my VIRGINITY...my gift to my husband to be...

I hope your wish come true It is the best gift for the right person in your path

lol i doubt dat u wil keep this promise... =) if u happen to meet me haha jus kiddin

I really and truly do not understand this way of thinking at ALL. Women are more than what's between their legs. If your virginity is the best thing you have to offer a man, than you're either a very boring person or you sell yourself short. My body is not a gift to anyone because it is not a possession. My body is mine to do with as I see fit.

Unless your husband is also a virgin and has saved himself for marriage then your virginity has no value. If you are prepared to take a man who has been sticking his manhood here and there then you don't value your purity either. It's an outdated notion in this day and age. I think it's best if both people bring some experience to the marriage. Your husband will forget about it straight away as soon as the act is over and he has satisfied himself. Reality is not about love and hearts and flowers. Reality is much harsher.

Hi Carmela, a nice thought and nice to see at 22 but do you search for virgin guy too..then think again and all the best.

that's the true spirit that all girl and women should have, respecting your future husband, which is to take care of yourself and your purity... keep up the great work!

I do agree with you that your virginity should be your gift to your husband. I do associate virginity with a committed and loving relationship. © ronaldinu 2008

I guess if that is what you think is the best then do it. There are few ladies out there that remain like you so good luck in finding your one true love.

i hope you find it,good luck. but please be carefull.make sure you know him for atleast 3 or more years. because there are man out there that play Mr Perfect for a long time and after you you marry him and give him your virginity ,their true identitiy comes out.Just take your time.

hello dear keep your promise,stay pure and untouched until the right time comes.Wishing you good luck! you know,I also made that promise to myself,but I don't think I can keep such promise. just kidding! anyway,you're in the right path!

Hi carmela0210.. You're such a decent lady. You are on the right way of thinking. The woman should remain virgin until the day she will be married to the man she loves. The man whom she would chose to spend the rest of her life. The man whom will gives his name and love to her and will protect and provide her all the love and things she needs.. How lucky is that man you would chose to marry. Good Luck and Congratulations..

it's nice to know that there are still single ladies who would give only themselves to their would-be husbands :)

well done for you not many people care about that anymore, yes most guys aren't virgins but you know what if that right guy comes along he probably is because he also was waiting for that right girl. When you wait for after marriage it gives you a bond that you trusted someone with you and the other in return did the same. People saying not to or hinting at that it's not a good idea are wrong. You are protecting your health as well carmela because STD's are like water unfortunately even if you get married get both tested for AIDS and what not... (even though i clearly know i didnt have and he didnt we both got tested either way). Hope that helps...

you are right even my thinking is same . I am also virgin and its gift to my fiance . Will you my friend because we have matching thinking. . . . . . . . . . .

hey do not stay a virgin too long aand do not wait too long for the right man to come along. is there a right man? look for agood man not the right man. do not be too choosy otherwise time will just go past and you will not know when years get added to the 22 you have lived. I wish you all the best and and happy losing of virginity. may it be a joyous and fulfilling event.

Asians tend to be more conservative (some of them anyway, since most youngsters have changed their mindset) and there's nothing wrong with it. It's our culture. I would prefer my future wife to be a virgin too, but based on the statistics (which I've read somewhere), it is better for me not to question about it. If my future wife is not virgin, I will be disappointed but I will not dwell on it for too long since I still love her. And I won't question her about that.