PMS fact or fiction....

@whywiki (6066)
Canada
November 28, 2007 11:47am CST
I didn't use to believe in PMS. (pre-menstrual syndrome) I thought it was just a lame excuse for being a snotty b*tch. The older I get the more I can see a relationship between my moods and state of mind at the same time each month. My hubby is the one that can tell when my time is approaching. I am now a believer in PMS. Of course my cave man co-worker says it is all a myth. Of course what does he know he is a 40 year old bachelor! What do you think?
10 responses
@evanonut (30)
• United States
28 Nov 07
Absolutely fact. There are times when I have PMS that things upset me when I know they would not. It's very strange because I can recognize that my thought process and behaviors are screwed up but can't seem to change them.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
28 Nov 07
I know just what you mean and it makes me wonder how much fun menopause will be.
• India
29 Nov 07
Hello whywiki, PMS is a fact. It is a slight behavioural changes occur in ladies, because they undergo hormonal changes everymonth. The symptoms are anger, irritation,lethargy,stress and even depression. All these symtoms disappear once they menstruate. Again from the fifth day of the new menstrual cycle they undergo these symtoms until next menstruation. I have posted a separate posting on PMS and asked the men to be more helpful at that time to their wifes or understand their behaviour at that time.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
I am lucky that my hubby takes it all in and laughs about it and can usually talk me down from my mood with humor.
• United States
29 Nov 07
Different women act differently during that time of the month. I heard one woman don't do anything different during that time of the month. I also heard that some women crave certain foods during that time of the month.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
That's true I have known women that have said they don't think PMS exists since they don't feel the effects. I find that the older I get the b*tchier I get!
• United States
29 Nov 07
Even though I have a hard time recognizing my mood changes, I believe in it. Most of the time, I think I'm completely justified in calling my boyfriend and crying on the phone for no reason or getting upset over nothing. He's the only one who notices it, probably because he's the only one I take it out on. But ever since, he always mentions it and I'm a believer. I'm better at controlling it now that I can recognize it.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
Men are so patient with us aren't they and I find even though my other half is patient and all I still seem to take it out on him.
• Australia
29 Nov 07
I never used to get it when I was a teenager but now that I'm older, I can feel it more!! I do feel a lot moodier around the time of the month and people around me notices and stay away!
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
29 Nov 07
Me too and some days staying clear of me is a good idea.
@Sillychick (3275)
• United States
28 Nov 07
PMS is definitely real. Fortunately, I don't get it too bad, most of the time. But occasionally it is bad, and I don't even recognize it as such until after the fact. I guess when you feel sad or moody you don't think logically. Then when the time comes and I realize that is what it was, I feel better. Just knowing that there is a solid reason for feeling the way I do is a comfort. And you are right, what does a 40 year old bachelor know about PMS? Hmmmmm, I wonder why he isn't married?!?
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
28 Nov 07
He also says he would never go to the store to buy "women's products" for any woman! What a nut. I do the same as you, I am already into it when I realize why I am feeling the way I am, then it's okay.
@Mickie30 (2626)
23 Dec 07
I have my period too right now and am up and down with my moods I keep arguing with my husband and have even fallen out with my mum I get such bad moods. I am usually alright throughout the month, but before, during and after my periods I have the most horrendous pms. I really believe it is due to my periods.
@vicki2876 (5636)
• Canada
28 Nov 07
I do have it. Though I also too thought it was a myth I started to see that my mood and physical body would alter just before I got my period. I used to always get in fights with my mother and get kicked out of my house and sure enough a day or two later I would get my period. It isn't a myth in my book.
@whywiki (6066)
• Canada
28 Nov 07
I enjoy the bloating just before the best. It seems to me men get off pretty easy, except putting up with us.
• Indonesia
25 Dec 07
I do believe that PMS is a fact. I'm a girl so i can say that. There many times during my period that I found my mood really swings. I get more sensitif, I get moody. Actually I'm still moody when I'm not on my period but when I get it it gets worst. I can't explain that,but I often heard many guys think it's just a myth and they says how girls just using it to get tolerate for her behaviour. Boys...?!
• United States
23 Dec 07
I also was a non-believer in the PMS myth until recently. I am now 32 and have began to notice a pattern in the depressive moods, the abrupt mood changes, etc. I was also diagnosed with Depression recently, but had to do a med change to help with the PMDD symptoms.