Do you go to the movies alone?
By katsmeow1213
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
United States
July 28, 2008 8:49am CST
My week last week was extremely stressful. My husband has been working some very long hours, and not getting enough time off, so I have had the kids all week and was going out of my mind from stress. Well Saturday night when my husband got home we began fighting about his hours again, so I decided to just give myself a break. I took off and started driving. Along the way I said to myself that it would be nice to go see a movie. I don't often see movies in theaters due to the cost and the fact that I'd much rather go with hubby, but then we'd have to hire a sitter and that gets really costly. So I drove to the mall and decided to see Hancock. It was a great movie, and it felt really good to be able to do that for myself.
Of course the prices are ridiculous. It cost me $3.75 for a flippin bottle of water! For crying out loud.
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61 responses
@honeydew82174 (1720)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Now days with the prices it is so hard to find some thing to do that will not cost a small fortune. Good for you for going to the movies. You need to do some thing for yourself every now and then. It would have been nice to take the hubby. I have done this before to. Just to get away. I do not hire babysitters for my toddler. If she does not go with family then I have her all the time so I do know what you mean about being with the kids all the time. Have you thought about maybe filling out job applications for your local companies online for the hubby? Then he would only have to take off work for the interview. Just a thought.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
28 Jul 08
As much as I hate to say it, I think we are going to stick it out with his current job.
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@mythreya (90)
• India
28 Jul 08
Somrtimes we feel to watch movies alone because movies are a great stress busters.They take you to other world.and you will forget about your problems atleast for some time.but we want to watch romantic movies with your hubby or lover.we would like to watch comedies with friends.It depends on mood and the situation.
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@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
28 Jul 08
i would do that (but i actually havent done it myself) but if you think, it makes a lot of sense, after all, all you are really doing is watching a movie. its not a time for chit chat but ya, the prices are nuts at the theatre and we havent been to a movie since we saw horton hears a who (which we got to see for free! - we traded in points for a voucher).
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@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
I did it once... it was the when I watched Da Vinci's Code... It was an awesome expereience actually! get to enjoy the movie even though I'm alone... it is just weird to see everyone around you with somebody... it distracts me actually... but I prefer to watch movie alone rather than with someone, it makes me concentrate more about the film's story...
@RaDuuu (11)
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28 Jul 08
I think it depeneds on the movie if you can watch it alone or with someone besides you. I prefer having someone by my side, so we can laugh toghether, comment ..etc. I think you made a great choice with that movie, Hancock. I waited for it too long, I watched it at home as soon as I got my hands on a version. So, to make a long answer short, I don't go to movies alone. I usually go with more than one person.:)
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@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
28 Jul 08
There's absolutely nothing wrong with going to the movies alone, especially if you are stressed and need time away. I don't go to the movies alone myself and for that matter, I don't like even renting or buying a movie and watching it myself. I prefer the company of others there with me. It is stressful when you don't have your partner around to help you with the kids but try to remember that his working late will help pay off a lot of summer bills. I'm a single mom myself and don't have a partner to help me and YES it gets very stressful and you just need a break. Try getting a friend or relitive to watch the kids for a few hours at least once a month so you and your husband (but mostly you) can get out and keep your sanity. It's crutial to do this otherwise the stress is just going to build and it will ruin your relationship with your husband.
Good luck.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Unfortunatly he doesn't get any extra money for working extra hours, he is salary.
I also have no friends or relatives in this area, which is part of my problem. If I did have friends I could visit I probably wouldn't get as stressed.
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@liltunergirl (467)
• Canada
28 Jul 08
It does suck when you have no one around to watch the kids and now it makes it expensive when you have to pay for a sitter so you can have your freedom. I really do understand how it is to have the need to get out and save your sanity. Depending on how old your kids are, you could try to find a group in your area where mothers meet up with their kids. That way you can speak to some adults while the kids play together and you make new friends. If your kids are older, then I'm sorry, I have no ideas! Good luck.
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@hon7483 (4)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Movies are outrageously expensive to go to...but if I desperately want to see something in a theater then I go with other people. I also after getting married don't have friends or family near me. Even though I Love my husband some days I just feel like I wish I was single again...it's a different feeling...like I just want to be left alone. So when I am stressed or feel alone...I take the alternative route and either go for a walk or sit in a park. It helps clear my head.
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@DuoMaxwell (953)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Twice. I went to the movies TWICE. And you know what? It felt a bit comforting. The first time I went to the movies alone was when I went to see "Yu-Gi-Oh! The Movie". The second was when I saw "V for Vendetta". But on both occasions, I had to walk a short-but-hot distance away, but it was worth it. I had my money ready to pay, and the thing about going to the movies alone is that you don't have someone drag you to a film that you don't want to see. The prices may be a bit pricey, but it's all worth it. So I have experience in this kind of thing.
