What are the things that you think you won't be able to forgive?

I think the worst thing that would could never be forgiven is if my partner were to physically abuse one of the children. I could never forgive that. Being unfaithful could be forgiven in away but not forgotten and I don't think I could stay if there was cheating. I would leave my partner but would probably forgive the mistake in order to still remain peaceful for our kids. I don't think that would ever happen but you never know. My partner has hurt me once and he has been dealing with that issue with the help of anger management so I can forgive one time only, if it ever happens again it will be the last. Like I said I can forgive but not forget. But abuse to the kids would be unforgiven forever.

I think physical abuse would be the one thing I would not be able to forgive. I guess everyone is different. But once I think about all the things that can happen that is the one that comes up as something I would have more trouble understanding , thus forgiving. I don't even know what could be done to fix it. I would have to feel completely reassured that it wouldn't happen again, and that would be difficult.

I think basically I could not forgive cheating. Once you know someone cheats I think you can fully expect them to just keep doing it. I couldn't forgive a cheater. If my partner committed some crime also, I could not forgive that either.

I agree about cheating. And physically hurting someone. Its not acceptable behaviour. And ive been there! Its not nice, not at all!

I think it'll be hard to forgive her if she leaves me for good, with a not so good explanation. I love her so much that I'm willing to wait for her, and she is too. But if she leaves me and quit this fight, I won't be able to forgive myself for not fighting too hard. I will be able to forgive her, but it will wait a long time. Cheating probably will hurt me a big deal, and that is the epitome of all things to hate.

If there was ever abuse towards my children unforgiveable period. I could not forgive that at all . Abuse towards me maybe i could forgive once but if it was a on going thing no way could i forgive that . Deffinatly cheating i could not forgive that , i feel if you love someone so much why cheat , so if he does he must not have loved me like he said he did. so i agree with you those two things are hard to forgive.

Both of the ones you mentioned worked for me. Cheating and abuse are violations of trust. And that can be a hard thing to get over. It takes a long time to build trust. When it gets damaged, sometimes it is unforgivable.

hi.. I have been cheated so many times by my previous partners, so I guess i couldn't take one more.. I'm so glad that my husband is a God fearing man and not really wanna mess up his married life and his kids lives.. If I had not met him or have a partner now who cheats, out he go and never come back again or I don't know what I can do... I really hate men who cheats for whatever reasons. If they want another woman, then he better get out of my life and be with his mistress. I have no time for those kind of men anymore. And I think they are not worth my life..