autism - doesn't mean hopeless
By CraftyCorner
@CraftyCorner (5600)
United States
March 31, 2008 6:59pm CST
I was first diagnosed 30 years ago at the age of five with autism. I did not speak nor meet the eyes of others. I spent days rocking in corners of rooms and snarling at strangers.
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Things changed a great deal through love and education. My autism cannot be seen unless it is pointed out by me today. I read, repair my own computer, chat on and off line, then upload artwork.
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When I was growing up, through my childhood and teens, even my twenties, few knew what autism was. It seemed to be very rare. Now it is cropping up with heartbreaking regularity. I'd thought I'd drop a line, to let people know that there is a light in the silence.
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@goodhappens (671)
• United States
1 Apr 08
You are an inspiration, and if I may say your parents also.
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@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Yep, Robyn got me eating pasta allrightie, even if it did gross out my father. One mess in the kitchen solved a serious dietary dilemma.
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Of course then there was the day I decided to create my very own swimming pool, with no help from Robyn.
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I loved to swim. One hot summer day, Mom let me play with a water hose. Well, I looked at the hose, then I looked at the Volkswagen bug sitting at the curb, and thought, hmmm. Volkswagen bug car + water = swimming pool. I climbed into the car with hose in tow. The water began to fill the car.
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Mom began to wonder why there was suddenly a crowd gathered around her Volkswagen. It was a perfectly ordinary Volkswagen. Such ordinary Volkswagens don't inspire guffaws of laughter from perfect strangers.
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Mom came out to enquirer at the extraordinary around the very ordinary, and found it was not quite so ordinary indeed. Toddlers attempting to make swimming pools in Volkswagens are not run of the Tuesday fair.
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It took weeks for said Volkswagen to dry out sufficiently. The story lived on for years.
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@goodhappens (671)
• United States
2 Apr 08
That is classic, and I can see why the story lived on for years, what is also so funny I could see my twins doing that, glad I had a wagon and not bug, lmao....that is great
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@goodhappens (671)
• United States
1 Apr 08
Leave it to the creativity of a child, your sister was great. I am going to share this with an aquatiance of mine that has an autistic child, She is doing alot w/ him when had told her she needed to put him in a home to get better care. He thoughts are who can care for him better than his mother, She will love this Thnaks :)
@NueroticMomma (4)
• United States
1 Apr 08
I love seeing Adults living with Autism let all others affected in many ways with Autism know there is hope. I think it helps with letting people know that just because some one has a Disorder that it does not make them any less of a person or a Great person. Thank god there is so much Awareness out there now and early intervention is a big key in the success of our children.
I have a son who is almost 4 who was diagnosed at 2yrs old with Autism. I was told for 6 months my son was in a phase and he would snap out of it. For 6 months I watched my talkative, happy, fun loving and friendly little boy go to a non verbal, sad, head banging, aggressive and withdrawmn little boy. It was hard and made my heart ache every day. When someone finally listened to me I thought it was to late. But since starting Therapy for Speech and OT and also attending Early Childhood and Head Start my son has learned to use some words. He also loves to play with other children now, he is happier, he loves everyone he meets and he knows how to make others laugh and everyone who has contact with him tells me all the time what a special and loving boy I have. I am still new to Autism but I think it has changed me for the better and now when I see the child who is acting out or having a meltdown I understand and know what those parents are going through but I could never know how the child feels.
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@NueroticMomma (4)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Thank you for the links. I have alot of things I need to get done for my son and testing for food allergies is one of them. He is a extreme picky eater. Again thank you so much.
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@CraftyCorner (5600)
• United States
2 Apr 08
Your very welcome! I too was a picky eater. Autistic people are very sensitive about what goes in and what touches their mouths. Fair warning, they don't like going to the dentist. I didn't like shots either.
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