Finally Sang by Myself in Front of an Audience
By suspenseful
@suspenseful (40193)
Canada
May 3, 2008 12:58pm CST
Well it was at our two Church's Spring Concert. I was not nervous, and I got complemented. The only trouble is that the best singer of our Church went before me. Oh and there was no microphone, so I had to really project my voice. Well Trevor is a powerful baritone. Everyone can hear him. I am also sure the people in the neighboring houses can hear him. I did all right, they did hear me, but I forgot everything I learned. So next concert, I am going to drown out Trevor!
So when you first went in front of an audience by yourself and not with a choir or a band or orchestra behind you, did you forget all you learned?
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25 responses
@terri0824 (4991)
• United States
3 May 08
That had to be an awesome feeling singing! Yeah, I think we all get a little stage fright and forget things that we have learned. Don't fred it gets easier every time you do it!
So what song did you sing?
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 May 08
Now I am taking singing lessons and I will be much better next time. Plan to do a solo at the Christmas concert as well. I did not think I could get through it. My heart was pounding like crazy and I was nervous walking up the aisle, but when I sang, I forget I was even there.
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@winterose (39887)
• Canada
3 May 08
hon it is normal, you are nervous it was your first time, look at the American Idol contests, Brooke has forgotten her words twice now, and that is all because of nerves.
You are doing a lot better than me because I couldn't even go in front of an audience and sing in the choir let alone solo.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 May 08
It would have been hard singing sacred and classical. I did not have a mike and I thought no one could hear you. I used to do ballet lessons when I was a kid so I got over being afraid of an audience very quickly and I was in a choir in my old church and we had to sing every Sunday. Besides when you are in the choir, if you faint there is someone on either side to catch you.
@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
3 May 08
..I'm not a teacher but I'd like to be a lecturer.. I don't think I'd get very nervous ..(?)
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
19 May 08
I was not nervous, not shaking in my boots or frozen. It was just before that, I said to myself "open your mouth, breath properly, take enough breath to finish the sentence," and then I go through it, but did not have enough breath to go to the end of the last word and I had to cut it short. It is very hard when breathing for singing is a lot different from what you were taught.
But they did hear me and no one fainted or ran for the door.
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@flowerchilde (12529)
• United States
20 May 08
No one ran away? Or even fainted? Heck.. you're all set then!!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 May 08
That is what I did. My friend who did sing professional told me not to look at someone directly and to look above them. I looked towards the ceiling and I hardly ever had to check the sheet music. I have a good ear that way.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 May 08
That sounds like my sons. They cannot sing. I think they are basses, the really low kind. I tried to get them to try, but they would not. I figure they are doing the same as you, protecting the world's ears.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
4 May 08
Well this isn't about singing, but it is about going solo. I had been dancing with a group for about 1-2 years when I went solo and I got compliments, but from my perspective, I was so shaky, that I felt it wasn't as good as it could have been..After that I never went solo again, not because I didn't want to, but because I never had another chance..
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
4 May 08
Well in our Church, we have a Spring Concert and a Christmas Concert, so as well as the choir, they request anyone who can sing or play a musical instrument if they want to sing or play for the concert. I wanted to do it last year but I felt I need more lessons and I did not have the money to do them nor to pay for the sheet music, but now I got a bit more money so I can take some online lessons. I also have some more sheet music so I can get a repertoire of songs so I do not sing the same one over and over again. I plan to sing at the Christmas concert as well.
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@carmelanirel (20942)
• United States
4 May 08
Most churches will accept singing suspenseful, it is the other gifts they don't want..
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@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
5 May 08
I am glad it went pretty well. I could not do such a thing. I would forget what I had learned and probably just stand there like an idiot.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I thought I would forget the melody. Right before it, I was looking at my sheet music and cursing myself because I did not pay that attention to theory. But anyway it turned out all right. So next time, I will do much better because by then it will have come naturally.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
20 May 08
When I was a teenager, I was in a dress rehearsal to sing a solo at the high school concert. I was unable to attend the show because of medical problems. That was when I wore my first strapless, and I was so embarrassed. I felt the bra could not hold myself up. When no one said anything, I thought it was because I was so bad, so I never got the courage to sing by myself until now. I never got co9mplimented on my singing, so I was in shock when they said I was good.
