How far would you go to have a baby?

Well, how far? Not far at all - if it doesn't happen then it doesn't happen. I would never cheat on my husband. We are open to adoption and might do it. To your last question, I definitely agree that the father of any child should be aware (unless it is rape). In my opinion, if someone wants a child and is using another person to have one, they should tell or else I don't think they have any business being a mom.

Thats weird, Why didn't she Have a child with him while he was still alive?

I remember the reading about a lady that was in a relationship with a man then she got cancer. She had embryos taken and hoped that when she was better she and her man would have a baby. After her treatment she was not able to get pregnant in the normal way. Sadly she and the man split up. She knew that she really wanted to have a baby and the only way was with the stored embryos but the man said no. So the lady took him to court but the answer was still no. Unfortunately two of my cousins are not able to get pregnant in the normal way. They have got dogs instead of children. I think that if I was in that sort of situation I would adopt. I would arrange to get approved as an adoptive parent in my home country and then I would go abroad to adopt a baby or child. Hopefully I would get a little orphan girl from China. A few years later hopefully I would adopt another little orphan girl from China. I would keep their culture alive and I know a Chinese lady and she has a little boy. Madonna is from the USA and so it might have been easier for her to adopt a little boy from Africa than it would for me from my home country. It is sad that in my home country the adoption procedure is challenging. My friend knows a lady that began a relationship just to get pregnant. She dumbed her boyfriend and had the baby. She brings him up as a single mother and he doesn't know that he is a father. I respect that she doesn't want the father to be aware of what happened. I would never do something like that. If a lady had a one night stand she might fail to get pregnant that time so she probably would have to try again perhaps many times. I think that would be a disgusting way to behave. She should be in a loving relationship. I think that she might like to foster children and then decide if she wants to try to adopt a child. I would be happy to try that. I think legally in my home country that a lady can get pregnant and then abort the baby against the father's wishes. If a baby is born the father has to support the baby even if he wanted his girlfriend to have an abortion. The law is strange sometimes.

well, i want to have a baby from somebody i love.. from my boyfriend and i want my children to know his father.. have a hppy family with my child and his or her dad.. i dont want to do one night stand to have a baby.. babies should be a product of love... it would be very sad if a mom would go for a one night stand or cheat the guy just to have a child.. and if the child will grow up without knowing his father, that would be another sad story too..

I think it's good for her that she is going to try to get that done, it sounds smart, weird, but really smart. I would probably adopt, I'm sure that it would have a lot of benefits for the child.

i think ill ask the guy i truly love to bare me with a child/kid and promise him i wont push myself into him in a relationship afterwards, anyways what matters to me only was the baby...i really wanted to have a baby at this early but due to financial constraint i dont want to, i dont want to sacrifice the future of a baby just by wanting me to have one, maybe when i have a better job then i bet ill have one immediately.

woww... this is new to me... i never heard about this before... i can't believe that people will go to such an extent to have a baby... for me, the most i will do is IVF if all else fails... and i keep on trying with my hubby now as we both really want to have a baby by now... take care and have a nice day...

In my case... i had to quit working abroad just to have a baby... but that is nothing compared to what the woman did... such a thing is not an option here in my country... but if i have the ways and means... i would love to adopt some kids... give them my love... and a home to nurture them...

if this happened to me id go for adoption than the one night stand. because, i remained faithful to my husband despite our incapable of having our own child. adoption is the perfect solution i guess because aside from it gives us joy to be a parent to abandoned kid, it will give the child the chance to have a normal life with the adoptive parents and it help make a difference to the growth of the child. it's a big bonus to both parties.

The laws relating to IVF to be reviewed

I'm currently on a "I wanna have a baby" mode. But I am too young. I know it's not yet time for me to have a baby. I guess if the right time comes, I will have to do it with my boyfriend and have myself get pregnant. I would want the father of my would be baby to be someone I love. I would not want to have an adopted child to be my first child.

How far would I go? Not far at all. I wouldn't do any of the above. Having one night stands is disgusting and I would never adopt. I don't want to be involved in separating a mother and child just because I want one. That doesn't make sense to me at all. Father's should always be aware, with a few exceptions. If the father raped the mother, he shouldn't be aware, he should be in jail.

I'd probably go for the one night stand. Ok, not talking about STDs now, but if I'd really wanted one and didnt have a boyfriend or a husband, that what I would do. Choose my victom and go through with it. I know its not fair to the father or the baby, but I'd probably be quite selfish in this matter and deal with the rest later.