Do You "Give A Dollar" When Asked To Donate At A Check-Out Line? Is This Right?
By ShadyGrove
@ShadyGrove (996)
United States
June 29, 2008 2:04pm CST
Do you ever go through the check out at the grocery store or even in drive-through line at a fast food place and get asked if "you'd like to donate" to one cause or another?
I feel that I should not be asked to donate while I am making a purchase. The option to do so should be there, but I do not think it is right to ask the customer to donate. I usually have given once, but to be asked repeatedly on return visits is not appropriate.
What do you think about this practice? How do you feel about it?
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21 responses
@babyfirefighter (568)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I have donated before a dollar. I personally have worked at Burger King a couple years ago and we had to ask customers if they wanted to donate to the Make A Wish foundation. We had to ask every custumer that as long as it wasn't busy. And yes the money go directly to Make A Wish. But, bottom line is if I have an extra dollar to spar I do donate that.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
30 Jun 08
i dont normally do this either; i really dont like the pressure it puts on the person at the checkout either. what if they are on a fixed income and cannot afford to donate? its not all that fair to catch a customer on their way out of the store.
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@fluffysue (1482)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I usually do, but would rather not be asked. They can have a display near the register and not constantly ask. I feel bad if I am asked and say no, and I think that's what they are counting on.
Don't even get me started on the people (usually children) posted outside the supermarkets, coffee shops, and anywhere else. I can see that they are legitimate charities, but I do not like to feel pressured to donate every time I go everywhere. But I would feel guilty saying no to $1 after buying $100 of groceries, or not giving to the Boy Scouts when I've just bought a $3 coffee.
I would much rather pick a charity or two, and donate a couple of times a year when I can afford to make a donation to the charities I want to support.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I believe that is the point.We should not be made to feel guilty if we don't want to donate to some. And,we should be able to chose those places where we want to donate our money. I am sure, though, when we don't donate, we are probably looked upon as 'cheap skates'. I use that term because I refused to help with something my brothers did (I was doing something on my own for my Mother) and my sis/i/law left me a phone message telling me I was a cheap skate because I didn't go in with them. I guess it's all in the mind of the beholder.
@Barb42 (4214)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I see this all the time, not only in check out lines but even a the local fast food chains. Or, you will be presented with a piece of paper with some name on it and the cashier will say, 'would you like to donate for this?' I say no. I just don't like the idea of putting my money into hands and I have no idea where it is going.Now, if it is a fund for a burn victim through a Bank or something, then that is a different thing. Usually, if they are really legitimate, they set up a trust at the local bank and you know exactly where your money goes. I don't think it should be legitimate for all these stores to set out their jar for your 'donation'. You go in to buy groceries or get a fast meal,and there sets the donation jar, or the cashier asks you if you would like to donate. Lots of times I am in a hurry and it really bothers me to have to say again, "no, not this time".
@Juduka (118)
• Finland
29 Jun 08
I don't anyone has ever asked me for donation in grocery stores. I know what I do with my money and wouldn't feel the least bit guilty if asked to donate and wouldn't want to give. More often than not I would probably give, to a worthy cause that is.
I've given pretty educative verbal lessons to pushy F2Fers and will continue if they desire to attract people by making them feel quilty and/or afraid. Every month several charities I've personally chosen to fund get their money thru autoship (if anyone knows the english word for this I would be glad to hear, what I mean is that I've made a program with my bank that month after month a certain amount is sent to those chosen charities)
@rantingqueen (495)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I don't really have an issue with it. If I trust that the money is going to the place that it should go to, I do donate. One of my reasons is that a dollar may only buy me a cup of coffee, but it can help someone in need in so many ways. My other reason is that I truly believe what goes around comes around. If I can give a dollar to help someone today, than one day someone may be there to help me should I need it.
@ShadyGrove (996)
• United States
29 Jun 08
Usually the stores are asking for donations for a known charity - I just wonder how many times do they have to ask when you have already given. I would rather it was just there to donate - not be asked everytime I go through a checkout line. Thanks for your comments! Have a great week.
