do you make love in the dark? or do you prefer a clear view of the action?
By kayedanda
@kayedanda (1850)
Philippines
August 29, 2008 3:43am CST
i know. who cares about the lights when you're getting it on, right? LOL! but if given a choice, i like it softly lit. not much light, which can be unromantic, and not too dark that we end up fumbling about in the darkness.
but a better choice would be several candles in the room, which takes up more preparation but sets me in the mood for the action and arouses my senses better. perfect because it allows us to see each other while covering minor flaws. after giving birth, i am not too confident about doing it under the bright lights (but of course, during the day you can't do anything about it:p).
so how do you prefer it? on? off? or dimmed?
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21 responses
@sneezeklenex (344)
• United States
30 Aug 08
I prefer, like you, dimly lit. Just enough to see, but not enough to see flaws. On the other hand, we can't really control it sometimes cuz if we feel like making love, we do it right then and don't worry about how the other looks. LOL We've been married for 4 years and he knows it's not what's on the outside that makes me me, it's my ability to make him feel good! (in more ways than one ;o)
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@wickikitty (532)
• United States
29 Aug 08
It depends on who I'm looking at LOL
If they are hotter than god, then of course lights on!!!
but if they are the opposite please clap off!
if they have a cute face -- candles! woot!
or reffer to the ugly scale
light candles dark
HOT OK I WAS DRUNK
@wickikitty (532)
• United States
29 Aug 08
man my scale so did not turn out how I typed it... bummer!
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@reybadgar (83)
• Bahamas
31 Aug 08
You don't have to see the face anyway. Just enjoy it in th dark.
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@Uroborus (908)
• Canada
29 Aug 08
I'm with you. I prefer to have it softly lit. I don't like it in the dark, and alothough I like it better in bright light than dark, I'm not crazy of intense lighting either.
I like it when you can see your partner clearly, but there are shadows playing on their skin from the subdued lighting.
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lights turned off, we would not want the kids to see what mommy and daddy's play is all about.
@kayedanda (1850)
• Philippines
31 Aug 08
i know what you mean. if you have to do it like augh!, then under the blankets or in the darkness is the only way to go :p
@strossuss (125)
• Philippines
8 Sep 08
clear view is the best for me, because if its dark, I can't see her beautiful face and her sexy body.
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@Gothicana (458)
• United States
30 Aug 08
that doesent matter to me
light or dark
at home outside
its ok when both have fun
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@Sarahoun1985 (20)
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30 Aug 08
of course i would not want to c anything and be in pitch dark. This will add more fun to the excitement and makes us wonder more. Im sure once in a while we will just turn on the lights but if we turn off the lights instead, the experience will be much better
@sandyrusty (278)
• Canada
29 Aug 08
Lights on. I like to see the actionas you put it and seeing the pleasure expressed in my woman's face tells me when I am doing things right and when she is building and reaching her peak.
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@faln_angel1205 (1192)
• United States
29 Aug 08
Well it doesnt matter to me if they are off or on. I figure it this way, it feels the same either way..lol. I already know what the person looks like, and i know how to find everything so lights arent a necessity...but if they are on, well thats fine too.
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@walkthetalk (1307)
• United States
29 Aug 08
I have a lamp in my room that is touch sensor.
I touch It once that gives off just enough light
for what we need. I also like to see what I'm doing.
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@marisriel (1156)
• Philippines
29 Aug 08
i used to like it dark, but my husband boost my confidence enough to want it a little brighter:-)
@reybadgar (83)
• Bahamas
29 Aug 08
Lights off please! Oh well, you don't really have to see it but feel it. That is the human instinct to know where and how it goes. Dim moments for me are more romantic - I could feel it.
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