeling when they gossip.
@xParanoiax (6987)
• United States
5 Nov 07
If anyone I knew was gossiping, I'd put a stop to it yes.
"Hey, you don't really know that. You don't know them. Drop the subject."
As for the first scenerio, I'd jump in and fight them off.
Hopefully I'd have something injury-inflicting at hand, but even if I didn't I'd go and try to wipe the concrete with them anyway.
It's not really smart, no. But it's what's right.
And since when have I ever ignored what's right anyways?
Trouble follows me regardless..so no worries.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Very good answer..That takes character to speak up against gossip; I commend you for that. You are quite..brave..!
@lavenderbloom (1057)
• United Arab Emirates
5 Nov 07
I would surely try to help him by calling the police. I cannot see anybody being beaten be it human being or animals.
Regarding the second case, I will try to support the victim by taking the person away from the scene. I will also try to get help from others. some things cannot be handled alone. So take the maximum help if needed.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Good for you..I am sure that if such a thing should happen you would lend a hand or make a call as you saw necessary.
@athellas (12)
• Greece
4 Nov 07
If it was possible to stop and help the person being attacked i would do it.I think it is a natural response.
If it was a group of thugs though as you say,trying to intervene would probably result in them beating the hell out of me too!So the best thing would be to call for some help in that situation(something which i have done).
In the situation of people gossiping about someone behind their backs i would try to find out if the gossips were based on facts.If they turned out to be lies i would try to stop the gossips for sure.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
4 Nov 07
So you are saying if the gossip is true you would let it go on??
I believe gossip is bad...whatever kind it is.
I have been the brunt of gossip before...People taking something that may have happened..and talking about it..Someone talking about my failures.
Yes they are true..but would you like someone telling everyone of how you failed or when you didnt do something just right.
I think people should only speak nice things of others and not run their mouths in such a way that other people feel uncomfortable somewhere because someone made it there business to broadcast all the bad points about a person.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
4 Nov 07
I dont think famous people are good role models..that is when it comes to the gossip stuff or anything.
I havent done anything ..that is noteworthy..but believe it or not if you sneeze the wrong way people will talk about that..
I do not take part in gossip..
If it is talking about the good in others yes I do.
I am referring to personal stuff when it comes to gossipping. No matter what is said..I will always be staunchly against all forms of gossip..since I know what it feels like first hand to be the subject of it..
Nothing like the stuff you see in soap operas;)
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@athellas (12)
• Greece
4 Nov 07
Well i dont know your specific situation and why people were gossiping about you.But face it its not a perfect world,and people gossip all the time.I bet you have done too,i know i have.
Of course the ideal would be to say to everybodys face what it is that you have to say.I try to do that,and i expect it from other people too.But you cant really always speak to the people you want to speak to because of certain situations.
And then look at how much gossip all the famous people have to put up with.What about them?
At the end of the day it depends what the gossip is about.If its about personal matters i dont think it should be gossiped behind someones back.But lets say someone commits a murder,of course peole are going to gossip about him and call him a murderer.He has given them that right.See the difference?
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
5 Nov 07
I would be right there trying to help the person. You haven't seen me when I get mad. I can really scream. No need to call the police, if there is any more than a block away they can hear me. Mind you I will be shouting "Call the police!" In the second case, I would stop the creeps who are gossiping, "Haven't you anything better to do?" I have stopped kids doing that, the loud HARUMph does work, but have not had the opportunity to stop adults.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
You are so good..I really love that..That's what I like to hear ..someone who isn't afraid to use their vocal chords or to stand up for what is right:)
@secretbear (19448)
• Philippines
5 Nov 07
if i see someone being abused physically in the streets i wont go and help that person. i'll just call for help and i'll call the police to stop them. since im a girl i might not be able to do anything so it'd better be bunch of cops or bunch of good guys. ^__^
for the second scenario, i wouldn't join conversations like that because its just a waste of time. but if i were already in the group and that kind of topic came up, i might have something to say if the person we're talking about is a common pain in the azz for us. LOL
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@anniepa (27955)
• United States
5 Nov 07
If I were a big, strong man I'd probably step in to stop the thugs in the first scenario but since I'm a rather small-built woman I'd probably call 9-1-1. As for the second scenario, been there, done that many times. I'd defend the person that was being bad-mouthed and tell the others to mind their own damn business!
Annie
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
I love to hear someone who wont toleratoe gossip..good for you
@sid556 (30960)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Well if someone were being beat by a bunch of thugs, I do know I'd stop and do something as I have before. Last year a young man got beaten by a group of young girls with bats. Being a man who would never hit a woman, he suffered the beating. I pulled over and got the kid in my car and then followed the girls and confronted them. I knew one of them and did report her to the police who got the names of the others involved. As far as someone slinging dirt...no , i never ever join in . I always take the side of the underdog and yes, I do have pity on those that are so mean....quite obviously they too have had some pretty rough backgrounds.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Wow..isn't that something..It's rare that you hear of girls beating up on a boy.. but these days you never know..too much acid rain seaping into the water bins and ruining our thinking process.
