relationship or one night stand?
By jhl930
@jhl930 (3601)
United States
October 7, 2008 2:14pm CST
i know that everyone likes their own thing but as i am getting older i would rather kind of have a relationship for some reason, i guess its the fact that i am getting older and i may not always like it but for me i really like relationships, i guess its because i have found a great girl and i don't want to screw that up and i would rather have her any day over just a one night thing but i know that everyone likes their own thing and i was just wondering about you, what do you prefer and why? i would like to thank you for taking the time out of your day to come by and read and review my discussion and hopefully answer, i hope that you all have had a great day so far and that you have a great and safe evening today, thanks again for taking the time to come by...
16 responses
@WildWetJoyce (215)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
I don't think I can live with a one-night stand, I'm all for "corny stuff" like always and forever, hehehe! I wanna find a great guy as well and start a serious relationship with him, not something that just came and was gone the next morning. I'm always serious with my relationships. I am playful as a girlfriend since I want to play and have fun with my boyfriend so much but take note that I only play with my boyfriend, I don't go playing around with others.
@WildWetJoyce (215)
• Philippines
10 Oct 08
My naughty Marvin? Serious? Hahaha! That's great though, at least when my original Marvin won't rescue me, the other Marvin is serious.
@srikandi19 (3391)
• Kuta, Indonesia
7 Oct 08
i like a long relationship. it one night stand not seriously friends. just adventure. so i like have many friends and good relationship. happy to you and enjoy your day !
@DarkAng3L (106)
• Romania
8 Oct 08
I only know how to act in a good long relationship. One night stand aren't my thing. I guess I'm too emotional and I might get hurt if I get involved in these kind of adventures.
I like the feeling of protection, the feeling that I'm gonna be with the same person in the future, I like what it has to offer.
@Metalchick (1391)
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8 Oct 08
Glad you found girl your happy with.
As a singleton one night stands often leave me with a nasty taste in my mouth just don't like the way they make me feel...so because of this reason I very rarely go down this road.
Do like long term relationships but have been single for a while now and am such an independant woman not sure i'd have time to fit a man in my life right now.
. I'm sure i'd give up some of my single life if I ever meet right guy though...mr rights out there somewhere...I hope
As a singleton one night stands often leave me with a nasty taste in my mouth just don't like the way they make me feel...so because of this reason I very rarely go down this road.
Do like long term relationships but have been single for a while now and am such an independant woman not sure i'd have time to fit a man in my life right now.. I'm sure i'd give up some of my single life if I ever meet right guy though...mr rights out there somewhere...I hope
@glords (2614)
• United States
10 Oct 08
I am a married woman and plan on spending the rest of my life with the same man. I think that marriage is very comforting. It is the ultimate commitment, and with it comes a feeling of security and comfort. Also it comes with a feeling of loyalty and gratitude. Gratitude because I know he will never do anything that would cause me pain, and I will never do anything to hurt him as well.
There is nothing more depressing in my opinion than the idea of trading what I have now for any other life. I can not imagine life without him. He is my the sun that my world spins around.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
8 Oct 08
definitely relationship... i never like one night stand... i always like security and i don't like to play around with people's feelings... so i definitely choose a long term relationship over a one night stand... i am married now anyway... so i don't have a choice anymore... :-) take care and have a nice day...
@jonastabuena (2307)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i can't tell it depends, sometimes a good relationship starts in one night stand, life is so strange, some things happen though we thought its impossible to happen.
@pkraj111 (2458)
• India
8 Oct 08
I like long time relations, even though I am not against one night stand. But I go for one night stand only as long as it doesnot affect my relationships.
@gracie04 (4549)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
i cannot imagine myself having a one night stand... i prefer long term relationship and I am blessed to have such a wonderful partner in life.. =)
@kedves (728)
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8 Oct 08
as long as you are careful and protect yourself then there is no problem with either. a one night stand is about passion and lust and one chance with that person . its exciting and it makes you feel alive. a relationship is something that grows and can become stronger or weaker as time goes by in a one night stand you do not have such problems it like having a dream and wishing for something special .. how often do you get something you really wanted only to be disappointed ? when you are truly lucky you meet the right one for you and your life is wonderful and filled with love and nothing can replace that. so for me there is no best or right or wrong its what happens in the moment ...
@juliamae (127)
• United States
8 Oct 08
I have been with the same person for 3 years and we just got married. Before him, my longest relationship was about 8 months. I am the happiest I have ever been. I couldn't imagine just going from one person to another without any kind of deep connection now that I have had that connection.
@jackiew (915)
• Canada
8 Oct 08
I really do prefer a long relationship over a one night stand-You have to be really carefull with everything that is out there today.Your safer in a long term relationship.
@katsmeow1213 (28716)
• United States
7 Oct 08
I've had my fair share of one nighters, and also a few serious relationships. I've now been married for 5 and a half years and haven't looked back. Everything is so different in a relationship. The intimacy is better. Not only that but you have support and a best friend to confide in. You know everything about that person, and they know everything about you. It's a really safe feeling.
@Jezebella (1446)
• United States
7 Oct 08
I cannot imagine having a one night stand. I prefer to have that relationship where we talk and share things other than a physical act. I think the relationship aspect of things is too important to me. I can't even kiss someone without there being the possibility of a relationship to come down the road. I mean dating awesome cause that leads to relationships, but where does a one night stand go?
