Do you like people being in your bed?

You know sometimes life is just a pain!!!!!

I wish that we had a spare room, we live in a three bedroom house and there are four of us, so a spare room is never going to be an option. It also means that I am not allowed people of the other gender to sleep over ... sucks!

I don't like people going in my room without asking either, mainly my dad and sister, because they make a mess. I don't really have anything private on display, so on privacy issues it is only if they go raking through my stuff that it bothers me.

Yeah, it is clear. I totally agree with you. no privacy invasion.

When I move out and live with a significant other I want a joint bed and a spare bed, because there are just days when you want your own space in bed, but others when you want a cuddle and the comfort of knowing someone else is there.

It's not really common for people to keep themselves away from other people's rooms, the way that out family have been broke up is that the person who's room it is gets priority but other than that it is the functionality of the room. People come in my room or my Mam's room to watch TV if the downstairs TV is in use. My sister and her friends come in my room to play because it is the biggest room. Everyone goes in my Mam's room if they want a shower, because that is where the shower is. My Dad and Sister do not have specific rooms, because one of them sleeps in the other bedroom while the other sleeps in my Mam's room. So bedrooms in our house are interchangeable and it is only me that really has my own room that only I sleep in on a night and that is why people using my bed bothers me yet people using my room does not.

Yeah people that are unrelated to you or not romantically attached to you, getting into your bed is a little odd lol. Maybe your boyfriend has a thing for your housemate Kat :P

Lol that's what your boyfriend says :p Either your housemate is comfortable with his sexuality or trying to get out the closet lol.

Lol, it's more like my housemate has a thing for my boyfriend! haha. My housemate, for some reason, likes pretending he's gay. Which is strange. He's rate weird.

glad she is not my friend anymore. She always came to spilled all her problem to me and all twisting my head, every day! even at my time work and even know that I've been working 8 am in the morning till 11 pm. She is a crazy one. I talk to another friend about her and that friend know that she suck my energy like a vampire. (no really!)He said my aura is clouded after meet her, always. She always look for me and after she meet me she happy, and because it was not her own energy, it was run out, and she need to see me again like she needed air!. I post in mylot a dicussion about her long time ago. My friend that i tell about her, said ;Stay away from her, and you will be happy. And i did. .. So there is vampire in our live. phew!

Eww that is rather minging. Most people don't need to bath everyday, obviously she did which is kind of odd unless you have some form of gross job like bin man. I feel sorry for you.

Your Parents don't share a room? (Sorry If my questions appear intrusive!)

Mainly because he doesn't have a room. There are three rooms, my Mam's, Sister's and Mine, and only my Mam's and mine have a TV, so if she is watching hers, my sister is playing the Wii downstairs, the only TV to watch is mine.

Believe me, they usually are...

If they were I would have probably had many an awkward discussion by now, so I don't think everyone does.

Fair enough, I don't mind people in my room as long as they are not racking around.

yep me too.

And Thanks so much for considering my answer as the Best Answer; I really just was putting in my two cents not looking to be Best Response. Peace and thanks again.

I want one of them, it sounds so pleasant and relaxing.

The pleasure is mine..

Thank you for replying to my discussion.

OOOOPS! I thought it on the HOSPITAL BED ! Not in the home. It seems I did not get it right and I am sorry for it.

I am assuming you's don't have a conventional relationship then?

Still. Why would you want your boss on your hospital bed?

The only person's bed I can sleep in is my boyfriend's or one of the beds in his house, because they are always washed.

always washed... wow sounds like a clean family :) I must admit I love sleeping in hotels.. I love the smell of the clean sheets. When I go on holidays I look forward to going to bed sometimes :)

They have two spare rooms, so I have the choice of either and after someone sleeps they get cleaned. Or there is his head and since he has bad skin, he needs clean sheets otherwise they aggravate him ... so that is basically why they are so clean.

Thanks for replying. Do you ever find yourself reluctantly agreeing to let people in your bed, because they have let you in there's before or something?

yea i have.

My dog isn't a shedding dog, but if it was a shedding dog not sure if I would allow it either!

I couldn't have animals sleeping on my bed, all the hair and stuff seems rather disgusting to me, especially since I am allergic lol. I don't stay in people's houses if they have dogs.

Nah, changing bed sheets is no biggie.

I don't mind people sitting on it really. I will remember never to touch your bed lol.

Thanks for your reply. You seem to feel the same way as many other people that reply.

I would hate it if people would not sleep until 5/6 regularly, I think it would disrupt my sleeping pattern too much.

Thanks for your reply.

It is usually on a Saturday morning, I tend to be downstairs on my laptop as the signal is better down there and therefore I take up the downstairs TV, so my Dad watches the one in my room as my Mam is still in bed until about mid-day on a weekend.