second marriage

I'm married for the second time. Our first anniversary is coming up in March. My first marriage wasn't a "practice" marriage. As it turns out, he wasn't the man I thought I married and I left before he hurt me or my kids beyond repair. I don't think first marriages are "practice" marriages. I think everyone makes a mistake now and then and sometimes the person is who you thought he/she really was.

Of course not on purpose some get it right the first time lol but marriage takes 2. If one person gives up thats it. But my boyfriend was married before and thanks to her he appreciates me more because he sees all women aren't like her.

it's true that we can learn a lot from our marriage. but i don't think it's a good way to learn by getting married. if we get married with the intention of learning something so that we can make our second marriage last, perhaps no one will get married with us. we can practice every day during our marriage so that we can make our marriage last. if we really find our marriage a failure we can have the second marriage but that should be the last choice. i don't think it right to choose marriage only as a kind of practice.

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. You do not get married until you are responsible enough to make it work. It disgusts me the way people take thier vows so cavalier.

don't ever you think like that. Maried its not joke decision. if they fail in first time its not easy to continue and get second because sometimes shadow of first always follow it. Believe me i fell like that cause im second ok.

Interesting thought, but I bet that would not go over well with alot of religions. I am on my second marriage now. I will say that there should probably be a mandatory 2 year engagement for young couples. I say this because so many marry young and the marriages don't last. As far as persons who have been married before, I think they should live together for a minimum of a year before they remarry. So many people discover things about their spouse well after the marriage.

I don't feel that way. I'm married, it's first time and it's for real.

Personally, I do not believe in it. We should marry with the intention to keep the marriage relationship work and lasts forever. Everyday there are real life activities that let couples "practice" for the perfection of their relationship. Its bot a "hit and miss" sort of thing. If you are committed with your partner, you try to work the relationship out and stick with each other no matter what.