Do you ofter quarrel with your mom?
By Lemon123
@Lemon123 (7)
China
August 19, 2008 8:39am CST
I do love my mom but we quarrel often. The thing is, after a quite "peaceful" period of 5 to 7 days, we begin to quarrel with each other for some stupid things and after that the "peaceful" period returns. It's like a "volcano eruption circle" for me... do you face the same situation or it's my unique situation?
4 responses
@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I am so thankful that I don't quarrel with my mom ever. We have a great relationship. I can tell her things and she understands and supports me.
@khatri_50 (225)
• India
21 Aug 08
I and my son often quarrel over minor things but it is notaserious matter. this is
a genration gap. after some timeof anger we foget all the things , our qurrelis a
quarrel of love& reflect our affection for each other.he really love his mom too
much.he often ruarrel when i ignore my health& other personal matters he is good
boy he always wishes best for me and his dad.I never mind his quarrel becase he
love me .itell him the realities of life so that he may not find difficulities
in future. he is very sincere. i really love him and support him.
@icegermany (2524)
• India
19 Aug 08
no i dont think so that its a unique situation , i think its normal.
even sometimes it use to happen with me n also sometimes my friends
or my cousins also have mentioned about this so i think its normal.
it happens that our way of thinking does not match the way of thinkin
to our parents n hence it ends up with aquarrel , it use to happen with
me that my mom n myself just think opposite n we always sometimes ends
up with a quarrel.
and i also understand that it doesnot mean that we dont love our parents
or they dont love us , so i can mention the saying that we always believe
that whomever we love much we fight with them much, have u heard of it.
it simply applies here, n its just a matter of time n thought n later
its as usual how it was.
@shooie (4984)
• United States
19 Aug 08
I think this happenes to everyone. But like my mom use to say. I brought you into this world and I can take ya out. lol The thing is if you are living at your moms and are an older child of 17 or older doesn't matter of your age you are under their roof unless they came to live with you. But if you live with you mom it's her rules and it doesn't matter how old you are. When you move out then you make your own rules.
@marlena18042 (636)
• United States
19 Aug 08
Hi Lemon123. Unfortunately for me, your situation sounds really good compared to mine. Do my mother and I quarrel? No, we never egt along.Everytime we get into a discussion about anything from politics to socks it turns into a deabte then, a full blown up arguement.
It's her most of the time because she not only does this to me but everyonr at her house! Her boyfriend,and herself at times claim that is is menopause.If that's the case,I hope it isn't hereditary.
Because if I act that way when I go through it I will lock myself in a romm until its over.It will probebly be that or my kids and husband will kick me out! lol.
@Lemon123 (7)
• China
24 Aug 08
Oh I'm sure the situation depends on people's characters and on people's age, maybe your mother is now in this period of bad mood but after that she will get along with people who she cherishes, who knows. I see the photo of your lovely baby and I think u won't quarrel with him/her:-)