What does turn you on when you look at someone?
By iskayz
@iskayz (5420)
Philippines
October 16, 2008 8:04am CST
Hi everyone!
Physical appearance is the first thing that one notices when we look at people. It is the utmost cause why we suddenly feels admiration or attraction for someone though we do not know them personally.
But what's the first thing you notice when you look at someone? Is it the face, the skin or the body? What do you look for in a person whom you want to have relationship with when it comes to physical appearance?
Please do share!
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22 responses
@divinegwapa (914)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
I think the first thing I look for are the eyes and skin. I just love the eyes! It tells a lot. You don't need to say something but the eyes would reveals what's really inside. I also like guys with longs and dark eyelashes. ;D
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@3cardmonte (5098)
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16 Oct 08
I love a pair of big beautiful................eyes! I love to look into a pair of eyes and get lost in them,I just said that aloud,it sounds really corny!
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@kedves (728)
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16 Oct 08
wow such a difficult question.... i don't think there is one thing stands out more .. maybe for me its the way they carry themselves. i don't like loud or over dressed women. i don't like women who think they are everything to a man. i do like smart, simple women who know they are beautiful (some don't its same) and make sure they do not show it.. soft gentle demure .. as i'm writing this im thinking of different things can attract me .. but you know i think mostly its is just them who they are .. you can sense in someone and feel an attraction .. i think we hide behind things sometimes and ignore the chemistry ... now i am confused as i don't know exactly a specific thing i just know when i see her that i am attracted to her :)
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@mercuryman3a (2477)
• India
16 Oct 08
Well you keep meeting so many people everyday, but you develop a special chemistry with only a few paople. a person may be really beautiful but if she has a "Tocuh me not " attitude, you generally tend to stay away. A lesser beauty, with a welcoming smile has more chances of attracting you. More than the looks it is the attitude that matters. The smile, the manner of speaking, the gestures and body language. Younotice the physical features at a later stage. it is the over all package which is important initially.
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
18 Oct 08
Hello fellow lotters!
I agree with you that the personality is what's more important. But for me I would notice the physical feature first unless I'll be able to talk to the person and bond with him/her, then I'll know his/her personality. Noticing physical feature would be my sign if I want to the person more.
Ciao!
@youzizhile (67)
• China
17 Oct 08
I agree with what you siad.
One should not judge a persion first time he or she meets by the appearance!I think the heart and temperature are more important!
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@sudais2006 (349)
• Pakistan
16 Oct 08
hi friends
its normal to see some one ....
but f u have a see a person of your dreams then it impossible to see to other side cos u would see that Ur dream came true in Ur own life.
and f i got my dream partner then i well be suddenly go there and propose her at once without losing any moment .. but i think it impossible to see her in life
Prince Sad
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@sudais2006 (349)
• Pakistan
16 Oct 08
hhmmm
i m just searching for 001% of my dream girl f i got one percent of her in anybody then i ll got her but ...
not loosing the hope....
but scarred that hope didn't lose me
Prince Sad
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@GourdBreaker (490)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
for me, it's usually the eyes and the hair. i like guys with long hair. but my boyfriend is skinhead, but i love him anyways. lol.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
17 Oct 08
I really get attracted to a woman who has beautiful long hair. It makes a woman look more feminine. © ronaldinu 2008
@LoovesAmethyst (351)
• Philippines
16 Oct 08
I admire looking at a healthy body with well-defined and toned muscles and a nice voice. It takes a lot of good discipline through exercise and diet to achieve a great body so I really admire at how some people achieve it.
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@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I do get attracted to attractive women but I don't think much of them anymore. I must be getting old. Cheers!!
@angeltrhix (279)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
Hi, I agree with you most people look for apperance. I'm one of them too, maybe thats our nature but when I look for a person's apperance and when I know him very long and know what attitude did he have, I realize that I don't like him anymore because being so cute, adorable or handsome he was but his so ungentleman its nothing and makes me turn- off. Yes he has cute eyes, kissesable lips but his heart is so dark. I don't like that!
@dekings3 (6)
• Lebanon
17 Oct 08
Yes i partially agree to the fact that facial look or appearance is the first thing that attract me to any girl. Most times i am moved more by the girl's character than her outward appearance.If phisical appearance draws me close to a girl and after much verification i found out that her inward girl is not as beautiful as her outlook then she is not worth my relationship. Hence i consider fir her character.
@lingli_78 (12822)
• Australia
16 Oct 08
i try my best not to judge people on their physical appearance because looks can really be deceiving... i learn to judge people more on their attitudes and characters... more to the inner side rather than the outer one... because pyhsical appearance can change as you grow older and it is only temporary... but inner beauty is permanent... if you have good attitudes and characters, it won't change and you will have it forever with you until you grow old... take care and have a nice day...
@LilyoftheThorns (12918)
• United States
17 Oct 08
Oh man...a lot of things! lol. I tend to take everything in at the same time :P I'm skilled that way! lol. But there are some things that I pay more attention to...eyes and smile. A good smile is Gooood. lol. And I am butter for pretty eyes :) I also do tend to notice the guys height/build...I defeniatly am not saying a need a really muscular guy! lol. But i do tend to look at guys arms...lol; I don't like the really scary/veiny looking muscle arms! lol.
@Metalchick (1391)
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17 Oct 08
Being 6ft height is always an issue for me and I must admit if their not at least 5'10" they don't qualify . However putting this aside I do like a cute boyish face with a really firm, toned chest. Not too muscular but definately with a V shape going on.
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
I attracted most on eyes and nose. This is for physical aspects. But the most important is the character. Need to be in good moral.
@goodcharlotte (65)
• United States
17 Oct 08
I especially like a good clean face. I don't like a dirty face. I like a nice and intelligent person. I like someone who is caring. I don't necessarily go for someone who looks good but is a jerk. I like someone who is great on the inside too. I like someone who has a heart of gold.
@dragonfang (2)
• Canada
16 Oct 08
I always look at the face first. If she has a pretty face, the rest of the body doesn't matter as much.