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@gegegelay (933)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
Sometimes, yes. When I just want to unwind by myself, I love to watch movies alone.. especially when none of my friends are available or if everyone else are busy. I love to pamper myself with a movie, that's one of my therapy after a busy day's work:)
Btw, that's really expensive for a bottle of water!
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@di1159 (1580)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Well good for you! Everyone needs a break now and then, and instead of staying and continue to bicker, you left and were able to relieve some stress. The movies provide us with a "great escape hatch" from the pressures of day to day living. Too bad about the water though! Ouch! That's a bit steep! I guess next time you'll hit the water fountain in the mall first!
@clowdine (1402)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
It's been quite a while since the last time I saw a movie in the theater. That was around 2 years ago. I was most active watching movies in the theater when I was a college student and yes, I would watch alone. That was the time when the ticket price was only 50 PHP on the average. Honestly, I don't know now how much it would cost but I presume the price has increased a lot.
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@kenzie45230 (3560)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I've only been to the movies alone once in my life, and that was to see Mel Gibson's movie, Passion of the Christ. I was living with my elderly parents at the time and was new in town and had not met any friends. I wasn't really alone, though. The theater was PACKED and I brought a big box of tissues and shared it with the entire row of people. :-)
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@Scorpionok (343)
• Brazil
28 Jul 08
i go with friends but the last one, Hancock, i did watch it all alone because everybody have somthing to do =/
the movie was great anyway with them or not but i believe if they are there it could be best
thanks, Scorpionok.
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@chandu245 (647)
• India
28 Jul 08
Hi friend, according to me i won't go alone to movies. It will be boring if i go alone that's why i will go to movie with my friend's or my relatives or with my family. Really i will saw movie in theatre monthly once or six month. Cost of the ticket will be more now so.
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@wuliucong (42)
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28 Jul 08
I dont think I would go to the cinema alone,The feeling is terrible..because I cannot share the joys with others ,For me the most important thing is the happiness which I can get from,the content and the place are less important for me..
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@alena824 (376)
• Philippines
28 Jul 08
A long time ago I used to go to movies alone. That was when the cost of watching one on the big screen was not as prohibitive as it is today. Many of my friends found it weird that I did -- one because they think it's scary to be inside a moviehouse alone and two, because movies are meant to be enjoyed with someone.
But I found it relaxing to go out on my own, enjoy an activity by myself and really concentrate on what it is I am watching. Besides, I could watch whatever movie that caught my fancy even the most inane without having to listen to someone else criticize me for my choice.
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@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
28 Jul 08
i never go to the movies alone so far... i am not a movie fan and hardly go to the theatre anyway... i prefer to watch the movies from DVDs or the computer... it is so much cheaper and more relaxing as well... i prefer to go shopping or read a book when i feel stressed... take care and have a nice day...
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@Msnforum (631)
• United States
29 Jul 08
That's kind of bad, ain't it. Going to the movies alone just ruin everything. If you want it to be cheap, rent a DVD. The monthly cost of having movie rentals is far cheaper than going to the cinema just for looking a big projector screen and nice sound effects. I still recommend you to look for better options other than going out since you have financial issues that needs to be sort out.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Regardless of anyone's financial situation, treating themselves on occasion is a must! Especially a stay at home mom who doesn't get to leave the house all week. Being able to see a movie alone was equivalent to a couple hours of heaven... so next time keep your opinionated comments to yourself, TYVM.
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@beautyqueen26 (16030)
• United States
28 Jul 08
Oh! Good for you!
You deserve a break.
Guys don't understand the stresses
a 24/7 mom faces.
They just assume we are at the house
anyway, so what's the big deal with being
around the kids more.
But honestly, all of us moms need to be
able to take a break on occasion.
I'm happy that you got a few minutes breathing space.
I look forward to watching Hancock.
Will Smith is so funny and talented.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
29 Jul 08
Hancock was a great movie, but it wasn't as funny as you'd think. It definitly had some comedy in it, as that's Will Smith's style, but it was actually a pretty serious movie. It takes a couple twists that has you wondering what's going on, and it has quite a bit of action... so it's really something that everyone (except little kids) will get enjoyment out of.
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@snowy22315 (182200)
• United States
28 Jul 08
I go to the movies by myself frequently. There are so many movies that I would like to see that I dont think hubby would enjoy I go by myself. I would rather have a friend to go with but I dont know too amny people that are available during the day. I agree most of the prices at the concession are ridiculous but I have a regal cinema card so I sometimes will get freebies from going to the movies. and have gotten a few free popcorns.
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@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
29 Jul 08
My problem isn't so much that I don't know anyone available during the day, but that I don't know anyone period, lol. I really don't have any friends I feel close enough to that I could just call and ask to go to the movies with me. That's something I'm working on.
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