@wendylb (203)
• Philippines
27 May 08
I remember when i was at my grade school. I was grade that time that i sang in front of many audiences. I was so confident and happy that i selected as singer for the one of our competition. That time, my classmate (the original contestant) was absent because of some illness and my teacher pointed me. Even am not good of voice i raised my hand representing myself to sing. Hehehe I only realized the shame when am on stage singing. Many were laughing even my cousins all laughed of what i did. Even now, i laughing remembering those times.huh!.. i said to my self, i will never do that again. LoL
Take care and God bless
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
27 May 08
When I was seventeen, I was to sing a solo at our school concert. I was able to attend the dress rehearsal and I think the teachers and some of the students were in the audience, and when I sang everyone was silent. I was so embarrassed that no one clapped, and because it was the first time I wore a strapless. So I had no idea whether they were in shock or enthralled. I did not think I sung that good. And I still held that fear when I sang this time for real. I just enjoyed the music and singing.
@newzealtralian (3930)
• Australia
26 May 08
Good for you. I'm sure you will get better every time you sing by yourself. Practice makes perfect they say.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
27 May 08
I have noticed that when I record my voice, that it sounds way much better than it did when I first started. I wish there were a music store close to where I live so I can get more sheet music. I have about five now, and I also need a better keyboard. I can sight read some but am not that good at it and in my lessons, they have just started to go into it.
@emmyemoney (251)
• Nigeria
5 May 08
I have not really done that, but i think just like you i will be nervous. I think i should be preparing myself for that, so that a day such as that will come i will not find it so difficult.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I was scared at first. I thought I would forget my lines. Then I thought what if i forget the music. Then I thought why did I not bring along my digital recorder to see if I sounded all right and in case they do not make a CD of the concert. They did not. I think it is something to do with copyright. I did want to know how I sounded.
@nerynathalie (62)
• Philippines
5 May 08
Congratulations! You did your best and that's great..I haven't experience singing in front of the crowd, just a declamation, quite nervous but it's just good because I still did my best...
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
It is not that bad. You get in front of an audience and you forget that they know you, and just start singing. You just think about the song and how to portray it as much as possible. I stared above everybody's heads. Looked at the lights in the ceiling. That helped.
@nerynathalie (62)
• Philippines
5 May 08
Well, Congratulations! You didi your best and that's good...I wasn't able to experience singing in front of the audience but a declamation..due to nervousness, as expected i forgot some lines but it's just fine...I still did my best....
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I had so much time singing in the choir, and having to be in the first row, that I sort of got over my nervousness. Now I am in the second row, am singing higher, and it was because they recognized me as a first soprano that I got enough courage to sing a solo. I am not that good with low notes.
@shyloo (108)
• Philippines
27 May 08
I have not sang in a concert, but if you consider your schoolmates/officemates a crowd then I'll say yes I have sang in front of a crowd. I didnt take singing lessons also but I do prepare myself, or have someone coach me during "rehearsals". And yes, it is inevitable that I forgot what I had prepared.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
27 May 08
I have a friend who took professional lessons and she taught me what she had learned. It seems all the voice teachers are at the opposite end of the city, the west end, and Winnipeg is stretched out so I had to look online and go to those vocal sites, and download lessons. So in reality I have not had professional lessons either. There was a teacher in our neighborhood but she was mainly popular and not classical, and she moved before I had enough money to pay for her. I had my sheet music with me, and at least, I did not forget that, but when to breath and how long before I took a breath that was difficult.
