Would you still be friends?

no way! you'd better be away from her.

Never. It is better to stay away from her type of people. No way will I remain friends with a person who has treated my family and my brothers in that fashion. Don't think for a second that she will change or that she will feel remorse. And be careful with her. Be wary of her move , she will try to get close to you so that she can again get close to your brothers and your family. Beware of her and her motives of friendship.

This is a betrayal. Why would you be friend of her? She had hurt you and your brother. Let her go and you have to tell her that you move on and not wanting to be her friend anymore. I know it's a pain for you to say this but you gotta show that her action simply not acceptable at all.

NO! Stay away from her.From what you have wrote she can not be trusted for a second.Why would you even want to be friends with her after what she has done.This person caused a lot of trouble and hurt in your family.I don't think you can trust her and she sounds very selfish.Also she might just want to get close to you again to get close to your brothers...Watch out and hope she goes away...

No way! I would never remain friend with somebody that has done something like that. Expessially to family! Tell her you have better people to be friends with.

Do not be her friend. She has caused your family and you lots of pain. You do not need that in your life. She does not sound like she is worth the trouble. Real friends/family do not act like that.

well, i will be very careful with that kind of person... i will still be friend with her... but i will be very cautious and i won't let her take advantage of me... just be an ordinary friend with her and find out what is her intentions... but don't get too close with her as i think she might be up to no good towards you and your family...

She betrayed your brother's trust AND your trust. Unfortunately people like this have a very ugly side to them and they are not trustworthy. If I were you, I would stay away from her! I am sorry this happened!!

This girl disrupted your whole family life, and doesn't seem to have any remorse. She also doesn't look as though she's changed one bit, and my gut feeling is that now her boyfriend has found what she's like and moved out of her life, she's planning to come back and attempt to cause more disruption in your family. If she'd shown some remorse, offered a sincere apology and taken steps to right things with your family and within her own life, then I would consider forgiving her, but none of these seems likely, so I would tell her openly and honestly how much hurt she'd caused to me and my family, and that she had severed any chance of a continued friendship. What she has done and is doing is unforgiveable to my mind, and doesn't deserve forgiveness. Make a clean break from her and get on with your own life, and family life. Say "No", in no uncertain terms. Brightest Blessings, and good luck with this my friend. I hope you find peace of mind and happiness. x

No way. Why would you want to be friends with someone who obviously has low morals and ethics. She wronged your brother, don't betray your brother by befriending her. Sorry to say it, but that's my view.

I could not be friends with a person like that. She doesn't have a good character. Not only would it bother me because it's family but that she does it in general.I know we're all human and have flaws, but this seems like a way of life for her. And this is destructive behavior and thats something i can't be a part of.

No! After all she's done? Staying with her could cause lots of troublw with your family. Tell your brothers to stay away too.