Goodbye to mama

A lose is always the hardest thing to take because we feel cheated and left behind. When in fact it is as great of a gift as life is. We suffer for the lose of loved ones and especially as special as a mother. But there is a saying i always use and for some reason it always gives me peace in mind and in heart. It goes like this... She worked hard here on earth to provide and protect and suffered in pain to make pennies, and now she is walking on streets of gold and stepping stones of jewels never seen or imagined here where she left great memories behind for us to live on and always keep alive in our thoughts and our hearts. Now that is to live eternal... And as long as you keep her in your heart she will never part...My prayers go out to you and those she left behind, but what she left here for you always cherish and hold dear in your heart....

jer I want you to know first that I love you dearly. I have been slack on all things for the last week and half. I am having a hard time but try not to show it. I am carrying on slowly. Our oldest brother hurt me with some remarks a couple of days ago too. This is the hardest thing I have ever had to deal with I guess because I had to sign those papers. I guess I will never get this feeling of killing her out of my mind. Daddy went quick and we didn't have to watch him suffer as we did Mama. I don't want to say good-bye I will say till I see you again. Thank ya'll so much for being there for Mama and my girls. You mean so much to them. I thank you for being there for me too. I love ya.

I am so sorry to hear of your loss, jer31558. At this time of sorrow for you and your family, God is wrapping his loving arms around you and is providing comfort. This is a time to celebrate her life and all that she meant to everyone she touched. I think she would want you to feel happy for her that she no longer suffers and is standing with God by his side. I know you must miss her, but she would want you to go on. You will meet with her again one day. Bless you and your family, Take care.

Yeah. Amen. I am always here on mylot. And I sympathized a lot. I just lost my maternal grandfather, due to his major sickness. Now that he is resting in God's care. I was so devastated definitely. I was so sorry for your loss, like I said in your earlier discussion. I am always there to answer your call. And I would definitely pray a lot always. I will definitely say a peaceful quiet goodbey to my grandfather. My paternal grandparents are already in Heaven. I really do miss them so much. They all touch my heart with their presence.

my very deepest condolences...to lose a mother is a terrible thing. our mom's are our first loves and our tower of strength. the place we learn to love and to give and to be. without them it seems the world is so much more lonely. i still have mine and i am 47. i worry about my son when i am no longer here because he is an only child and i know it will leave a huge whole in his life but i can only hope and pray i prepare him well and he has many to love him when the Lord calls me home. i am crying as i write this and my heart goes out to you. may you find comfort in others around you.

Jer, I'm so sorry to hear about your mother, and my heart goes out to you and your family. I lost my mum a couple of years ago, and I understand your sense of loss. Believe me, your mother will always be with you in spirit. Thank you for posting this discussion. What a beautiful gift to enable everyone who reads this to reflect on our own mothers and grandmothers, alive or passed. Thinking of you, Penny

I am so sorry :( You take your time and thinking of you, your mom and your family.

I am so sorry to here about you mama. My prayers are with you. I know that no words can be said at this moment that will give you much comfort, but your friends are here for you. I lost my Mom in Sept. 2006 and still struggling with it to this day. God Bless you and your family.

Hi jer, So sorry to hear of your loss, it is always a very difficult time. Remember that your mom is now free of any pain and take comfort in that. Cry your tears, it is a very important part of grieving. Blessings.

jer31558 I am sorry to hear about your mother.My prayers go to you now to heal and live one day at a time from your loss. It takes a lot of time but at least your mom is not suffering any longer. yes I image today would qualify for the worst day of your life. my love and hugs for you.you will always miss her but this pain right now will grow less over time I know as I lost my husband back in 1991 and it took time but now there is no pain only the missing, that will be there always.take care.

I have lost my mother also so my heart and prayers are with you and your family...No words can ease this empty feeling or pain...I believe in another time to be with our loved ones again...Some distance shore near heaven where our family and friends wait...Hugs....

Your Mother was a wonderful women wheather she was being Mom,Granny,Great Granny, Mother-in-law or friend. This entire community will miss her greatly.

hey daddy, i am so sorry about granny. and i am sorry that i was not strong for u i tried my hardest. after u and mom got married i cant ever remember her calling me ur stepdaughter she always called me ur daughter. she always said that i was her granddaughter and just b/c there was no blood didn't mean i was anyless her granddaughter. so if u and mom need anything i will always be here for u. all u have to do is call. i love you.

JER I tried to stay strong for Mama and Amy. So thank you very much for holding me when I couldn't be strong for myself. Thank you for being my uncle. I love you :)

hi friend, my deepest condolences to you and you family.. i know what you are going through right now.. i have gone through the same kind of situation a few years ago.. i can be a bit difficult earlier on, but dont worry every thing will be fine as time goes on.. i wish you all d luck in life.. tc..

Jer31558, I am so sorry to hear about the passing of your mother. I know how close your family is and how much she meant to each of you. I will never know, however, the grief each of you will be feeling nor will I be able to understand the void left behind in your lives. No one will know how you feel, but many, including myself, will be here for you in any way we can be. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers and if you need anything feel free to let me know...you have my number.

my condolences my friend...may God bless you and your family during this hardship..may the Lord be with you and your family...

I am really sorry to hear your sad news, my thoughts are with you at this extremely sad time. Take care xx

Sorry to hear that my friend. Please accept my deepest condolence to you and your family. I'll be praying for your mother and for you too. Just do keep in mind that she's reunited with the Lord now. Don't worry, she'll be safe where she is right now. After this, try to move on. God Bless!!!

I remember when I read about you saying she was in the hospital. I am so sorry for your loss. I know it's not easy and we all are here for you. ((((((HUGS))))). If you need to talk just post it and we will try to give you comfort. God Bless