@YoungInLove (1254)
• Canada
30 Jun 08
I sometimes donate, depends on the cause. To be blunt, I dont think some of the causes are deserving of my money. Sure, hungry kids, foster children, whatever, totally worthy. You see all of these funraisers for schools. And I just graduated from highschool, and Ive been to three schools through my time. Neither one desparately needed money, they were pretty "comfortable" I should say. And my schools werent rich either. I feel kind of awkward whenever they ask me. I almost feel bad saying no, but sometimes I just dont feel like I should donate, I need money bad, Im going to be in debt because of college, Id rather use that money to buy groceries then to send a kid to camp. Call me selfish but thats how I feel about the situation.
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
I agree with you 100%. They shouldn't be too aggressive about asking people to donate to charity. It should be freely given without any pressure. Many charities are not exactly run like heaven themselves. A lot of them are very poorly managed and a lot of money goes to "administration" instead of going to beneficiaries where it can really help.
@saundyl (9783)
• Canada
1 Jul 08
I don't feel that it is appropriate to ask when someone is making purchases. I rarely buy the give a dollar items like that unless I know the cause very well and Its something i intended to donate to anyways. I've been very glad my boss feels the same way as he wont have the items in the shop so we dont have to guilt people into donating.
@cjgrooms (4456)
• United States
29 Jun 08
There are some charities that i give to over and over again (exp. MDA) but if it is one that i have donated to and think that is enough i just tell them that i have already donated and go on. It doesn't bother me because i know that this is one of the ways that these charities stay funded to help people throughout the year.
@ShadyGrove (996)
• United States
29 Jun 08
Yes, giving doesn't bother me, but when I am checking out in line, it just makes me feel like I am "bad" by not giving every time -- I think it is the pressure out of nowhere ~ lol
@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
30 Jun 08
I usually don't. It really depends on my mood. Sometimes I give when the cover f the tin is really nice. If there are pictures of kids who look sad then my heart goes out to them and I give some money even if it's not even a dollar. Most of the time though I pay for my grocery items using my credit card so I don't have lose change to donate. I guess if you don't want to give then that's your right just as it is the clerk's right to encourage you to donate. :)
@AnneMarie39 (77)
• United States
30 Jun 08
If I have already give the dollar to said cause, I tell them that I've already donated. I don't like it. It puts you on the spot when you've got your money ready to pay for your items.
@ShadyGrove (996)
• United States
29 Jun 08
I find it happens alot at the grocery store I go to. I've seen the donation boxes at PetSmart but have not had someone directly ask me to donate. I know a dollar is not much, but what bothers me is the business asking me over and over on my repeat visits - they should have the donation box available, but not ask me. I feel like a bad person for not giving (more than once) and for saying "no thank you."
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
30 Jun 08
i never been asked to donate at the check out so far... but i think when i did, i probably won't do it as i also feel the same way like you... register is not a proper place to ask for donations in my opinions... there are many other places where they can do it... take care and have a nice day...
@bonbon664 (3466)
• Canada
30 Jun 08
I don't think there's anything wrong with it. Usually the causes are ones I know. Each cashier has no way of knowing if you've been asked before, it's no big deal to say "No thank you", there's no pressure. There is a great need for so much money for a lot of organizations, I think it's good for companies to donate.
@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I never donate at those things anymore. We all need our money, especially these days. I like to help people but I would rather donate to them personally to make sure they do get it and get what they need or want. I don't think it is right for them to ask us for money either. They ask for a dollar at the license branch also. They also ask for a dollar or so when we file taxes.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
30 Jun 08
I think it is really very irritating as I have a few
charities I will donate too, besides I have a very 'small budget so am not going to donate every place I shop so they might as
well save their breath. I would rather pick my own charity to
donate to and do it in my own time not at my store when I am busy and tired too.
@Wispofcloud (108)
• United States
30 Jun 08
I personally don't mind being asked for a donation. And it's been a long time since the squirm that I get in my stomach when I say "no" has gone away. Honestly, I feel that the companies that ask for the donations (such as the grocery store or the movie theater) are using the event to their advantage as a publicity stunt. Sort of a "hey look at us, we're so honorable donating money, you should shop here more often because we're the good guys." I think that if they really wanted to be honorable, they wouldn't ask their customers for the money; they would just give it straight from their own profits. But I don't know, maybe I'm just cynical.