MY GF IS PREGNANT

Most importantly, is your girlfriend happy about it? It will be impacting her life a lot more than it will yours, and she will most certainly need some support with whatever decision she makes about keeping the baby or not. Once she works out what she wants to do you can work on her feelings, but please be considerate of her.

whether u r hapy or not u have to accept it...see if its safe to go for abortion though thats not a good idea...and its illegal..... but please dont act like all the other men and leave ur gf alone in this situation!!!!hope things get better for the both of u

first of all are you unhappy with her or just the fact that you are going to be a father. Just wait till that baby is born and you hold him for the first time all this will go away. Just be a good father and support her through this pregnancy. You got in this situation together and now you need to stick it out together.

Why u r not happy . this is ur child na.. then go n accept the baby n accept ur GF... n take a step forWard n marry her. . dont leaver her in middle of this all situation .

It's been 2 months since you posted this topic.. How are you now? Maybe you're just scared of the responsiblity of having a child, think of how your girlfriend felt when she knew that her belly will be big in a matter of months. Please consider her feelings too because it is very hard to be pregnant for 9 months.

Then i dont know what else 2 say! I mean bringing a child into this world is like so serious! So if you cant handle it then........

step up to the plate and take responsibility for your actions

I can understand your unhappiness, you are only 19, being a responsible father is not a easy job. I'm over thirty-five, and I still reluctant to be a father. i'm not sure I can make my child happy and I just dont know how to educate them. I understand you, buddy, and I'm really sorry for you.

Im sorry that your not happy! Maybe you are just scared? You will see though as time goes you will get more used to the idea of being a daddy! then when you hold the baby for the first time, you will love it. Trust me, I was the same way! Congrats though and good luck

Happy or not, she's pregnant and the baby is yours. The two of you will need to talk this through and come to a mutual agreement about what is to be done.

you won half the battle after accepting the child.

Well, that is the price you pay when you decide to go singing in the rain without taking the time to put on a rain coat. It is no fault of the child you created. Accept it, you are now a parent, so be the best one you can be.

I think you should take it like a man and stick my her. After all, she didn't do it by herself. You'll have to take it one day at a time. In time and maybe when you'll be there on the birth of your child, it might change your mind and maybe you'll be happy then. My husband wasn't sure of what it'll happend when he found out I was pregnant with our daughter, but when he witnessed the birth of his child, that all changed. Now, he's the best father for our daughter.

Where is abortion illegal?

How come you're not happy? I know when you did it, YOU ARE PRECIOUSLY HAPPY...and now, you're up here to tell us that you are not happy knowing that your girlfriend is pregnant...lolz...Are you out of your mind? Not all of us here are blessed to have a kid. Don't you think you need to rejoice for you are blessed with an angel. You maybe at lost at present because you are indeed not ready to face such consequences. But my dear child, you have at least think first when you did it with your girlfriend. Immaturity is not the answer to turn your back to a precious baby in the world. I wonder if your mother have the same thought as yours now? Stand up as a man. Be strong. This isn't a burden you might be thinking of but a GIFT from the ONE above. Carry it on and be a proud DAD...

I think u should be responsible for what u have done.be a man,and u also have to love her more.

I'm pretty sure that you were aware of the consequences that you should face before you did it...so i think that it would be resonable enough if you take the responsibility now...after all, nobody pushed you to do it...be a man enough! take your responsibility because it was your choice in the first place...it's just a friendly advice...after all, think about your sister or a very close girl to you...i'm sure you wouldn't like if if they were in your GF's place...

hey doom bullets u r differnet kind of man in thios world . u r telling thatz u r child and y r u un happy ? let the baaby caome to rthis new world okay dont abort it plz.

hey doom bullets u r differnet kind of man in thios world . u r telling thatz u r child and y r u un happy ? let the baaby caome to rthis new world okay dont abort it plz.