Saying it with flowers, or chocolates, or a holiday, or anything

I would be pleasantly surprised. I certainly wouldn't be suspicious. He does do it once in awhile. When he does it for no reason it means more than when he does it for birthdays or anniversaries because then it almost seems like an obligation. But for him to come home out of the blue with flowers, that would just brighten my day. When I was first diagnosed with fibromyalgia we were not married but living together with two children. He brought home flowers with a card that said, "In sickness and in health..." and we weren't even married yet! That has to be the most touching thing he has ever done for me (except for our wedding day and night - red roses waiting for me when we arrived in our hotel room). My husband is not the most romantic man in the world. In fact I'm usually the farthest thing from his mind during his day. Arriving with a box of chocolates? Well, more like a chocolate bar. But I like that too because he knows exactly what kind I like and that's what he buys me. It's discussions like this one that makes me think and remember the good things he does when he is frustrating the heck out of me.

My immediate thought: "What did I do? But whether good or bad, I'm still getting a present!" Lol, just kidding! Actually, he brings me flowers that he picks himself, or a pretty rock he found, just because he thought of me when he saw them. He works outdoors all year round, and he's always extremely busy and under a ton of stress. His taking time out to pick flowers means much more to me than anything he could purchase. So my real thought: "After all this time, this man still loves me. Even during his most hectic days, he's thinking of me. How lucky I am!"

Well since he has only ever given me flowers twice in 18 years then I know something was up..That he feels guilty about. I don't get flowers exceot as I said twice once for valentines day 13 years ago and I think he did it because we were living with my mom at the time while our home was being fixed and my dad bought my mom roses as well...and another time he bought me flowers because he felt quilty that he spent over $200.00 on himself and his nieces and nephews and didn't think once of getting me something and I only got the flowers because I asked if he got me anything and was hurt that he didn't and didn't so I got a 3$ bouquet of flowers..This was about 10 years ago s

It should be 'what's he done?' but it never is, it's usually, ' he's spending his money on others AGAIN. ' He often brings small presents home for the family so there's no point being suspicious. If he bought me flowers I'd know he'd forgotten who I was because I don't like cut flowers. Then he'd have to go to the old peoples home.

What the hell is he up to now? Or whats he wanting to buy!? LMAO That pretty much sums up what I would be thinking Pikey.

"The tool bought a new tool!" "He's about to give me some REALLY bad news" "He quit his job" "He's being sued" "He's having an affair" "He's drunk" It all depends on what he's holding in his hands. I just know that if he shows up with something unexpected that is supposed to make me swoon into his arms and take him to bed without dinner, then it's not good news! Thank god the days of those 'surprises' are over! LOL

If he's saying ..."There was a truck, on the side of the road selling them, on my way home. I thought you'd like some...." then I would know that he had been thinking of me with love and done it to make me happy.

Well if he has done none of these things I realise he is just trying to be nice which he does sometimes! He was in the bad books a little while back and he bought me a beautiful bunch of Lilies which are my absolute favourite flowers. I didn't forgive him straight away but the Lilies are still going strong and are the hugest lilies I ever saw - everyone who comes into the house is amazed by them! xxx

he wants to get in your pants lol. Sorry I had to say it b/c it was the first thing that came to mind when you said all that.

If it were m guy, then I'd think, "What a sweetie!" My guy rarely messes up and he does not mess around. So, it would be a real sentiment. Something from his heart. I would think that was sweet.

He wants to...how do you Brits say it??? SHAG!!!! WOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! LMAO! That's my first thought...

well that's the sweetness of it. i love to receive flowers when there's no reason for someone to give it. and a bunch of it on the day i don't expect will really be a big and perfect surprise for me. i think that's how he show his love, and that's how sweet he is in expressing it through flowers.

Ummm..Do you really want to know online..LMAO.Now P1ke Dear..since i'm not married anymore this doesn't apply to me but if someone wants to give me flowers or anything, then go right ahead and i won't ask questions...LOL..didn't want to say anything nasty here since I'm such a lady..LOL

If he wandred in holding a stalk or three then Id definately think that hed been up to something,hes not into buying anything in the flower dept and id be shocked.His purse doesnt go to gold or diamonds,maybe cubics but then wud it just be us being suspicious if something good came our way

I would think. "Wow, there must have been a sale on chocolates or flowers, because he would not buy any otherwise." and then I would be thinking, "I did want a new dress so why did he not get me a gift certificate" and then "all right now what restaurant are we going to go to now?" In other words, chocolates -he can bring them anytime and flowers, well they do look pretty!

If he is my man, then he is doing it just because. I love a man that can be romantic just because he loves me. He does not need a special occassion to make me smile.

My immediate thought, p1kef1sh, would be, "I'll keep him!"I do so love a romantic man and this kind of sentiment would definitely put a man in the best light as far as I'm concerned. I see nothing wrong with giving someone you care for a gift for no special reason.

I would definitely think all the things that were mentioned in the question and even after being told otherwise, I would still wonder. After that I would hope that it was because he loved me and felt that I deserved something because I put up with him........for whatever reason.

My first thought is "aaah" I love random acts like that and they hold so much more meaning than when given on special occassions. Actually, If a man treats me well and shows me he loves me...I could care less about flowers and gifts and such.

waiting for someone else. LOL