Crying for nothing..have you ever gone through that?

@brisk123 (2823)
India
August 17, 2008 8:19am CST
Sometimes when I am alone I would just sit and cry over for nothing.I don't know the reason why, I will feel so miserable and lonely.Do you ever feel this way at times?
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@intimate36 (1415)
• Pakistan
17 Aug 08
It is common in women ...I mean , if you compare men and women, you will find this more in women... Somewhere in your mind , there is the reason , for crying...something in past ... Just try and find out... Try , to share your feeling , if possible with better half ...or a best friend...people who do not share their feelings , have this problem.... I hope , you agree with me..
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
I don't disagree with you my friend.What you said is also true.But, I share every thought,every little thing that happend or I did in the past with my fiance.There is nothing left in my heart to tell anyone that maybe like burden to me or upsetting me.It is something that I could not understand about me.But, I know I need to find out and I will.
• India
17 Aug 08
you are right.i agree with u 100%
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
17 Aug 08
Many times when I feel deserted by friends. I have very few friends and if any thing bad happens with them I feel like being alone. But later think its the way life is. Cheer up lol. Have a nice day
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
Thank you pkraj111.I try to be strong,I try not to cry for simple and silly reasons but times like this, when I don't even know the reason it makes me feel more sad.If I only know the reason, then only I can do something about it.
@lucy67 (819)
• China
17 Aug 08
i have the same experience. but though i think the crying is for no reason, on second thought, it actually has some reason either from outside or from myself. perhaps such a thing happens more to women than to men.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
Well, I don't know about men but it happens with most of the women.Women cry and they don't even have an explainations at times.Either it is because of mood swings,periods etc or it is possible like what others and you have said that it can be because of some unexpressive feelings within our heart that is affecting us sub-consciously.Whatever it is I feel so low and cry a lot whenever this thing happens to me.
@djoyce71 (2511)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
Yes, there are times that I feel like crying specially when my menstruation is about to come. That's one of my PMS.
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
This is one of the reasons for girlsto get upset and irritated.I do that most of the times.I go crazy.I get short tempered in those days.
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@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
17 Aug 08
I had this experience before too. Sometimes when I am alone,I will be crying there for nothing with the feeling that I am the most lonely and pitiful person in this world. Lol. I think this is a weird feeling,maybe is a mood swing.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
Oh common don't be..we all feel this way at times.Mood swing,yes,you are right.This is one factor.It happens with me too
@gladeez (63)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
I do not believe that you are really crying over nothing... sub-consciously, you maybe thinking of something that happened in the past that makes your day gloomy. I wish you can share your thoughts with someone cause it may help you analyze why you have this sudden urge to cry....
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@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
This is what am trying to understand and analyse my situation.Maybe you are right, maybe there is really something that I need to find out about me.Thanks, I will try to find out, maybe its really my sub conscious thoughts that is making me feel this way and I didn't realize it.
• Philippines
22 Aug 08
Yeah,I think I experience that a hundred times. I don't know but I think its one symptom of depression. but yeah.. not the serious one. I have cried for nothing because of feeling lost or feeling empty and sometimes because of felling happy. I think crying is still good for us cause it lets us brings out the emotion we have.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
22 Aug 08
Yes you bet!Crying is good, I mean even if we don't know the exact cause,we are still able to express our grief through shedding tears.Most of the people are not able to do so.They get more and more into the stage of depression.This is not good.Thank you for sharing your experience.I will try to keep myself happy as possible and not cry,and I am expecting the same from you my friend.Happy myLotting!
• United States
17 Aug 08
I get this way some times. There are times when I am just so happy I will cry, there are times when I am just so sad and don't know why and cry for no reason. I think some times our hormones get out of whack and maybe makes us this way.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
I told this to one of my friend, she said the similar thing to me.It can be one of the reasons.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
17 Aug 08
The feeling that you are alone is the reason why you cried. You cried because you are alone. You cried for something, that is being lonely and alone. I do have my lows in life. I cried for the reason that I did not meet my expectations in life. I cry because I feel so down. I think I cry most of the time. And I not ashamed of my tears. My tears does not indicate that I am weak. It just my tension releaser. MY crying is my prayer.
@adoremay (2065)
• Philippines
20 Aug 08
I appreciate the best response. There is nothing wrong when we feel sorry for ourself, when we cry so much, and we feel so rejected. it is normal, experiencing our low moments in life. However life must go on, with that we have to wipe away our tears and take away our fears and doubts. and we must face the world with full of courage.You go girl.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
On second thought, I think you are right.The fact that I didn't give a thought about it made me feel like I am crying over nothing.Yes,crying doesn't mean that we are weak.It only makes us feel better and lighter at heart.
@medicguy (307)
• Pakistan
17 Aug 08
I haven't felt like that for a very long time and I am glad for that. I advice that you find someone to share your reasons behind your depression and sadness. It is always healthier to let your emotions escape from the deep chambers of your heart. Express yourself freely, there is nothing wrong in that!
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
I don't exactly know why this happens to me at times,my fiance he is worried about me, since he is also not around here.I don't know why I cry like a baby.I can tell my fiance anything and everything, there is nothing that I hide from him.So there is no question of keeping something at heart to myself..
• India
17 Aug 08
ya. i had such situation when i was young.
@brisk123 (2823)
• India
17 Aug 08
I guess when you are young, this kind of feelings and emotions are more and difficult to understand by one..
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• India
17 Aug 08
In my young days mean when i was in my youthful days between the age 18 and 26 ,i mean