In 3 Days, I am getting Married, Yes on a Thursday

Congratulations! I think you already gave the best advice yourself: Concentrate on the good and positive things! Take things day by day, and end each day with a kiss and a hug. Good luck!

It's just jitters. I have them, too. I'm getting married in 10 days. We've been together over 4 years, lived together for almost 2, been through a ton of crap, but I'm still getting a little freaked out. Honestly, you never know how life is going to go. You learn what you can, you work your hardest and you do your best, but you really never know what's going to happen. And with heavy things like the way getting married seems to dump the entire responsibility of the commitment for the next 40 years of your life in your lap all at once, you get scared that you won't be able to control everything. Especially since you have a failed marriage in your past, the fears are more intense because you've already experienced them. But, you just need to accept that you can't do everything about everything and hope things turn out.

Sounds like you learned a good lesson from your first marriage, but I can understand why you are nervous about the second! Hubby and I are on our second marriage each (20 years last week) but we lived together for 3 years before that. I think we just wanted to make sure we didn't make the same mistake again as we had made in our first. It's understandable to be nervous about making such an important committment! But buying a house together is also a big committment and you seem to be handling that OK! As for advice: just remember the lesson from your first time around, and be willing to make compromises when necessary!

As long as you know you love him and he loves you that is what is most important and that you both know one another very well. Which 2 years of living together is quite a long time. Best of luck to both of you and congradulations

Congratulations. It's always nice to hear about people getting married. I think you know what to do already with this marriage. I wish you and your husband the best and I know that you will as long as you focus on the positive.

First of all, CONGRATS! Now I think it is perfectly normal for anyone getting married to be nervous. It doesn't matter if it's your first marraige or your fifth. It doesn't matter if you have never lived with anyone or if you've lived with your soon to be spouse for a long time. It's normal to be nervous. You already have the right attitude. "concentrate on the positive". I would also say that you should become each others best friends. Then when things are tough, and there are always tough times, you can fall back onto the friendship to get through it. Make a deal to tell each other you love each other at least three times a day. Never leave each others presence without giving a kiss and always greet with a kiss. These things, done regularly, will help you both to remember you love always. Congrats and best wishes.

congratulations... it is really a great news... good luck for your new life with your new hubby... all i can say is forget the past and move on with your life... treat the past as a lesson to learn so that you won't repeat the same mistake again... like you say, concentrate on the positive... congratulations once again and have a nice day...

Congratulations! Oh, how very exciting! I just went to a wedding this past weekend! That is really great advice! As for your nerves, it is probably just because of your experience with your first marriage. But try not to worry! Your second marriage isn't going to be the same! You're a different person than you were when you were first married. You've learned a lot, and I'm this marriage will be very successful!

Hey Bytemi. Congratulations in advance. I am still a young girl. Thus I don't know how I will feel when I am going to marry. But base on you post, I think you should have confidence yourself. Your new life won't be a problem and you don't have to worry that much. All in all, enjoy your new life.

My Dear Friend, WISH YOU A VERY VERY HAPPY AND PROSPEROUS MARRIED LIFE.

Congratulations!I beleive both of you will cherish with each other ,because you know how to live better and avoid something to happen.So,don't worry about something.You should believe in you and your husband.

CONGRATS! Marriage is always filled with love and angor. To be positive is very important. Since you have got it ,I would like to say that you can make your life brighter!

There is nothing to get nervous now.Just enjoy your marriage life ,be good and do good.Hope you both have a good understanding since you have lived together

Congratulations!How nice!It's common to be nervous before marriage.You are getting along well with each other,right? You'll live on like this.And maybe you'll love each other more than before.So just take it easy.I wish you happy forever!

I got married on a Thursday too. I think your lesson is a good one. You sound like you know each other pretty well. All I can say is just always try to remember to say "I love you" often and make each other feel special. Congratulations on your upcoming marriage.

accentuate the positive, eliminate the negative and don't mess with Mr. inbetween. that was a song a number of years back Bing Crosby sang it in some movie. but it is good advice just the same. so go into your marriage looking at the positive side of things and you will find happiness.