Religious freedom, what does it mean to you?
By writersedge
@writersedge (22563)
United States
January 8, 2008 12:27pm CST
To me, it means being able to sit in a religious discussion circle (we just call it the Circle) with people of all different religions (depends on who shows up and what religion they are as to what religions are represented) and discuss a topic from the different religious perspectives and from our own views, vantage points, too. What does relgious freedom mean to you?
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@miamilady (4910)
• United States
19 Jan 08
I absolutely agree with you. But, if people were to sit in that circle, they should actually "listen" to eachother and make sure they aren't "jumping to conclusions" and "misunderstanding what they are hearing".
Each person should be given an opportunity to speak and be heard while the others listen. Then the next person should do the same. People shouldn't try to talk over eachother. Or jump up, have a hissy fit if they are feeling threatened then run out of the room and slam the door behind him without giving the speaker a chance to clarify what they were trying to say. (HINT HINT)
I posted the folling in reply to something you said on one of my discussions when you told me that you would never reply to any more of my discussions.
Of course you are welcome NOT to reply to anything I say. I think I can live with one less myLOT friend.
But I did want to take the opportunity to "state my case" (so to speak).
I hope this post isn't to aggravating to you. In fact I'm hoping you realized the you misread what I was saying. Of course, if you don't think so. I respect your right to draw your own conclusion.
Take care and happy mylotting.
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@miamilady (4910)
• United States
21 Jan 08
Sorry I gotta laugh...
and now I'm gonna have to go back and re-read that discussion.
But I can say now without re-reading the discusion with complete certainty, that if I said that person had a point, the "point" was NOT that you are a demon worshiper!
Again, I'll say, I respect everyones religious and spiritual beliefs. AND their right to an opinion.
Perhaps, even those who are NOT respecting eachother.
I'm short on time now, so I can't go back and reread everything now, but I will at some point.
Regardless of how you feel and if you have hard feelings toward me or not. (I didn't read the entire post yet, I was eager to respond to your first line)
I don't have hard feelings toward anyone. Good luck with your discussion.
@miamilady (4910)
• United States
21 Jan 08
Sorry I'm responding in parts (sometimes I think I have adult ADD).
I do NOT think spirit guides are demons.
If your interested, my personal philosophy on that is - I think that spirits, ghosts, angels, could very well be different words that people use for the same type of energy. I haven't done a lot of research on the matter, but that's just my slant on things.
My mom recently passed, and although I have been uncomfortable with the idea of being visited from "the other side", I am now sort of hoping that I can have that type of experience. I don't care if she comes back to me in the form of a "ghost", "spirit", "spirit guide" or an "Angel" or "guardian angel". In my opinion those are just words and sometimes words can never fully express an experience or a belief.
If that other woman belives in demons etc. let her! (just my opinion) I didn't agree with many of the things she said, but I did see some validity to other things she said. I'm not sure how far you read, but if you read the whole thing, you might have seen later where I challenged her with some questions.
Now, I have a question for you...
If we are so bothered by people who judge us, isn't it somewhat hypocrytical to turn around and judge THEM, for being judgemental? I'm not attacking you here, I am simply posing a question to you that I have actually ASKED MYSELF and I am trying (not always succesfully) to keep in mind when I feel that I am being judged.
Take care.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
21 Jan 08
In our meetings, no one calls us demond worshippers and no one says the person has a point. You didn't call me that and neither did the others afterward, but the original person said has it occured to that Spirit Guides are demonds and you're worshipping demonds. Spirit Guides are not demonds. Then I responded and you said the person had a point. No, the person didn't have a point.
I didn't stop anyone from responding. I didn't get your post deleted. I moved on. If you think a person who indicates a person who believes in Spirit Guides is worshiping demonds has a point when they believe I'm praying to demonds, then fine. It is time for me to move on. You have your friends and I have mine. I will stick to the Pagan topics as they are more in tune with what I believe and I will stay out of the Christian, Religion, and all the other ones where people find crafty ways to call me names. I have been verbally beaten up for what I believe enough, I have been physically beaten up for having a disability and for having a family with a disability.
During our circle meetings, we didn't put down other people's religions. Indicating someone worships demons would be a put down. No one felt threatened in the circle because no one was threatening us.
I had a friend who had to leave where she lived because she was accused of basically the same thing as the person who wrote that. She was run out of town. Even hinting that a person worships demons can get a person hung in some places. My friend was falsely accused of similar and her car was blown up. Fire department called and they stood their and wouldn't put out the fire, told her to get her Satanic butt out of town or else.
Judge not lest yea be judged, so she judged me and I judged her. You didn't like that, but that's how I've had to live my life, get people the way they get me or they continue and don't stop. Except that I can delete who I want here and it can stop.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
28 Apr 08
Interesting.
Does your government recognize it and why do you want them to?
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
12 May 08
That does make it difficult. Here religions can't really apply for grants, but they can apply for tax deductions or tax numbers so they don't have to pay taxes on anything church related. Take care and thank you for explaining.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
12 May 08
What you described is to me Religious Acceptance...Religious FREEDOM however, to me, is being free to follow (or not depending) whatever religion or spiritual path that gives you what you need, etc etc WITHOUT being ostracized, belittled, harrassed, condemned etc etc for it...
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
13 May 08
The first part of yours seems like freedom, but the second part could also be considered exceptance. For if people accept that other religions are valid, then they don't ostracize, belittle, etc.
You say potato, I say potaato, but we both want to be free to believe and worship as we please. Take care and I hope you find/have the religious freedom you want. Thanks and take care.
