Why is everyone on mylot so nice when they respond?

Yeah you haven't hit a nerve in someone yet is all I can say. But truthfully we all try to be nice I think because this is a forum where we can all answer honestly and ask questions we may not ask otherwise. We all try to be as helpful as possible. have a nice one.

You just have been 'lucky' or you do not ruffle anyone's feathers here when you post something. Many people act differently when there is a chance to earn a tremendous amount of income, which some myLotters do, but generally speaking people are only nice if nicely is how they are approached. It is the science of human communication . . . sharing the light and happy holidays, Miss Erica Hidvegi, the Enlightenment_Advisor, B.A. Psych/M.A. Transpersonal Studies- Cnslng/Author, Artist, Photographer, Entrepreneur & Freelance extraordinaire www.enlightenment-psych.net

LOL wait til you've been here for awhile ;-) you'll find that sometimes some of us (yes myself included) are NOT always pleasant and nice when we respond...For the most part ppl are pretty damn cool here at mylot but tempers DO flare and words DO get tossed about on occasion.... I personally could care less if I'm getting paid or not..If I have something to say, I'm saying it LOL its just my nature and if for whatever provoked reason what I have to say isnt nice I won't and dont candycoat it...

You share an interesting observation and one that is valid. In my view there is a principle of attraction based on the 'like attracts like' theory. It is in line with the 'what goes around comes around' principle as well. From what I have experienced in the coming on to eight months I have been a member is that people know this site is well maintained and users can and do report abusers and they are banned. That goes a long way towards keeping people mindful. Having said that...I have found that by and large everyone I have connected with are people who enjoy the process of respectfully sharing ideas and honoring differences. It is what makes Mylot the great place to be that it actually is. The fact that we make a little in earnings to do what we enjoy anyway is a perk that many bring into the equation. I personally do not think that people are nice because they earn something. I think they are here because they enjoy connecting with others in a social network that spans the globe. Anyway, that is my perspective and experience here. Good luck and happy Mylotting. Raia

I dont really know but i think most people do it for the money but some people i dont know

Well, I think not all people here in myLot is really nice. So far, I haven't encounter someone who's not nice to others. Also, I think many people here are nice compared to other forums because most of us has the same goal on this site: To make friends and to earn money. So people here usually help each other. ^^,

Nice?.. you mean people respond with helpful replies all the time? I personally did not feel that everyone was too nice, but yes everyone does try to participate and offcourse this forum is meant to earn money, therefore that could be a reason. Ain't it good when people are nice? let them earn money & be nice, I don't mind!! Let's all be nice dude.

that is propibly why people are so nice on mylot cuse they earn money.

Is this a complaint or a Compliment dear friend? It is very natural tpo reap as you sow ! Here I think all the memmbers are matured enough and they are not here merely to earn money! There are many elder members who are here to participate in healthy and purposeful discussions! Why should one be disrespectful and use an abusive language against any one for nomreason! The thinhs can be very well put in a strong way with simple but polite words! I trhink thats what the Mylot members are doing! If you see the membership there are members practically from all walks of life, practically of all permitted ages, both the sexes and well qualifiued too! Some members are experts in their respective professions and they are particiupating in this forum just to relax after a day's hectic schedule! In general the language seen on this forum is very polite and any abusive language hurting others is seldom seen! If at all some new member or some mischief maker tries to do so , then the discussion is automatically gets deleted as the Mylot people are smart and prompt enough to delete suich discussions! At the end of my discussion I would like to say that birds of same feathers flock together ! So naturally the people with non politeness are automatically culled out and the remaining members by virtue of their nature remain polite to each other! What you do you feel dear friend?

That surely is what you gonna experience here at Mylot, I remember when I firt came here that most of my started discussions has gain very interesting responses and more importantly never had encounter any harassments or rude comments so far. You will love going back and forth on your discussions because of inspiring commentaries and suggestions to the betterment of your Mylot experience, particularly in how you can be safe totally with all your postings. Good luck to your decision of going here and welcome to Mylot.

I just don't see the need to be nasty on here. I wouldn't be nasty in real life so why would I be online?

I think it's also because there are some rules.If someone is rude everyone will tell the person to back off.So i think that's why the people are nice here.Also you can be banned if you're very very rude.

i like it because a lot of people are nice around here and i don't really care about the money...

Why not create a contest of the best insulting sentence that could be told to the terrorist group al qaeda. Then we'll see how rude everyone can be :) Well, if you dont push the wrong buttons there is no reason for us to be rude, is there? :)

Because there's no reason to be mean, especially online. Everything is just virtual, why bother being mean?

It helps that this site is strictly moderated and you can easily get a negative rating or an exclamation mark (!) if you say something nasty here.

Hi,there! I think it's decided by the people themselves but not by money.I do agree some people would try to be nice because of money,but that's not the main stream.Most mylotters are really very nice and warm-hearted.I just enjoy being with them and joining the discussions here:) You'll feel more about that in the future.LOL! Thanks for the discussion and have a nice day^_^

It a nice site we are working with computeras well as get money also it is different.

everyone is nice bec of the ratings. if you look at the response, there are 3 squares on the right side. positive, negative and abuse. and i guess you can get kicked out from here if one gets reported to be abusive. so, i guess everyone is just careful.

I don't know too but I'm glad to join this forum.maybe money is one of the reason,but we all know it's not our formal work. maybe we feel interested and friendly about other countries' culture or the way of thinking,so we responded in a kind way.