@KrauseHome (36448)
• United States
4 May 08
Well, I have had the opportunity to sing Solos for many yrs. now. Used to do that back in school also back almost 30 yrs. ago even. Singing by yourself can be a Fun but nerve wracking thing to do. The problem is to not allow yourself to get so nervous you forget your words and end up embarrasing yourself. Also the main thing I always try to do is just be myself and do the Best I can, and do not worry about comparing myself to someone else. No, it is a lot harder than doing something like Karaoke, but can also be a Fun memorable experience as well. Glad you enjoyed doing this, and would consider doing it again sometime.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I would think the hardest thing in Karaoke is bending down and reading the lines and singing at the same time. I want to go and do solos at every concert and get to be more than just an amateur. I am not that nervous, it is just that I seem to get blocked up by the loudest voice and so I have to really go through my lines again and again. I love singing in front of an audience.
@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I was worried that only the one in front could hear me. And I almost forgot my lines, and then I forgot about breathing at the right spots, but it turned out all right. Next time, I am going to be much better. As for speaking, I can speak in front of a small group, but in front of a crowd, well no way!
@skydancer (2101)
• United States
4 May 08
Congratulations on a successful performance! Keep up the hard work - it will most definitely pay off in the end and bring you great successes.
As for whether I forgot all I learned the first time I performed by myself, I have never been in a choir or band, however, as a dancer, group numbers are easier than solos in that regard because if you make a mistake there is at least hope the the audience didn't catch it because their eyes were on someone/something else. As for a solo performance, I don't recall a time when I forgot everything I learned, however, there are some solo performances I have done that I would rather not remember or be remembered by because I did not have adequate preparation beforehand, and therefore the quality was not up to my full potential. But I think even so I am happy that I at least got up and did it because it is good experience, and as a performer you want all the on stage/in front of audience experiences you can get and you learn from it each time.
Also, as nerve-wracking as it is to perform after the widely-agreed best performer, there is always a lot you can learn from someone who has already mastered the art and the performance of it.
Again, congrats on your concert, and best of luck in the future. I think you'll find the more you perform up front like that, the more confident in yourself you'll be and the more you'll be in a position to deliver a great show! Take heart!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I have never been able to afford professional lessons, Most of what i learned was by watching other singers and by reading advice, and I did take one of those Cd lessons, and then I got interested in bell canto. I used to do ballet as a kid but never mastered the tippy toes (too clumsy) and I have sung in a choir and danced in a group. So this was the first time, other a dress rehearsal when I was seventeen that I had been in front of an audience and frankly it was not that bad.
@ky1119 (698)
• United States
4 May 08
Congrats! I play guitar and sing as well. Now and then I'll play a live show with my brother and I get sooo nervous! It never fails that every time I start to play in front of people, my nose itches and I can't scratch it because my hands are busy! :)
Don't try to drown him out. Forcing the sound out of you in that way will only make it sound bad. Just be yourself. Some people just have voices that carry better than others do. Don't stress over it. I'm sure you sounded fine.
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
They said they could hear me. I have a soft voice, at least that is what it sounds to me, but when I record my voice and hear it, it is as if it was some other person. I sure wish I had breathed properly. I always envied those sopranos who can sing for over a minute without needing a breath and do not forget their lines. Well it was lucky I had my sheet music near me even though I did not have to look at it.
@blackbriar (9076)
• United States
4 May 08
WTG girl! That's great you were able to get out there in front of alllllllll those ppl and sing. Me? You wouldn't catch me breathing in front of alot of ppl. lol
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
It really is easy after all that practicing singing, breathing right, making sure you get the words right, and hope that everyone will hear you. And your voice really has to carry without a microphone. It is sort of like opera singing without the Italian words and the fancy costumes. I really enjoyed it.
@above31rubies (1863)
• United States
4 May 08
Good for you!!!!! I can't really answer your questions because I have no personal experience like that...lol...but wanted to say KUDOS to you!!!
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@suspenseful (40193)
• Canada
21 May 08
I always wanted to sing solo, but I felt that i WOULD forget the words, but then just before I went on, I thought I would forget the music. I was very good at the middle part because it went up high and I am easy at highs then at lows, and the beginning and the end sounded almost the same, then when there is a powerful singer before me, he sort of makes me forget my lines. I did not this time.