@solutions_nikk (62)
• India
8 Jan 08
religious freedom mean not to interfere with my work/thoughts or which i do but when different religious people sit together in an discussion reg religion its not good because religion is our own personal &sensitive issue which cant b publicaly said if we r in our community we discuss our own religion our people only will haave different views reg it
@TravisE (440)
• United States
8 Jan 08
I respectfully disagree. I have had brilliantly illuminating encounters and discussion with people from a variety of religious backgrounds. Seeing the goal of religious practice from several perspectives is always helpful. The same has been true in my martial arts training. As long as everyone is on board with the idea that such discussions are delicate matters, and address very personal and sensitive issues, great work can be done in such an environment.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Let's say the topic is love. We each share the different views from each religion about love. I've heard some many very cool things from each religion about love. To me freedom of religion is that we are able to have all these religions with all these views and to share them. Only open-minded people come to these meetings and we have all found some very interesting excerts from different Holy Books. Yes, it is personal and it can be sensitive for some people. Those people that are too sensitive don't go to our meetings. Some people who no longer believe in the religion they did before come to the meetings to find what religion in most like their beliefs. Even if everyone had the same religion, there would be many different views. The fact that my country allows people to pursue different religions is a wonderful freedom by itself, but to even discuss them with other people of other religions, that's really neat. So the Circle group would not be for you, and that's OK, too. It's not for everyone. I just like that for some of us that can do it, that we can.
Glad that freedom of religion means freedom from being interfered with to have your own religion and for others to have theirs. Very nice thoughts on that. That is truly the free down to follow your own beliefs which is a very good intrepretation/meaning for you. Thank you for your response.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 Jan 08
TravisE, you got your response in before I did.
That's your and my way of looking at things, but that's not everyone's and religious freedom means they have a right to that, too.
I think all religions have "a piece to the puzzle" so to speak, but in some countries, what I have proposed would get people killed. I also respect and understand that. That's why it's religious freedom to me.
So which style or styles or types or whatever of Martial Arts? I did Shotokan in college and since I've gotten old (50 next month), T 'ai Chi-Yang Style. So I've had Japanese and Chinese styles, my cousin does Korean Style. Take care
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
7 Feb 08
Good one!
This brings me back to High School, my business law teacher told us this fist ends before another person's nose begins. I like your version better. I hope your response and others like it make others think. Take care
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
9 Feb 08
It's amazing how many people have hurt each other in the name of religion. Esp. the religions that are based on love. If one was based on hurting people, that would be even more deadly.
I agree with you and take care, thanks for your response.
@posham (1236)
• Philippines
8 Feb 08
lol,, we all know that countless wars past and present, minute or monumental were rooted on religion.. we are also aware that most religions advise their members or devotees to spread the word (to save them, etc.) but that does not give anyone any right to cause harm to anyone or anything. If a religion is rooted on hurting anyone or even oneself, I'd rather not be a part of it...
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
16 Feb 08
Very good and I hope you're able to do that. Take care and thanks for responding.
@suspenseful (40192)
• Canada
8 Jan 08
To me, it means the freedom for me to go to Church on Sunday without being arrested, to chose to have Sundays off and not be forced to work in a retail outfit or else I will be fired. It means the freedom to practice my faith without fear of persecution. It does not mean being able to get into a group with people of different beliefs and be able to talk about each other without being killed. They had that in the Roman Empire until the time of Constantine for all except Christians.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
8 Jan 08
We don't talk about each other. We talk about our religious beliefs. We include Christians. Usually one Catholic and one Protestant show up. Sometimes more and sometimes less. When I say all different ones, I mean all. Whoever shows up.
To me, it also means that some people can take a different day off, like Saturday, the 7th day adventists and Jews take those days off. So we usually have Saturday and Sunday off. But here, many jobs do run the weekends, like hospitals and so on. It's harder and harder to get a day off to worship for some groups, esp. nurses. Thanks for your response. Take care
@eyewitness (1575)
• Netherlands
10 Jan 08
to me i think it means accepting every religion as learning from all religions.
Also giving your views and opinions on religious things whithout people saying it's wrong.
Also listening to other religions and reading about other religions.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
11 Jan 08
Yes, I believe like that, too. Take care and thank you for your response.
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
15 Feb 08
I believe it means being able to Worship the Creator the way you are meant to Worship Him, with no one stopping or hindering you..
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
16 Feb 08
Smile, I think so, too. Take care and thanks for your response.
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@TravisE (440)
• United States
8 Jan 08
To me it means that each person is allowed to pursue whatever religious view make sense to them. The only rule I would like to see enforced in that arena is that your practices should be for you and should not harm any of your fellow sentient beings.
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
8 Jan 08
Yes, each person should have the right to worship as s/he pleases as long as s/he doesn't hurt anyone else. Excellent point! I like that rule. I think you're right. Thank you for your point of view. Take care
@adnanezzi (243)
• India
9 Jan 08
religious freedom to me is to express my feelings towards god without any interfrience from others
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@writersedge (22563)
• United States
10 Jan 08
Very good point. Thanks and take care
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@kundalini444 (194)
• Italy
9 Jan 08
Don't forget to include the right of not worshipping any religion at all, i.e. being an atheist.
That's religious freedom, too!
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
15 Feb 08
you only have freedom if you are free to exercise your faith...some country till now didn't allow somebody to assemble a group for religious gatherings...why did they do that, it's because of personal interest and pride.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
15 Feb 08
Thank you for your response. Also, sometimes they might be doing it for control. Take care