Blah, blah, blah.....Ever faced days in life when you just couldn't be bothered?

Before I retired I worked with old people and the job was residential so I could not get away from it. I had days like you have just had but I just had togrin and bear it. I had to be on my toes as people can be a handful to care for. Some of them were really lovely people but some of them were really miserable and nothing you did pleased them and that was not good on a bad day. Now my husband and I are retired, we have not got much money but we can please ourelves what we do and ifwe have an off day we do not need to do anything. It is great. Just think when you have a bad day you are working for the time when you can please yourself.

We are all human, we all have those days and you, my friend were entitled to yours. I am glad you survived It's all according to what you make of it. It is rough doing something when you don't feel good, either phsically, mentally, or emotionally. It is rather difficult to put yourself in a positive state of mind when you just don't give a d@mn. There have been days where I feel just as you have described. Some days, I choose to let EVERYTHING get to me. I will snap at everyone for no reason (other than I feel like making everyone else miserable because I am) I have gone so far as to tell my co-workers (some of whom are my friends outside of work) not to talk to me. My day gets progressively worse. The days that I choose make the best of it, laugh at myself and try not to let everything get to me, it seems to go much better for me (and everyone around me) So, in the end, it is all about state of mind and how you want to feel about yourself. I hope the rest of your week is better

Oh yes, this happens to me many times. But the fact that I have started to live life differently has given me so much strength and motivation that I hardly allow those occasions to take over. So, even when I am stressed, down, fidgety and also with a terribly bad hair day I try to be there. Kudos to 'biting life back' and to those sharper teeth that I'm infallibly a fighter.

hi dear james it perhps has happened for the first time!! well the life is an experience such moments will and do arise. not to get disheartened!! i hope you have heard of ratan tata, the man of nano car that 2500 dollars car fame. he has to dig out the entire plant and machinery not only belonging to him but along with all the vendors!! but he used it as an opportunity and played his cards so well that more than 10 state chief ministers have offered him alternate sites at better terms!! and he has come out a winner!! so let the adverse moments be your opportunity to learn and emerge stronger!!

Awwwww, James, did you not sleep well because of the snipes? I am sorry you've had a bad day.

Its quite obvious you are facing it for the first time..I had to face it so many times..I felt like I would rather sleep whole day due to lack of energy but instead I had run up to villages with my other NGO co-workers and advice the peple there when I myself felt so out of sync I felt like killing everybody around me and lacked the energy to do that even!! It happens and yeah i do feel after such ays that I could have performed much betterif i was in a better mood and mental condition

Been too long on a holiday ? The holiday season of Ramzan was over last week. Considered screaming or leeting go to get yourself all pepped up ? I did end up all fine, did it not James ? It usually happens that way. I've faced this many a time and even at times considered skipping those meetings. But never did and it went through mostly just fine.

oh yes... i did... when i feel that i am tired and bored with this life, then i won't care about anything that is happening around me... i just want to sit, relax and enjoy myself... rather than saying or doing something that might hurt other people's feelings, i prefer to be on my own when i feel like this... take care and have a nice day...

I think we all have days like this. I know that sometimes whenever I have really important things going on, that's when I can't sleep the night before and then I'm tired or something else big comes up and I'm too busy to handle everything. That's what it seems like happens. Always seems like something else comes up that prevents me from being able to really do everything that I need or want to do. Sometimes I hate it but I think it's a part of life.

Hi there James72! I am always in such a situation. There are a lot of things, particularly paper works, that I need to work on. These are the times when I couldn't be bothered. If I really need to concentrate on my activities, I end up not answering phone calls or even text messages. There are also instances when I go out of town for a holiday. When I do, what I intend to do is to rest and have fun. These are the times when I MUST not be bothered. I hate it when my superiors would ask me to do things or participate in some other activities when I am supposed to be somewhere else having fun.

There are days when things don't seem to go right with me too but they don't last very long. I am usually very upbeat about life and the only time I feel bad or down is when things I plan don't get approved by my boss for some insane reason which seems to stick in his mind more than the logic behind my proposal.

Ahaha, I just started a discussion today and started with blah, blah, blah too and it had something to do with complaining. I just wanted to crawl back to bed today after going to the DMV when it opened. But I still had to get my day going because I'm starting my training for my new job today. But I'm glad I pulled myself out of that funk although even after a nap, I'm still sleepy right now. I think 300 days of last year, I just couldn't be bothered so now I have a lot of making up to do. Anyway, I always feel better for making myself face important things on days I would rather not. I always feel better for making myself do something out of the house even if I just felt like staying in bed.

I can quote Kate Bush: 'I want to be a lawyer, I want to be a scholar, but I really can't be bothered'. (Being an artist singer is a way not to be bothered?) Yes,it's oh so difficult to avoid being bothered. No matter who U are, there's always someone & something waiting to bother U. However, I suppose Tibetan monks are freed from being bothered. Or maybe they only pose so.

yes one day when i was in year 12 i had athletics on because i am so good at running :P any way and then aftyer that i had my basketball teams grand final so the next day i went to school all tierd and we had a suprise maths test and af6e that we had to go do some excersize the teacher said because we where sitting doung the test for ro long. we had to to 3km's after the practice it was SPORTS DAY right then i thought ohw f%@$in hell kill me now i came 15/20 when ushely i would have came first and then i went home pretend to be sick so my mum would let me tay home and slepp in and it worked so here are a few tips on how to get sick but not to sick u just look sick #1-if ur mum or dad or at your house if u have olives that have the oil drink that #2-eat a BIG BIG BIG BIG BIG BIG BIG !!!!! bowl of pourage you will get diarea lolz it works #3- go to the toilet and try to vomit (make the noise) it will take 1 or 2 mins then u will realy vomit #4- DO NOT DO THIS UNLESS 100% NECECERY stick ur finger in you mouth and poke/tickle ur tonsel and get ready to vomit (hint wear ugly cloth when u do it it might go on ur pants or top or shoe's i warned you)