Sounds like you are really a kind soul..God reward you for your good spirit.
@theprogamer (10534)
• United States
4 Nov 07
If its a group of thugs I'd try to call for help. Being armed has its limits so physical intervention would be a problem. Plus depending on where you are, sympathy will be handed to the thugs and the good samaritan(s) would be treated like criminals by the law. Its not totally like that but there have been some instances of it. For the gossip one I'd try to screw up the gossipers. I hate crude gossipers.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
4 Nov 07
Good for you on both points.. I really admire people when they stand for what is right..I spend much time trying to drill it into the children..I have to teach on Sundays that gossip can injure people and sometimes worse then physical injuries..
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@whimsicalsenora (9)
• Malaysia
5 Nov 07
I was at a shopping mall & saw this poor guy got hit by another guy. I was shocked (seeing as it was in a shopping mall & a lot of people were watching this so called abusive thug in action). I mean, wasn't he afraid of being caught? Doesn't he feel any sort of remote upon seeing a person's face covered in blood? The poor guy who received a flying kick and several punches from his attacker fell to the ground, picked himself up and started giggling sheepishly. Then to my disbelief, he walked over to his rival and patted him on his back, trying to calm him down. Hmmm??? That was when I realized that these two guys were friends.
The abusive thug brushed his victim's hand off, shoved him to the ground, & then kicked him some more. I was appalled. I wanted to intervene, but I was merely a girl with not much physical strength. The other passer-bys weren't doing anything either. But security came after 5 minutes & arrested the thug who clearly needed to be put into an anger-management program. The injured guy (who by now sported a bleeding nose & a cut on his upper lip) was attended to. I never realized how much I felt for that injured guy until I felt my eyes water. But it truly was a disturbing scene.
As for hearing other people being made fun of or gossiped over, I suppose it depends on how serious the rumors are. I believe that there is a limit to making fun of people, though. A friend told me, "what they don't know won't hurt them," & this is true if you could keep a secret. But for those who can't, think about what it would do to that certain individual. Will it hurt them? Think about the consequences. What if it was you who was being made fun of?
Some people make fun of other people to make themselves feel better. Others do it out of spite. Perhaps a friend of yours was making fun of a certain someone because he or she was hurt by that someone, & the only way to relieve themselves was by bad-mouthing their rival to other people. So you never know. Human beings are pretty complicated & I've long ago given up trying to figure everyone out. I say, accept people for who they are & feel free to tell them your opinions, with the option of pointing out if they've crossed the line in certain topics.
Not everyone is a saint. Except maybe Mother theressa - and - you know what I mean.
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Well..lots of words here..thanks for taking time to share about the happening in the Mall..
Yes accept people for who they are but don't be afraid to point out when they are in the wrong.
@hopejordan (3561)
• Australia
5 Nov 07
hi there littlefranciscan
if that happened in my street i would call the poilce because i could not do it
because i am a small build and i am a single mother
the kids need me but i would call police.
thanks for this discussion
@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
At least you would do that much. Some people could see wrong going on and not do a single thing about it..They think someone else should act..but not them.
@Joopa20 (138)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Yes of course I would save that person. First, i will take a baseball bat and knock them all in the head. Then I'll pick up the kid, run to a safe spot, and call his house. Then if somebody is being messed up, I'll go kick who ever was doing anything bad to them so hard, they'll start crying! I would just hope none of this has to happen. Ah, let my imagination flow through...
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Too funny.. I pity the person you'd run after with a baseball bat..that surely was not part of my thought process..
@suehan1 (4344)
• Australia
1 Feb 08
i certainly would stop to help them.if it looked really dangerous i would call the police and get them there as fast as possible.as far as someone being made fun of.i would say something to those who were hurling the insults.i would do it a way that they would hang their heads in shame hopefully.cheers sue
@MUKUL_6907 (292)
• India
5 Nov 07
to be honest, its very hard for a single person to save a person being beaten n hit by a group of thugs. obviously, if i go to save him i will also be banged by them. rather then this, i will prefer to call for help by informing the security and till they arrive i will try to accumulate some people enough to form a group so that we can fight back to those thugs in favour of that person!!
and in second case................
ofcourse, i will try to shut those mouths uttering such types of things!!
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@littlefranciscan (18327)
• United States
5 Nov 07
Good for you..if at least you try to stop the evil from happening and don't take part in gossip..Gossip is such a very very bad thing.
@Wario_1 (965)
• Sweden
1 Feb 08
First id pull my blade(wakizachi) and tell them that if they would not stop id turn pure evil and cut them down, showing no mercy to any on the thugs. its not that i hate all humans, i just dont have anything for spineless cowards, God is merciful but im not always that.
When it comes to gossip, i try and tend to avoid spreading it. Talking about a friend with others is no problem to me, it gets a problem when they would start to make fun of him/her and treat the person like garbage. If id feel its bad id probably sit down and have a good talk with them (no violence/screaming/bad language here) and hopefully they get the thing and stop.