I almost quit here tonight

I haven't had such a problem here. But I've been hurt a few times where I wanted to quit other places. But I'm no quitter. I'm glad you're not either! And this is for the heartless person.

Some people just don't have a clue. They want to judge people not having any idea what they may be going through, or any health issues they may have and what those entail. I don't know about MS, but, if you do have hypothyroidism, that means your thyroid gland, and therefore your metabolism, which controls your weight, are under active. Hypothyroidism, when not controlled by medication causes people to GAIN weight. Don't let someone being judgmental get to you, sweetie. You and God are the only ones that really know you.

I had my own share of bad experiences in here but using that to quit here has never come to my mind. I think you would just admit defeat if you do that. They could not really harm you in any way so why quit. Just leave it by and you can move to another topic like this and if that guy follows you then just ignore him.

don,t you quite you have a right to be here just like everyone else your weight have nothing to do with it may god bless you

Frankly, physical appearance should be one of the least important things about a person. I haven't felt like quitting, but I've gone through some months of in-activeness. I wait for the day that someone tries to make a fool out of me. I could use a good flame fest right about now.

I haven't been here long enough to say too much about these things. I have gotten some pretty rotten responses also. I just learn to let it role off my back like water rolling off a ducks back. You don't know who to trust in this world. These people don't know us and if we don't put anything on here that we don't want them to know they want. I make a lot of typos in my discussions it is not that I don't know it. I am not illiterate, it's is just a mistake. I catch it but its too late once I hit that start discussion button it is gone. I am just saying don't leave because something someone wrote to your response, they really don't care one way or the other and they will probably never notice you are gone. You know yourself better than anyone. Satisfy your customers and D___N the window shoppers. Happy MyLotting.

Yes, sometimes, there are people on mylot, and people in my life in general, that make me feel stupid. People on mylot can bring other's down at times, but the thing is never to let them get to you and to stand your ground. Also, do not reveal anything about yourself that you do not want other people to know about.

Glad you didn't decide to quit over someone being a jerk. don't ever let people being hurtful get the best of you, especially over the internet. people tend to grow balls and say stuff online that they wouldn't normally say to a persons face. Just ignore em hun, not worth the time or energy.

That was not nice. People should not attack a person's physical appearance. It's but right for you to stay here Shaun72. Don't let other people pull you down. Not long ago I had one discussion made about a word that I used and it offended me in a way, however, I did not let that get me down. I'm still here enjoying my time with other more interesting people. Just do what you love doing on here and let those people roll in the dust in dismay.

Now, your number of posts makes you a veteran here at myLot, and I'm surprised that anything could still get to you. Just shrug it off, there are good people, bad people, and stupid people. That's just the way it is, in myLot and in the real world.

Some people are a bunch of looser, this is a place to make friend not to insult one onother. Don't let them get u down, I'm sure you have brought plenty of happiness to mylotters while online. If there is someone who should go I think is this person you had the problem with, so, good for you for sticking around. Take care...

si, agree with you

you should post the comment and the user name so that we can see what happened. think if its bad enough you would have people write to this person in defense of you, and maybe that person would think twice about being mean in the future. weight is a tough subject for everyone in the US. we are all either worried about becoming overweight or worried about being overweight. it's tough all around. i have battled with weight issues for most of my life and can say it is not easy. keep your head up and your heart in the game. mean people suck, don't hide out in your house or off line just because there are mean people. we may be overweight but at least our "character" flaws don't add to the overall negativity on the planet. peace to you, lg

People who act that way only have themselves to blame.My father told once 'what goes around, comes around!' and I totally believe in it! Your a pretty women, and once you get to where you wanna be in life, you'll have men(like that a**hole)begging for your phone number.

it is never wise to quit for few craps here. that too and old timer and valued mylottter like you. i also felt the same few months back for a crap. later i thought its not worth it.

I have definately had a few moments when I almost quit...once I went as far as deleting all my friends and was shutting down my account before I decided to sleep on it. The fact is, there are jerks in the world and some of them find their way to MyLot, you just deal with it and move on. I have been here 3 years and no one is going to run me off...if I leave it'll be b/c I want to. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]

I was made fun of because of my physical appearance a lot of times when i was younger... and that really hurts a lot... and most of the time... i wonder why people can be so cruel to others... but i make it a point to use those not so good experience to strengthen myself further... to boost my confidence... and to show others that physical appearance is not the end all of a person... So i am glad you decided not to quit... because doing that will be a sign of weakness... and i think you are tougher than you think you are...

Sorry someone said something that would want to make you quit here at mylot. Sometimes people can say things here that doesn't take another persons feelings in to consideration. Glad that you aren't letting one comment from staying here at mylot. Just let it roll off your shoulder and go on posting.

Hi Shaun! I'm sorry you were made to feel bad. But, I think you are right in not letting them bring you down! You deserve to be here just like any of the rest of us do. Whoever this was should just back off and leave you alone. It seems like no matter where you go there is always one person out there just waiting to attack others for no reason. Those people generally do this because they have no confidence themselves and the only way they feel of importance is by making others feel bad and that just makes them end up looking bad. Just so ya know, I'm a big girl too and frankly I could care less what others think about it. While Id love to lose weight for myself for better health reasons, others may think of me however they wish! You stay strong girly, don't let some loser make you feel bad. In everyone else's eyes, they are the ones who look rotten! ~HUGS~ Susan

I dont know you and i am new to this but i will tell you dont let anyone say mean things about you. i am over weight and i say everyday who wonderful i look and how beautiful i am. I try to even do it at those none pretty moments like washing dishes or folding laundry. I go around my house telling everyone how pretty i am. Most of the time they roll their eyes but it makes me feel good. And if no one else will tell me i am pretty i know i am so what they think does not bother me. I have learned if you let someone make you quit something or change what you like to do you are letting them control you. And i am the one that likes being in control LOL