Do you hate bad friends ?
By MAHESH2008
@MAHESH2008 (844)
India
17 responses
@snowmouse1 (209)
• United States
2 Mar 08
I don't hate them I just don't be their friend. I have nothing to do with people with low standards. I have very high morals and I don't like people who use you for favors all the time either.
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
I agree. If our fake friends is making bad issue about us it is better for us to don't talk because if we also do the things that they done to us,it will look result that they just drag us in their standard which is low standard people. Sometimes other friends are just users so i always look first in their attitude before i join them. Its better to be with good people that you are sure that will never leave you.
@shaziacts (3)
• India
17 Feb 12
I really hate bad people. The ones who cunning use us for their own sake and dont turn up when we need a small help from them. I just cant adjust with such people
@gandatwo (602)
• Australia
1 Mar 08
up untill recently I avoided the word hate,preferring the word dislike.I do not believe in wright and wrong to begin with,what is right for one may not be same for another, therefore right and wrong to 'me' become negated.Reflecting on this I jolly well know if someone murdered a loved one I then know for sure hate would most definatley be applicable,and justifiably so to me.Hate would very possibly see me through my truma until such time as it came into aligment with my love bringing harmony and balance to my being.The people whom I dislike I envision them as simply being my teachers and give them thanks for showing me contrast.It does not mean I have to like them.May I add one can love yet not like,on the whole I do consider myself a worthy friend,am not into grunges etc they are a waste of my emotional time.Cheers
@bubuth (1815)
• Philippines
17 Feb 12
I have a friend before, i though they are really good people but i know that they have bad attitude but i never mind about that because i though they are my real friends. The bad thing about them are they are always making gossips about other until one day i notice that they also making bad issue about me. When the time that i realize that they are bad people because they are not true to their friends,i avoid them..
@academic2 (7000)
• Uganda
29 Feb 08
Hate would be too strong a word for people i call friends in the first place, but i agree, some of these people we assumed were friends deserrve a lot of hate! But other than hate them I avoid them complately
@manigandan18 (243)
• India
1 Mar 08
no no i dont hate them i will try to change them ...as a friend its our duty
@jillmalitz (5131)
• United States
1 Mar 08
I learned a long time ago not to hate anyone. It is a waste of energy. I usually just stay away from them. I have worked with people that I did not like but since I had to work with them I just did the best I could. It is not up to me to judge what makes the bad person or friend that way. Sometimes we dont know the whole story which might make us understand why they are "bad". We all could use a little patience.
@superjockh (237)
• United States
29 Feb 08
To me, there are no such things as bad friends. They are friends who might be a bad influence on you, but then you would discard them as a friend right? I mean if you have a "friend" who cheats or lies to other people, he/she is most likely to lie to you. So ending your friendship with them immediately would be advisable. I would not consider myself a bad friend because I try not to influence my friends into bad habits or "daring" them to perform inappropriate acts.
-Feel Free to Disagree!
@youless (112496)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Feb 08
Hate is a very strong word. I can't use it so easily. If I don't like anybody, then he/she is not my friend. I seldom will hate someone. If I hate him/her, be sure I have my own and enough reasons. I don't think I am a bad friend, time will tell it:)
@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
29 Feb 08
I am guessing you are talking about people that confess to be your friend, and yet is not there for you or isn't nice like a friend should be?
Well I wouldn't hate them, that would be against my beliefs, but I wouldn't confide in them things that I would confide to a good friend..
As for myself. I can only hope I am a good friend..:)
@julyteen (13252)
• Davao, Philippines
29 Feb 08
i hate bad attitudes...i don't hate the person who made the wrong doings...when a bad people approached me i will show him/her the best i can...but i am sure that i will not go with him/her in any way he do...i will not accompany him/her ...this will be my action to avoid that i can be like them.
@winterose (39887)
• Canada
29 Feb 08
I do not hate anyone, but if they are bad people they are not my friends
@hmike_d (1529)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Everyone hates bad person and i must clear that i ain't a bad friend. I've had a friend who's obviously bad on some of his doings and beliefs but then i was able to influence him good things. It's kinda my responsibility and it was really fulfilling seeing the progress i'm making. Perhaps, its priceless.
@ratyz5 (7808)
• Philippines
29 Feb 08
Bad people for friends? I have been acquainted with some but I surely don't consider them as friends.
As to my own assessment if I am a bad friend or not, as much as I would like, I try to be as good as possible since I want those friends around me to be good to me as well ^_^