if u were single would u date somebody u work with?

@disvachic (10117)
United States
November 7, 2006 9:08pm CST
would u?
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31 responses
• United States
8 Nov 06
NEVER DATE SOMEONE YOU WORK WITH, it's the biggest mistake you can do. you will be distracted from your job and your performance will slack and if the relationship fizzles you will hate your job. believe me it happened to me and now i can't even go back to that store again without thinking about that jerk.
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@lbinkley (1075)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I would never date somebody I work with. This is because I have already made that mistake once, and I won't do it again. If it doesn't go well, you still have to go into work and see them every day. It's hard.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnx for responding
• Kenya
8 Nov 06
Just for the fun and excitement but not seriously...
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnx for responding
@candaceb87 (1362)
• Canada
1 Dec 06
I have dated people that i worked with but it was not very serious so it didn't ruin the work environment, but when i first started living with my daughter's father we both got offered the same job and I got the job and he didn't and it started a big fight!
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thanks for your response
• India
9 Nov 06
Yes I would , it would only be a date not a relationship which could turn into something else.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thanks for your response
@Lydia1901 (16351)
• United States
8 Nov 06
No, I wouldn't. That's a little too much to handle. Relationships and work shouldn't mix.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnx for responding
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
i agree thanks for responding
@Signal20 (2281)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I have, 3 or 4 times lol, not by choice. After the first time, I swore I wouldn't do it again. It's hard to manage though. I've always been able to seperate work/personal life if we had to work together, but the guys seem to have a hard time with that. They get weird lol.
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
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@moneymind (10510)
• Philippines
8 Nov 06
yes i will, i see no wrong in it. greetings. : )
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnks for responding
@ash6666 (819)
• India
8 Nov 06
like this - like this
i will definetly, if i get a chance........
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
can cause problems even if it works for awhile
@kesfylstra (1868)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I dated someone I worked with while I was a college student (he worked for the college, I was a student assistant). The whole relationship was just bad, overall, but it was fairly uncomfortable when it ended. I mean, we were still friendly, but just knowing that this guy knows me intimitaly and maybe might talk to his buddies, or my boss, always made me uncomfortable.
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnks for responding
@saurabh15 (548)
• India
8 Nov 06
no........ i will sleep........
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
15 Nov 06
huh?
@Donnyboy8 (786)
• United States
8 Nov 06
I have in the past and it doesn't work out. Even if you like eachother being together so much can be a bit to handle
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnx for responding
• United States
8 Nov 06
yes, whats the problem
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
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@7nicole1 (1633)
• Canada
8 Nov 06
no way i work with a bunch of computer geeks
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@disvachic (10117)
• United States
8 Nov 06
thnx 4 responding
9 Nov 06
i have and its worked ut so i would do it again i think it depends on where you work and how often you see each other i think it works better if you work in different departments rather than the same one as if one of you get promoted and become the others boss it get complicated and messy
@disvachic (10117)
• United States
1 Dec 06
thanks for your response
• United States
8 Nov 06
My Buddy - Laid back
Been there done that. NO, never again. It is like getting a divorce and having to work with your ex the rest of your life. Think very serious before you do because if the job is worth keeping for a lifetime you make have to live with that person many years.
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I have a policy of not mixing work and social life romantically
@msqtech (15073)
• United States
9 Nov 06
I have a policy of not mixing work and social life romantically
@ravian3 (385)
8 Nov 06
i dont mind
@anca_e (963)
• Romania
8 Nov 06
I wouldn't mind dating somebody from work. We are adults and we should handle the problems in private and not need to let it interfere in our working issues.
@Junig1 (300)
• Barbados
8 Nov 06
no, i made a decision sometime ago that i wouldn't..not a good idea